Would you loose your virginity to a FWB or someone u love?

[Cognizant]

Just curious. If you are(or were a virgin and wish you could do it over), would you want to loose it to a hookup or a friends with benefit, or would you want to wait to do it with someone you love?

I always thought of waiting for someone to love, but then i kind of realized all the negative connotations it could have behind it. idek. I'm not like planning on loosing my virginity tomorrow or anything but if someone asked I might not refuse. Anyone else like me?

[Horatio Nelson]

Definitely with a significant other.

I have no interest whatsoever to just bang someone for the sake of losing my virginity.

[Gamma Male]

Well losing it to someone I'm in love with would be nice, but if the opportunity presented itself and the guy was attractive and everything I don't think I'd refuse.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

When I loose my virginity, it's gonna be with a guy that I have romantic attachment to.

[sixguy6]

Well I already lost mine to a FWB but if I could choose it probably would have been with one that I love

[Cognizant]

Definitely with a significant other.

I have no interest whatsoever to just bang someone for the sake of losing my virginity.

When I loose my virginity, it's gonna be with a guy that I have romantic attachment to.

Well I already lost mine to a FWB but if I could choose it probably would have been with one that I love

Interesting, thanks for your responses. is there any reason why though? Just for that feeling of attachment to your partner ?

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Interesting, thanks for your responses. is there any reason why though? Just for that feeling of attachment to your partner ?

My reason would definitely be because, to me sex is more about love than simply physical pleasure. (Not that sex is for marriage, because I can't wait that long, and it doesn't always work that way). Plus it'd feel better being with someone that I have emotional attachment to, so we could cuddle and kiss and stuff like that. :love:
Plus in losing your virginity to a lover, you are more likely to get the truth about whether the have an STI or not. You've always got to look out for your health.

[Cognizant]

My reason would definitely be because, to me sex is more about love than simply physical pleasure. (Not that sex is for marriage, because I can't wait that long, and it doesn't always work that way). Plus it'd feel better being with someone that I have emotional attachment to, so we could cuddle and kiss and stuff like that. :love:
Plus in losing your virginity to a lover, you are more likely to get the truth about whether the have an STI or not. You've always got to look out for your health.

Ah ok. I personally see sex differently but your point is very valid indeed! Especially with the STI part

[sixguy6]

Well i think it would have been nice to do it with a girl that i rly rly liked because i did liked girl with obvs but yeah lol

[Blood]

Virginity isn't even really a thing. It's something society has made up to put pressure on people sexually.

I would've liked my first time to be more special and with someone I really love, like my current boyfriend. But it's over now and I've come to terms that sex is entirely what you make of it.

[Melodic]

My choice is with someone I love. I'd rather lose my virginity to someone I have an emotional connection with than someone who looks at it like a fun time.

[Miserabilia]

I don't really care either way.
It depends on the situation, sure losing it to someone you love sounds very romantic but it's also the first time so it's probably awkward, which makes me wonder, would it really be romantic and not just awkward? I dunno.

[Just Sayin]

I lost mine to my first girlfriend thought i loved her at the time lol

[Plasma]

I'm definitely not losing it to a FWB or anything like that

[Cognizant]

I don't really care either way.
It depends on the situation, sure losing it to someone you love sounds very romantic but it's also the first time so it's probably awkward, which makes me wonder, would it really be romantic and not just awkward? I dunno.

The problem I have with it is if I loose it to someone I'm dating, how I would feel about it after I break up with someone (cause let's be real, you usually don't marry your high school sweetheart). I was thinking back on it, and if my first boyfriend did it with me I would have totally regretted it.

[Luminous]

Just in general, I don't see myself ever having random hookups or FWB. I don't really think there's anything wrong with those things (assuming you know what you're doing), I just personally am more comfortable with someone I'm in a relationship with. So yeah, when I have sex for the first time I want it to be with someone I am in a relationship with (though not necessarily someone I love).

[gothy]

someone I am in a relationship with. Although I'm in no rush to get into a relationship or lose my virginity. yeah I'm kind of old I guess.....but to me it isn't important.

[TheFSM]

I'd want it to be with someone I really loved, or else it really has no meaning to it.

[Luisss]

I'd rather lose mine with a girl (or guy)* I am actually connected to instead of some random person or friend.

[Body odah Man]

Just in general, I don't see myself ever having random hookups or FWB. I don't really think there's anything wrong with those things (assuming you know what you're doing), I just personally am more comfortable with someone I'm in a relationship with. So yeah, when I have sex for the first time I want it to be with someone I am in a relationship with (though not necessarily someone I love).

Well said. Finally, someone with morals.
I too would go for the whole 'losing to love' thing :)

[jacksonthelan]

although im not a virgin and i dont have a preference, but i did loose my virginity with my best friend

[churris]

Just in general, I don't see myself ever having random hookups or FWB. I don't really think there's anything wrong with those things (assuming you know what you're doing), I just personally am more comfortable with someone I'm in a relationship with. So yeah, when I have sex for the first time I want it to be with someone I am in a relationship with (though not necessarily someone I love).

This exactly. I did have my first time with someone I love, but just because I don't see myself having sex with random people, I need to trust them to have that kind of intimacy.

However, if I break up with with my current boyfriend, even in horrible circumstances or whatever, I wouldn't (and don't) regret it because right now I care for him and also did at the moment.

[Stumpygoat]

I would have to be in love with the person

[CrazyPerson101]

Just curious. If you are(or were a virgin and wish you could do it over), would you want to loose it to a hookup or a friends with benefit, or would you want to wait to do it with someone you love?

I always thought of waiting for someone to love, but then i kind of realized all the negative connotations it could have behind it. idek. I'm not like planning on loosing my virginity tomorrow or anything but if someone asked I might not refuse. Anyone else like me?

If I were to lose my virginity, it would be with someone Id have a romantic attachment to ( and love but you get my point ).

Id rather have it special the first time than just trying to hurry and lose my virginity.

[Lisa R]

No i don't think i could with fwb if i had one. So most likely with someone i really love.

[Magg]

i lost it to a guy that i barely knew (wasnt even a friend), but he was he really hot and all, and i was really horny that day. it was short but good, he was a virgin too i think.

[Canadian Dream]

I definitely would rather loose it to someone I love simply because it would feel more honest and less regrets afterwards.

[Bull]

I definitely would rather loose it to someone I love simply because it would feel more honest and less regrets afterwards.

Excellent. Me too!

[LuisFer]

I did it with someone I love and it was amazing. Way better than any other random hookup or friend with benefit I've had sex with.

[KellyNC]

For me it was with a very close friend with benefits whom I'd already done some 'experimenting' with, and I'm glad I did. Our relationship outside of the bedroom didn't, and hasn't changed at all, and we've remained the best of friends.

[HannahB]

I wouldn't want to lose my virginity at all. I'd prefer to give it away to someone I love and trust.o l