Not being able to get over her

[Unde4dmau5]

This is going to kinda be a "I need to get something off of my chest" post but I am willing to take any advice you guys can suggest.

So last march, I met this girl through a friend on Facebook. We had never seen each other, but something clicked in us somehow. We fell madly in love with each other and every waking moment would involve her in some form. Anyways, going into my second semester of this last school year, I fell into a slump of anxiety and depression (which I still suffer from to this day). Through the course of it, I didn't talk to hardly anyone. Well, as time went on, she got a boyfriend and just kinda left me hanging on a thread. I was beyond furious. For the most part, I have gotten over her, but I still think about her and I still think about how special she was to me.

So thoughts. I know that thinking about her like that doesn't help me, and I feel like somewhere, she still cares about me like that. So should I just drop the whole thing, or try to pick her back up? I've contemplated it for a while and I just want some second opinions before I make any rash decisions. Thank you!

[Luisss]

I don't think she's worth your time anymore. She's moving on it seems and you should too. They come and go, it's life. Good luck!

[Hudor]

This is going to kinda be a "I need to get something off of my chest" post but I am willing to take any advice you guys can suggest.

So last march, I met this girl through a friend on Facebook. We had never seen each other, but something clicked in us somehow. We fell madly in love with each other and every waking moment would involve her in some form. Anyways, going into my second semester of this last school year, I fell into a slump of anxiety and depression (which I still suffer from to this day). Through the course of it, I didn't talk to hardly anyone. Well, as time went on, she got a boyfriend and just kinda left me hanging on a thread. I was beyond furious. For the most part, I have gotten over her, but I still think about her and I still think about how special she was to me.

So thoughts. I know that thinking about her like that doesn't help me, and I feel like somewhere, she still cares about me like that. So should I just drop the whole thing, or try to pick her back up? I've contemplated it for a while and I just want some second opinions before I make any rash decisions. Thank you!

There was this girl i was great friends with. I went on to fall in love with her and as far as i know she had a crush on me too. But before i could propose or do anything big she started dating my best friend leaving me feeling furious. I felt the same as you do for a long time even after she broke up with him. However i stuck to cultivating my friendship with her and as i got to know her more and more i realised some major differences between us which wouldn't let us be happy together even though i couldn't think of any girl better than her for she seemed perfect to me.

I suggest you do the same thing. Cultivate your friendship and get to know her better. Since you haven't met her anywhere except fb, if possible try to meet her in person. it may be possible that she interpreted your slump period as ignoring her which may be why she moved on. If nothing works between the two of you and the differences are obvious then you should surely drop her.

[sixguy6]

It happened to me too lol this girl and I were super in love and we just stopped texting. But after a while I texted her and she now has bf lol so we're just friend......for now :P

And you should do the same because if you still have feeling for her then talk to her and tell her. If she doesn't like you back then you can move on in peace