Chandrinasty
June 10th, 2014, 08:29 PM
My group and I are thinking of maybe setting up our 2 friends. I'm trying to get all the opinions I can.
Some basic info. They're both 18 (we just graduated YEEEES). One is admittedly bisexual (let's call him Wes) AND has admitted to being attracted to the other friend and yes the other knows.The other friend (who we'll call Ray) is definitely interested in girls but we think he not only denies having an interest in guys but having feelings for our other friend.
Why do we think this? We have our reasons.
Ray is remarkably comfortable with Wes' sexuality. They used to make A LOT of gay sex jokes and that's not as common but even now, Wes says some pretty upfront and openly gay stuff to him without any care to where they are and who's around and Ray does nothing about it. Wes told Ray through a text that all it would take is his word and he would stop the sexual behavior for good. All Ray said was "it's cool"
For prom, we went to Galveston. We were joking about hand-holding and Ray grabbed Wes' hands on the way back to the hotel and kept it like that until we got back. Also on this night, Wes was freeballing in his shorts and was a little bulgy. We all noticed on several occasions Ray looking towards Wes' area. Later that night, Wes and I were chilling on my bed when Ray got on it with us and pushed us together. Then, he took Wes' hand and put it on my butt as a joke. But even though no one else saw this, when Wes moved his hand he stroked Ray down below. Wes never takes things so far as to make a serious advance on Ray so I assume it was a genuine accident. He said "Sorry" out loud and Ray didn't respond but he did let out a sexy little moan that he failed to stifle.
We often catch them looking into each other's eyes. When Wes complains about his neck or back, Ray willingly massages him without asking. And while Wes is more willing to openly express his feelings for Ray, when asked in private Ray will tell you that there's no one he appreciates and likes more. And usually, Ray would pull away pretty quickly from Wes' hugs (he never denies them though) but recently when they would hug he keeps hugging back until Wes decides to let go.
We've asked Wes about it and he remains "certain" that Ray is not into him or guys at all. We're just not sure. If that is the case, that's one weird friendship IMO.
Some basic info. They're both 18 (we just graduated YEEEES). One is admittedly bisexual (let's call him Wes) AND has admitted to being attracted to the other friend and yes the other knows.The other friend (who we'll call Ray) is definitely interested in girls but we think he not only denies having an interest in guys but having feelings for our other friend.
Why do we think this? We have our reasons.
Ray is remarkably comfortable with Wes' sexuality. They used to make A LOT of gay sex jokes and that's not as common but even now, Wes says some pretty upfront and openly gay stuff to him without any care to where they are and who's around and Ray does nothing about it. Wes told Ray through a text that all it would take is his word and he would stop the sexual behavior for good. All Ray said was "it's cool"
For prom, we went to Galveston. We were joking about hand-holding and Ray grabbed Wes' hands on the way back to the hotel and kept it like that until we got back. Also on this night, Wes was freeballing in his shorts and was a little bulgy. We all noticed on several occasions Ray looking towards Wes' area. Later that night, Wes and I were chilling on my bed when Ray got on it with us and pushed us together. Then, he took Wes' hand and put it on my butt as a joke. But even though no one else saw this, when Wes moved his hand he stroked Ray down below. Wes never takes things so far as to make a serious advance on Ray so I assume it was a genuine accident. He said "Sorry" out loud and Ray didn't respond but he did let out a sexy little moan that he failed to stifle.
We often catch them looking into each other's eyes. When Wes complains about his neck or back, Ray willingly massages him without asking. And while Wes is more willing to openly express his feelings for Ray, when asked in private Ray will tell you that there's no one he appreciates and likes more. And usually, Ray would pull away pretty quickly from Wes' hugs (he never denies them though) but recently when they would hug he keeps hugging back until Wes decides to let go.
We've asked Wes about it and he remains "certain" that Ray is not into him or guys at all. We're just not sure. If that is the case, that's one weird friendship IMO.