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Celtics
June 10th, 2014, 03:46 PM
So I thought I was Bi/Gay for atleast 2 years, I hated it. It made me depressed and didn't want to live not because of people just because I couldn't be gay. I have nothing against the lgbt community. Well I have no more sexual feelings for guys so yeah and again sorry if this seems rude I don't have a problem with anyone and have gay friends. Just needed to get that out.

HazwoldTheElder
June 10th, 2014, 07:02 PM
It's all good, man, we all change. Discovering yourself can leave you confused as to what exact traits you have. Sexuality is weird, a winding path, sometimes you just take the wrong turn, but if you can cope through the long side route of stress then you'll soon make it back to the main path.

I hope all goes well for you, this stuff can be bloody difficult :)

sixguy6
June 12th, 2014, 07:28 AM
Okay......well you just said right now your done being bi or gay. So good for you i guess

Bull
June 12th, 2014, 08:04 AM
We are what we are. You have been confused, now you are confident. That is good. Our sexuality is determined not by environment but by birth. We must all accept that fact and learn to live with our inborn nature. That does not exclude a period of time when we are curious and want or do some experimentation.

CassnovA
June 12th, 2014, 09:27 AM
sorry, your loss bro

Bull
June 12th, 2014, 09:46 AM
sorry, your loss bro

What the hell does that mean?

Miserabilia
June 12th, 2014, 09:52 AM
That's... strange. Well if you are sure that this is the case and that you don't feel this way because of how you were treated when you "were" gay/bi, there's no problem.
I haven't really heard of people completely changing sexuality though, but I guess anything can happen.

Karkat
June 12th, 2014, 09:58 AM
What the hell does that mean?

My sentiments exactly. :rolleyes:

Faolan
June 12th, 2014, 07:49 PM
However you turn out, you are you, and nothing you can do will change you. Sexuality is strange and oftentimes confusing. I just realized this year that I'm most likely gay, even though in the past I've had girl crushes. Whatever happens, happens.