Showering with my lil bro?

[Hairy 4 ever]

My mom and dad make me shower with my lil Bro and k tell them I want to take a shower seperatley cause whenever I shave in spots he goes and tells them!! I really want him to not take a sheer with me ! I am 15 and he is 7. Btw I don't shave it right there in front of him but I tell him to get out once he is done and then I do it . My parents don't know that I shave they think my ill bro is making lies up. It is my body not there's and I can do what I want. Plz provide good reasons so I can tell my dad and mom to stop taking a shower with my bro.

[Living For Love]

Tell them you think you're old enough to have the right to shower alone, and that you don't feel comfortable showering with someone else, seeing you naked. Or you can always try to shower either sooner or later then your brother, when he's busy doing something else.

[sixguy6]

Just tell them you're to old to showering with your sibling. Or just shower when hes not there

[Jack russell dad]

Tell them your going through puberty and their are changes going on. Explain to them that you feel uncomfertable in front of him and that you require privacy. Also tell them that since you have hormones in your body that you are getting urges or needs and have to fill them. I hope this helps. One question, tho. Why shave your pubic bush? It is part of your manhood.

[tom101]

The best way to deal with this is just to ask them why they make you shower with your younger bro. Once you know why, then you can ask them if they mind if you shower alone. Best thing to do is not just go up to them and tell them why you think you should, but get an understanding of why they make you do it and if needs be start argue your point ageist there's.

[Soxman97]

Tell them that you should be able to shower separate so you get more privacy

[Lost in the Echo]

Yeah, really you deserve some privacy. Your brother isn't a toddler anymore, he's old enough to bathe/shower himself. Your parents need to realize that.

[Justdance613]

My mom and dad make me shower with my lil Bro and k tell them I want to take a shower seperatley cause whenever I shave in spots he goes and tells them!! I really want him to not take a sheer with me ! I am 15 and he is 7. Btw I don't shave it right there in front of him but I tell him to get out once he is done and then I do it . My parents don't know that I shave they think my ill bro is making lies up. It is my body not there's and I can do what I want. Plz provide good reasons so I can tell my dad and mom to stop taking a shower with my bro.

Tell them you are old enough to take showers by yourself. Tell them you are going through changes you would rather not share with your brother. If that doesn't work make them feel uncomfortable. I probably didn't help a lot. But put some of the other responses together and you should have a good argument.

[Jtyler]

That's kinda creepy, you need your privacy

[ChaseDakoda]

Ask them If lil bro can shower by hisself because I have erges that I need to releave and last time I got a erection and he asked me all questuins

[ksdnfkfr]

This really does not sound like something a 15 yo should have to explain. A little brother being disabled is the only reason I can think of that he can't take a shower by himself. Maybe you should start trying to take a shower with your dad and see how he likes that idea....maybe he'll get the point.

[Curious.kid]

The best way to deal with this is just to ask them why they make you shower with your younger bro. Once you know why, then you can ask them if they mind if you shower alone. Best thing to do is not just go up to them and tell them why you think you should, but get an understanding of why they make you do it and if needs be start argue your point ageist there's.

Tell them that you should be able to shower separate so you get more privacy

Yeah, really you deserve some privacy. Your brother isn't a toddler anymore, he's old enough to bathe/shower himself. Your parents need to realize that.

Tell them you are old enough to take showers by yourself. Tell them you are going through changes you would rather not share with your brother. If that doesn't work make them feel uncomfortable. I probably didn't help a lot. But put some of the other responses together and you should have a good argument.

This really does not sound like something a 15 yo should have to explain. A little brother being disabled is the only reason I can think of that he can't take a shower by himself. Maybe you should start trying to take a shower with your dad and see how he likes that idea....maybe he'll get the point.


It's all because his parents want to save water and money and time if your in a hurry. My parents make me and my little brother take a shower together and he's 5. The only thing I don't like is getting a boner because I don't want him to see me like that. But the parents make the rules and it's something you just have to do and it's not weird. At least they're both boys.

[ksdnfkfr]

It's all because his parents want to save water and money and time if your in a hurry. My parents make me and my little brother take a shower together and he's 5. The only thing I don't like is getting a boner because I don't want him to see me like that. But the parents make the rules and it's something you just have to do and it's not weird. At least they're both boys.

Once in a while is okay. But i think parents insisting on it daily doesn't seem fair, and like you pointed out is super awkward for the older brother. I've bathed and showered with my cousin here and there my whole life. But it's not like we must do so every single day. As close as we are that would get really annoying really fast.

[tom101]

It's all because his parents want to save water and money and time if your in a hurry. My parents make me and my little brother take a shower together and he's 5. The only thing I don't like is getting a boner because I don't want him to see me like that. But the parents make the rules and it's something you just have to do and it's not weird. At least they're both boys.

I would feel awkward if i had to shower with my sis. Think most people get to an age where showering becomes a privet matter. If his parents where worry about the cost of water there are practical things they can do to insure that they do not have to shower together.

[Hardcatch]

The easiest way is to sit down and have a reverse sex talk with your dad and explain to him that while all these changes are happening to your body, developing and all, and it is time to have seperate showers for privacy. A brother that young has no business having regular showers with someone your age

[Wyatt 13]

My dad wanted me to take showers with my baby bro until he hit 10, then he said better separately cuz my body changes I guess u need to talk with your parents about your privacy.

[Justdance613]

It's all because his parents want to save water and money and time if your in a hurry. My parents make me and my little brother take a shower together and he's 5. The only thing I don't like is getting a boner because I don't want him to see me like that. But the parents make the rules and it's something you just have to do and it's not weird. At least they're both boys.

My mom and dad make me shower with my lil Bro and k tell them I want to take a shower seperatley cause whenever I shave in spots he goes and tells them!! I really want him to not take a sheer with me ! I am 15 and he is 7. Btw I don't shave it right there in front of him but I tell him to get out once he is done and then I do it . My parents don't know that I shave they think my ill bro is making lies up. It is my body not there's and I can do what I want. Plz provide good reasons so I can tell my dad and mom to stop taking a shower with my bro.


I'm sorry curious kid I have to disagree. He is uncomfortable with showering with his little brother. Yes parents make the rules but they should also take into consideration of their childrens needs. Hairy 4 ever doesn't want to take a shower with his little brother. In my opinion his parents should respect his privacy. Also if his little brother goes and tells when he shaves that would be sort of embarassing to me. I might be wrong but to me it sounds like they always take showers together. Again Imight be wrong but you can't always be in such a hurry that your 15 year old and your 7 year old have to take a shower. So Hairy 4 ever I would just explain to them that you are uncomfortable taking a shower with your brother.

[Just Sayin]

I think you need to have a talk with your parents and tell them you want to shower by yourself

[Hairy 4 ever]

I'm sorry curious kid I have to disagree. He is uncomfortable with showering with his little brother. Yes parents make the rules but they should also take into consideration of their childrens needs. Hairy 4 ever doesn't want to take a shower with his little brother. In my opinion his parents should respect his privacy. Also if his little brother goes and tells when he shaves that would be sort of embarassing to me. I might be wrong but to me it sounds like they always take showers together. Again Imight be wrong but you can't always be in such a hurry that your 15 year old and your 7 year old have to take a shower. So Hairy 4 ever I would just explain to them that you are uncomfortable taking a shower with your brother.

Personally I think your reply was the most helpful I am going to go talk to my dad first tom and then both of them together I am not going to hide anymore I am done I am 15 I can make my own decisions and I need my privacy thank you to all who supported me! 😁

[Justdance613]

Personally I think your reply was the most helpful I am going to go talk to my dad first tom and then both of them together I am not going to hide anymore I am done I am 15 I can make my own decisions and I need my privacy thank you to all who supported me! 😁

I hope it goes well

[esparza.warren]

If you're uncomfortable, tell your parents. Try to make them understand that despite their reasons, you've come to an age where you need privacy and your brother needs to grow up and shower for himself.

[CrazyPerson101]

My mom and dad make me shower with my lil Bro and k tell them I want to take a shower seperatley cause whenever I shave in spots he goes and tells them!! I really want him to not take a sheer with me ! I am 15 and he is 7. Btw I don't shave it right there in front of him but I tell him to get out once he is done and then I do it . My parents don't know that I shave they think my ill bro is making lies up. It is my body not there's and I can do what I want. Plz provide good reasons so I can tell my dad and mom to stop taking a shower with my bro.


Well you're getting older. You need to make them understand that you are getting older and you'd like to be able to shower by yourself. Don't be rude about it but make them get your point. Hope this helps :)

[allan_cris]

just tell them that you are old enough and that you need you privacy since you are going to puberty and you dont feel comfortable with your little brother in there

[nklarke]

The best way to deal with this is just to ask them why they make you shower with your younger bro. Once you know why, then you can ask them if they mind if you shower alone. Best thing to do is not just go up to them and tell them why you think you should, but get an understanding of why they make you do it and if needs be start argue your point ageist there's.

I agree with this opinion.

Why your parents want it is the question here.

[AndrewWiggins]

I'd say your too old to be showering with him.

[wwad]

Just explain politely that your not comfortable showering with him. Or just beat him to the bathroom and lock him out :)

[briefsboy]

if your parents say no, i would jsut make your brother wait until your done....you are bigger than him!

[Goat69]

Just chat to your parents and to your bro

[Dead Account]

It really doesn't matter if you shave or not. Its nothing to be embarrassed by.

[Dave2u]

if you are in a small house you can always wait till everyone is done and be the last in to shower. it is rare that we all have to at one time. Open shower in the basement dad put in over the drain. it has a curtain part way around and I use it when I want to be private since is is seldom used

[Elysium]

Just chat to your parents and to your bro
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