gay guys - who were you in *those* dreams

[Stripling]

So, when I was like between 11-12, before I actually thought of myself as gay, I had dreams (I was awake in bed) about sex and stuff with other guys but I started out imagining myself as the girl in the 'romance'. I'm not transgender or anything, I guess just cultural conditioning stopped me imagining 2 guys doing it at first, and cos I liked guys I imagined him with me but in my mind I had to be the girl (kinda weird I know, it's not like I imagined myself physically as a girl I suppose, I just thought of it in those terms i.e. sex = guy + girl). [Edit: so, if I had been watching high school musical i would imagine myself in the role of vanessa hudgens with Zac Efron, it wouldn't just be *me* and Zac Efron]. So did anyone else do this or something similar? Did you become someone else in your dreams (like someone off the TV?). In your fantasies who were you? This didn't last long, I guess I was emulating stuff I'd seen on TV (which was always straight) of course

[Dalcourt]

I don't really remember my dreams in the morning but as far as I know I never was someone else esp. not a girl in my dreams...

[CrazyPerson101]

So, when I was like between 11-12, before I actually thought of myself as gay, I had dreams (I was awake in bed) about sex and stuff with other guys but I started out imagining myself as the girl in the 'romance'. I'm not transgender or anything, I guess just cultural conditioning stopped me imagining 2 guys doing it at first, and cos I liked guys I imagined him with me but in my mind I had to be the girl (kinda weird I know, it's not like I imagined myself physically as a girl I suppose, I just thought of it in those terms i.e. sex = guy + girl). [Edit: so, if I had been watching high school musical i would imagine myself in the role of vanessa hudgens with Zac Efron, it wouldn't just be *me* and Zac Efron]. So did anyone else do this or something similar? Did you become someone else in your dreams (like someone off the TV?). In your fantasies who were you? This didn't last long, I guess I was emulating stuff I'd seen on TV (which was always straight) of course


First let me say I completely understand ( I've done the same thing ( about Zac Efron ) :) ) Anyway yeah I would be teh "girl" of the romance but physically a girl so I got your point in that part as well. I've dreamt a couple times but not alot..... Anyway hope that helps

[sixguy6]

Nope lol usually I'm myself in my dreams and if I did have a sexual dream then it was me and a girl

[george98]

You worry so much for a dream. Relax dreams are meant to do that, i mean in ur dreams you fantasize what you saw today or what you cant be or what you wanna be. Since you are telling us you are not transgender or gay then there is no reason of being worried at all. Hope it helps :)

[Stripling]

First let me say I completely understand ( I've done the same thing ( about Zac Efron ) :) ) Anyway yeah I would be teh "girl" of the romance but physically a girl so I got your point in that part as well. I've dreamt a couple times but not alot..... Anyway hope that helps

it feels so good to know *someone* else had similar thing going on. thanks, it definitely helps ;)

[CrazyPerson101]

it feels so good to know *someone* else had similar thing going on. thanks, it definitely helps ;)


Well feel free to PM me anytime you want ( assuming you want to ) Cool that it helps :)

[Stripling]

Well feel free to PM me anytime you want ( assuming you want to ) Cool that it helps :)

Hey, i would but I haven't made enough posts to be able too, apparently :(

[CrazyPerson101]

Hey, i would but I haven't made enough posts to be able too, apparently :(


Well you have to have at least 100 posts to be able to pm ( Keep forgetting that XD ) Anyway log in everyday and post , it adds up quick , Ive been here for 3 weeks and have 440+ posts