Losing Anal Virginity First?

[Amber98]

I've heard some girls and even here on the forum that they have anal sex instead so they can remain virgins vaginally. is it actually a real thing?

if that's your case people say that anal hurts a lot so

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity?
how did you handle it the first time?
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity?
how big was the guy?
how old was he?
are you still a virgin vaginally?
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse?

[Amber98]

i seen many of you saying that and now that i need info you're not :(

[Lizzielikesboth]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity?
how did you handle it the first time? It was uncomfortable but ok small dicks are helpful and a lot of lube
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 16
how big was the guy? i forget but normal
how old was he? 17
are you still a virgin vaginally? HA HA HA LOL nope
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Vag

[Gottaloveaginger14]

Yes it actually happens. Ive never had anal but a lot of my friends have. and having anal before anal first is often called the christian position

[DanielleIU]

The christian position.....haha, I never heard that before. But yes, I know girls who have had only anal so far. Part of it is a perception that they are preserving their virginity, but I think most do it as a form of birth control. They just feel it's safer. And they enjoy it so it works for them.

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes both physically and mentally.
how did you handle it the first time? My bf did his best to relax me and that's what I tried to do. It's important not to tense up, so I focused on my bf instead of what was happening below. It hurt. But my bf helped me breathe through the pain so I didn't scream loudly.
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 15
how big was the guy? Maybe a bit bigger than others I have seen
how old was he? 16
are you still a virgin vaginally? No
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Vag, but I enjoy anal too and am glad it's part of my sexual repertoire.

[honeybear]

i lost my anal virginity the same day as my vaginal virginity...I was fairly young and he was normal size but it was rather uncomfortable...I remember him using fingers and a lot of lube to get me ready

[sallyfunshine]

i did this but in a diff way. i prpared for it. use ur fingers! and libe! i did it cuz i wanted to explore my heterosexuality/homosexuality/bisexuality...i had no idea what i wanted a couple years ago. i first started fooling round at a young age with my cousins (distant by blood but close by relationship) and when my male cousin wanted sex i didnt to give it to him cuz i wanted to give my virginity to someone i could love forever, couldnt love him if i was gay. so i did anal and it was good so if u want to experiment but not to give someone too much power goo ahead

[Satsuki]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Of course :)
how did you handle it the first time? Well i waas trying to relax and be calm :)
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 15
how big was the guy? 6,5 inches
how old was he? 18
are you still a virgin vaginally? Nope
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? vagina :)

[lenka11]

i am virgin in both, but i like anal masturbation, so i dont see any problem if my boy want it :D

[jenny_99]

sum of my friends do that lol but not i:P

[nicole97]

On a personal level I lost my anal virginity (15) a lot letter than my vaginal (13), and still much prefer vaginal. As far as the idea of losing anal virginity first it definitely does happen in some circles, both for religious and birth control reasons, but I feel like it's still pretty rare.

[Daniella98]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes I did. He was very gentle and payed attention. It was like he did everything he could for it not to hurt.
how did you handle it the first time? It was easy. Of course I was nervous, but he made me feel safe so I could enjoy it.
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? Back then I thought he was big, but I hadn't seen a hard penis that many times, so I almost hadn't much in my mind in comparisom.
how old was he? 20
are you still a virgin vaginally? No
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? I love both. Not easy to answer. Anal can be sooo awesome, but I wouldnt miss vaginal for the world.

My first experience was an absolute dream, but I dont think anyone should depend on finding a guy just as nice as him for their first experience. Ive tried guys who just wanted to jank it up there and do their thing... So choose wisely

[shaune]

I fined anal To sore

[evgenia]

My opinion is that the anus is for one thing only and that's not for penetration by a penis! We girls have a perfectly good vagina designed for the purpose!!!

[churris]

I haven't done anal, but know a couple of girls who did it before vaginal, mostly for birth control reasons, the feel safer that way. I wouldn't do it though, if you practice safe sex there's no "need" to do anal for BC (unless of course you both want it for pleasure.)

[elisharowlyxx]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes my bf started fingering it
how did you handle it the first time? It hurt but after a while become so good
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? 6"
how old was he? 13
are you still a virgin vaginally? No
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Both

[Luminous]

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[allisonmyers]

want to try it but afraid to

[KidStalion]

I am bi and have
did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity?yes fingering
how did you handle it the first time? It hurt for a little bit bur then felt good
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity?11
how big was the guy?4 inches long and huge in thickness
how old was he?11
are you still a virgin vaginally?dont have a vagina
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse?anal cause i dont have a vagina

[Stephanie 15]

I'm still a virgin vag and anal. I'm to afraid to try anal.

[butterflykisses69]

A friend of mine just recently told me she lets the guys she hooks up with casually put it in her ass but she's waiting for a special guy to take her vag virginity

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes, stretching and lube
how did you handle it the first time? It was a bit uncomfortable at first but I enjoyed it
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? almost 6 in
how old was he? 13
are you still a virgin vaginally? no
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Anal is just a little bit better

[Karkat]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? I guess
how did you handle it the first time? It kinda hurt, but it was mostly just weird.
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 16 or 17
how big was the guy? 6in
how old was he? 21 I'm sure. (That sounds really funny I know, but he turned 21 in October, whereas my birthday is in February; I can't remember how old /I/ was, but I'm almost certain it wasn't before his 21st birthday.)
are you still a virgin vaginally? Noooo, and I wasn't then either.
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? VAGINAL. By far.

[Cangirl]

Well Ive had fingers up my bum and I like that and I do that when I masturbate and I will try it one day lol. Ive heard lube is so important and so is him going slow. Virgin with boys for both places so far but might change soon ;)

[mollyjellybelly]

Well Ive had fingers up my bum and I like that and I do that when I masturbate and I will try it one day lol. Ive heard lube is so important and so is him going slow. Virgin with boys for both places so far but might change soon ;)

Done the finger thing too and hairbrush handle. Liked both of them so I might try that first with a guy. Still virgin both places (unless the hairbrush counts!)

[Cangirl]

Done the finger thing too and hairbrush handle. Liked both of them so I might try that first with a guy. Still virgin both places (unless the hairbrush counts!)

yeah I've done the hairbrush thing up my bum to and I dontknow if that counts either. Ive even used two lol one in each place I mean.

[mollyjellybelly]

Well Ive had fingers up my bum and I like that and I do that when I masturbate and I will try it one day lol. Ive heard lube is so important and so is him going slow. Virgin with boys for both places so far but might change soon ;)

yeah I've done the hairbrush thing up my bum to and I dontknow if that counts either. Ive even used two lol one in each place I mean.

Done that too! I'm saying for now that it doesn't count!

[Cangirl]

Done that too! I'm saying for now that it doesn't count!

Yeah i think for it to count it has to be an actual boy lol

[suzzysmith2012]

I've heard some girls and even here on the forum that they have anal sex instead so they can remain virgins vaginally. is it actually a real thing?

if that's your case people say that anal hurts a lot so

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes, a dildo the roughly the size of his penis and lots of lube
how did you handle it the first time? It was OK, took it real slow, hurt a bit at first
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 12
how big was the guy? Average for a 12 yr. Old
how old was he? 12
are you still a virgin vaginally? No
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Vagina mostly,, will have anal if we are out of condoms or just want to switch it up some

[lilg]

i know people who will do that but i had vaginal and anal around the same time. i love it both.

[becky123]

1) no didn't get prepared
2) hurt but felt good at the same time
3) 14
4) idk
5) he was21
6)no
7) vag

[PaulDove]

Really interesting topic!

[UserMissing]

never lost my anal virginity, i just use toys

[StephyBabes]

[QUOTE=Amber98;2834221]I've heard some girls and even here on the forum that they have anal sex instead so they can remain virgins vaginally. is it actually a real thing?

if that's your case people say that anal hurts a lot so

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity?had poo and used lube
how did you handle it the first time? Sore at start
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity?13
how big was the guy?medium
how old was he?23
are you still a virgin vaginally?no
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse?anal

[littlekitten]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes, with lube
how did you handle it the first time?*Like a champ
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? 7-8 inches
how old was he? 16
are you still a virgin vaginally? No
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Vaginal

[LucieP]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? fingering
how did you handle it the first time? didnt like it, painful
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? umm, normal?
how old was he? 14
are you still a virgin vaginally? no
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? orgasm from anal = rare but intense, orgasm from vag = pretty easy but no so intense. Overall vag is better.

[ClaraWho]

virginity is such a nonsense heterosexual concept - it's only relevant to how you wish to categorise yourself.

[Swedish_boy]

virginity is such a nonsense heterosexual concept - it's only relevant to how you wish to categorise yourself.

Amen!

[Nicolette]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes lube
how did you handle it the first time? amazing
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? 5.5 in?
how old was he? 16
are you still a virgin vaginally? no
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Anal

[iamsilkspectre]

Only tried once and I don't really like it. I have a vagina for that purpose. :P

[Emerald Dream]

did you get prepared before losing your anal virginity? Yes lube
how did you handle it the first time? amazing
how old were you when you lost your anal virginity? 13
how big was the guy? 5.5 in?
how old was he? 16
are you still a virgin vaginally? no
do you prefer anal or vaginal intercourse? Anal

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