Does this girl seem interested in me?

[User-Unknown]

So, there is this girl who I think likes me. Though, I also feel she likes someone else but she has been showing signs which point to her having feelings for me.

She hovers around me a lot. Recently, I've noticed her do it a little bit more than usual.

I have noticed her chest/shoulders seem to face me. (Saw this on a few other sites about signs a girl might have interest in you)

When playing a group game with her, I was laughing at what someone was doing. I then looked at this girl and still had a smile on my face (she didn't see what I was laughing at). When I looked at her, I noticed her look down and smile (I saw her smile).

She stands close to me, sometimes really close that she is brushing across me.

She sometimes brushes her hand onto mine (most likely on accident)

When I met up in a group (2 other guys, one in which I think this girl likes). When I saw them and was walking up to them, this girl seemed extremely excited and cheerful when seeing me.

One time, see looked at my shirt reading what it said and asked me what it said. (Don't exactly know what this means, but know it could mean something in her interest to me).

On valentines day, I told her that I had a gift for her. She seemed both surprised and shocked at what I said and kept on saying I don't have to give it to her.

She seems to like a lot of the same things I like, even things I don't expect her to like.

I over heard her say that she is really shy (She hardly speaks to me, only a few times she speaks to me, not much though).

She drops the guy who I think she likes (who I said we met up with in a group when she seemed excited when I saw her) home every weekend. This guy always annoys this girl and I can see her get annoyed and angry at the way he treats her. On Facebook, this guy mentioned this girl in a comment to a photo which said "when your crush texts you first", and added "the" and the first letter of my name (looked like… the s). I'm wondering why he did this and what it could mean.

So does she seem interested in me, or is she just a friend?

[LouBerry]

So, there is this girl who I think likes me. Though, I also feel she likes someone else but she has been showing signs which point to her having feelings for me.

She hovers around me a lot. Recently, I've noticed her do it a little bit more than usual.

I have noticed her chest/shoulders seem to face me. (Saw this on a few other sites about signs a girl might have interest in you)

When playing a group game with her, I was laughing at what someone was doing. I then looked at this girl and still had a smile on my face (she didn't see what I was laughing at). When I looked at her, I noticed her look down and smile (I saw her smile).

She stands close to me, sometimes really close that she is brushing across me.

She sometimes brushes her hand onto mine (most likely on accident)

When I met up in a group (2 other guys, one in which I think this girl likes). When I saw them and was walking up to them, this girl seemed extremely excited and cheerful when seeing me.

One time, see looked at my shirt reading what it said and asked me what it said. (Don't exactly know what this means, but know it could mean something in her interest to me).

On valentines day, I told her that I had a gift for her. She seemed both surprised and shocked at what I said and kept on saying I don't have to give it to her.

She seems to like a lot of the same things I like, even things I don't expect her to like.

I over heard her say that she is really shy (She hardly speaks to me, only a few times she speaks to me, not much though).

She drops the guy who I think she likes (who I said we met up with in a group when she seemed excited when I saw her) home every weekend. This guy always annoys this girl and I can see her get annoyed and angry at the way he treats her. On Facebook, this guy mentioned this girl in a comment to a photo which said "when your crush texts you first", and added "the" and the first letter of my name (looked like… the s). I'm wondering why he did this and what it could mean.

So does she seem interested in me, or is she just a friend?

The only way to be one hundred percent sure if she likes you back or not is to ask her.

[Hudor]

yeah agreed with the one above asking her would be simplest

[User-Unknown]

The only way to be one hundred percent sure if she likes you back or not is to ask her.

yeah agreed with the one above asking her would be simplest

Gee… What if I'M TOO SHY TO TELL HER HOW I FEEL.

[LouBerry]

Gee… What if I'M TOO SHY TO TELL HER HOW I FEEL.

Then the opportunity will pass you by and you'll never know. There are very few things in life that you actually have to go out on a limb and try for, with no knowledge beforehand of the outcome, but love is one of them.

[User-Unknown]

Then the opportunity will pass you by and you'll never know. There are very few things in life that you actually have to go out on a limb and try for, with no knowledge beforehand of the outcome, but love is one of them.

So, in other words give up because i can't tell her how I feel.

GOOD ADVICE!!!:(

The best you can do is tell me if the signs mean anything (separately or together), what else can a shy guy do. Nothing… Live life alone forever.

:'(

[LouBerry]

So, in other words give up because i can't tell her how I feel.

GOOD ADVICE!!!:(

The best you can do is tell me if the signs mean anything (separately or together), what else can a shy guy do. Nothing… Live life alone forever.

:'(
No, I'm telling you to stop being a whimp and fucking go for it.
My fiance is shy as Hell, but he really liked me, so he got over it enough to ask me on a date, and now we're getting married, so don't say you can do nothing. It's not that you can't, it's that you won't, and I won't pity you for that. No one can live your life for you, get out there and do it.

[Hudor]

So, in other words give up because i can't tell her how I feel.

GOOD ADVICE!!!:(

The best you can do is tell me if the signs mean anything (separately or together), what else can a shy guy do. Nothing… Live life alone forever.

:'(

The advice is NOT to give up actually. Being shy is well a trait i know all too well about because i'm way too shy myself but there are some times in your life when you have got to muster the courage.
Personally i think the signs could indicate she likes you but if you don't make a move she would obviously move on. So either you ask her or be content with the possibility that she may have liked you any ways.

[User-Unknown]

No, I'm telling you to stop being a whimp and fucking go for it.
My fiance is shy as Hell, but he really liked me, so he got over it enough to ask me on a date, and now we're getting married, so don't say you can do nothing. It's not that you can't, it's that you won't, and I won't pity you for that. No one can live your life for you, get out there and do it.

Fuck you!!!

YOU COULD FUCKING GIVE ME BETTER ADVICE THEN TELLING ME TO JUST ASK…

KNOW WHAT!!! FUCK IT!

[User-Unknown]

The advice is NOT to give up actually. Being shy is well a trait i know all too well about because i'm way too shy myself but there are some times in your life when you have got to muster the courage.
Personally i think the signs could indicate she likes you but if you don't make a move she would obviously move on. So either you ask her or be content with the possibility that she may have liked you any ways.

Thankyou…

This is the type of answer i'm looking for.

Just a clear if the signs are positive or negative, the rest will just happen. At least it might give me a little confidence to do something about it.

Now, I was thinking of telling a few of my friends who know this girl that I have feelings for her… Good Idea or bad?

[LouBerry]

Fuck you!!!

YOU COULD FUCKING GIVE ME BETTER ADVICE THEN TELLING ME TO JUST ASK…

KNOW WHAT!!! FUCK IT!

If that's the way you talk to laddies, I'm sure the girl won't be interested in you.
I'm not trying to offend you, but I used to be really shy too. With girls and guys. I only had like four friends, and I wouldn't even talk to them about things because I was shy. So I get it, that sucks. But I didn't want to be shy, so I started making myself do more outgoing things. Eventually, I grew out of it, and I'm not shy at all anymore. You can do it, I promise you that you can. The thing is, if you don't, then what? You can't always wait for things to come to you, that's a really depressing way to live. Change it. Make things work for yourself.

[User-Unknown]

If that's the way you talk to laddies, I'm sure the girl won't be interested in you.
I'm not trying to offend you, but I used to be really shy too. With girls and guys. I only had like four friends, and I wouldn't even talk to them about things because I was shy. So I get it, that sucks. But I didn't want to be shy, so I started making myself do more outgoing things. Eventually, I grew out of it, and I'm not shy at all anymore. You can do it, I promise you that you can. The thing is, if you don't, then what? You can't always wait for things to come to you, that's a really depressing way to live. Change it. Make things work for yourself.

Depressing… You don't know what depressing is. My life is depressing with what happens in my life (which I'm not willing to talk about).

You had 4 friends. Well with how people treat me (like some rubbish no good when I treat everyone respectfully), I have NO FRIENDS.

Now think about how hard it is for me… Got it...

[CharlieHorse]

You know you can get your answer and have it be 100% accurate. You just have to ask her :)
from what you said, it's at least a friendly liking. If you like her, then ask her if she likes you.

[User-Unknown]

You know you can get your answer and have it be 100% accurate. You just have to ask her :)
from what you said, it's at least a friendly liking. If you like her, then ask her if she likes you.

I CAN'T ASK HER…

GOSH… This is too difficult for me. I give up!!! I just give up!:(:(:(

You all think its just as simple as saying "I like you, do you like me", its not that simple for me. I've tried that, what does that do for me, nothing rejection hurts and its all I have received which has led to my shyness.

[CharlieHorse]

I CAN'T ASK HER…

GOSH… This is too difficult for me. I give up!!! I just give up!:(:(:(

You all think its just as simple as saying "I like you, do you like me", its not that simple for me. I've tried that, what does that do for me, nothing rejection hurts and its all I have received which has led to my shyness.

Imagine if it was her that went up to you and told you that she's shy but she likes you a lot. Wouldn't that be great? She'd be happy if not flattered if you tell her you like her. Sometimes you just have to get a little pumped up and get a confidence boost.

Imagine what it would feel like if you and her became the cute perfect couple. Go for it :)

I do know how you feel though. I've never brought myself to tell any girl that I like them. Partly because I haven't found the right girl.

[User-Unknown]

Imagine if it was her that went up to you and told you that she's shy but she likes you a lot. Wouldn't that be great? She'd be happy if not flattered if you tell her you like her. Sometimes you just have to get a little pumped up and get a confidence boost.

Imagine what it would feel like if you and her became the cute perfect couple. Go for it :)

I do know how you feel though. I've never brought myself to tell any girl that I like them. Partly because I haven't found the right girl.

If its so hard to have a girlfriend why have one at all. I give up… Thats it I GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!

I'M GOING TO BE A LONER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, FEEL LIKE I HAVE NO FRIENDS ALREADY AND DIE FEELING LIKE I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND AM NOT LOVED

The least you could do was tell me if she seems interested by saying yes she seems interested or no i don't think she is. At least it will give me confidence if she does like me or not. I'm new to all of this because I look into the signs and it appears that I'm always wrong, thats what the advice is going to do. But you just don't give it to me. Telling me to just say that i like them and ask if they like me won't work. I have done that before, and what did it do, nothing just led to rejection… ALL THE TIME.

[highschool]

the signs swing towards her liking you, but you honestly have to just go and ask her out. It seems scary, but regardless of her answer, you'll be relieved to know.

[User-Unknown]

the signs swing towards her liking you, but you honestly have to just go and ask her out. It seems scary, but regardless of her answer, you'll be relieved to know.

Cause I'm nervous and shy, I can't just tell her that I like her, rejection hurts and all I have ever received is rejection. Which is why i'm asking the question to find out if the signs show that she seems interested in me, to give me a little confidence as i'm new to all of this had not had much success at all. I know that I have to make the move first, but with the negative tries, its become difficult for me.

I just need advice if she likes me, gain confidence and then I can do something about it.

So thank you for telling me if the signs show she is interested in me, it will help my confidence.

[sixguy6]

Haha yepp very interested! Go for it man and goodluck!

[gothy]

Fuck you!!!

YOU COULD FUCKING GIVE ME BETTER ADVICE THEN TELLING ME TO JUST ASK…

KNOW WHAT!!! FUCK IT!

WOW CALM DOWN! WHAT THE HELL IS YOUR PROBLEM? THEY WEREN'T EVEN BEING RUDE!:eek:

[Camazotz]

I just need advice if she likes me, gain confidence and then I can do something about it.

So thank you for telling me if the signs show she is interested in me, it will help my confidence.

If you want confidence, it's probably best if you stop posting here. You're just psyching yourself out by saying stuff like...

If its so hard to have a girlfriend why have one at all. I give up… Thats it I GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!

I'M GOING TO BE A LONER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, FEEL LIKE I HAVE NO FRIENDS ALREADY AND DIE FEELING LIKE I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND AM NOT LOVED

The least you could do was tell me if she seems interested by saying yes she seems interested or no i don't think she is. At least it will give me confidence if she does like me or not. I'm new to all of this because I look into the signs and it appears that I'm always wrong, thats what the advice is going to do. But you just don't give it to me. Telling me to just say that i like them and ask if they like me won't work. I have done that before, and what did it do, nothing just led to rejection… ALL THE TIME.

and

Depressing… You don't know what depressing is. My life is depressing with what happens in my life (which I'm not willing to talk about).

You had 4 friends. Well with how people treat me (like some rubbish no good when I treat everyone respectfully), I have NO FRIENDS.

Now think about how hard it is for me… Got it...

and

I CAN'T ASK HER…

GOSH… This is too difficult for me. I give up!!! I just give up!:(:(:(

You all think its just as simple as saying "I like you, do you like me", its not that simple for me. I've tried that, what does that do for me, nothing rejection hurts and its all I have received which has led to my shyness.

Talking like that ruins your chances tremendously. Girls can pick up on confidence, and I would bet that you're not acting confident around her. Girls are not attracted to this kind of attitude at all. Drop the whole "I'll be alone forever" act. Make a list of the qualities that a girl would like and focus on showing those qualities. Make another list of the qualities girls don't like and make sure that those thoughts don't enter your thoughts or behavior.

It really is as simple as "ask her."

[gothy]

If its so hard to have a girlfriend why have one at all. I give up… Thats it I GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!

I'M GOING TO BE A LONER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, FEEL LIKE I HAVE NO FRIENDS ALREADY AND DIE FEELING LIKE I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND AM NOT LOVED

The least you could do was tell me if she seems interested by saying yes she seems interested or no i don't think she is. At least it will give me confidence if she does like me or not. I'm new to all of this because I look into the signs and it appears that I'm always wrong, thats what the advice is going to do. But you just don't give it to me. Telling me to just say that i like them and ask if they like me won't work. I have done that before, and what did it do, nothing just led to rejection… ALL THE TIME.



You cant get a girlfriend by sitting on your ass doing nothing. Well i did, but whe was a nightmare. You gotta try, else u got no reason to complain about it !:mad:

[User-Unknown]

If you want confidence, it's probably best if you stop posting here. You're just psyching yourself out by saying stuff like...



and



and



Talking like that ruins your chances tremendously. Girls can pick up on confidence, and I would bet that you're not acting confident around her. Girls are not attracted to this kind of attitude at all. Drop the whole "I'll be alone forever" act. Make a list of the qualities that a girl would like and focus on showing those qualities. Make another list of the qualities girls don't like and make sure that those thoughts don't enter your thoughts or behavior.

It really is as simple as "ask her."

We'll some people are helpful telling me she is interested. Not like you, and a lot of people on these forums.

IS IT TOO HARD FOR YOU TO JUST TELL ME IF YOU THINK SHE HAS INTERST IN ME. IT SEEMS IT IS.

I just need to know confidently if she is interested in me from other peoples perspectives, and instead of looking like a complete asshole, freak and weirdo (which has always happened with all the other girls I've just told how I felt and tried to find out if they like me, they reject me and I lose a friend already feeling like a loner, do you think that will help). But it seems that I'm not going to get help,

THANKS FOR NOTHING EVERYONE.

By the way, I am confident. But when it comes to the girls I like, telling them I like them and asking them out I freeze. But this is indeed the first girl I feel a little comfortable around, but still when it comes to telling her how I feel and asking her out, it's difficult.

[User-Unknown]

Haha yepp very interested! Go for it man and goodluck!

Very interested:eek:. I didn't expect someone to say that.

Thanks for giving me your perspective on if she is interested.

[Camazotz]

We'll some people are helpful telling me she is interested. Not like you, and a lot of people on these forums.

IS IT TOO HARD FOR YOU TO JUST TELL ME IF YOU THINK SHE HAS INTERST IN ME. IT SEEMS IT IS.

I just need to know confidently if she is interested in me from other peoples perspectives, and instead of looking like a complete asshole, freak and weirdo (which has always happened with all the other girls I've just told how I felt and tried to find out if they like me, they reject me and I lose a friend already feeling like a loner, do you think that will help). But it seems that I'm not going to get help,

THANKS FOR NOTHING EVERYONE.

I'm not going to lie to you; that'd be distrustful of me. Not a single person here knows whether she's interested in you or not. There's only one way to know that for sure, and that's to ask her.

You will never get a yes if you never ask. It's worth a rejection and some temporary emotional pain to get a definite answer.

I'm sorry that's not what you want to hear. You asked for advice and this is advice: stop acting so childish, grow a pair, and ask her out on a date. If she says no, then at least you can move on and pursue someone else. Rejection shouldn't ruin your confidence this much. Everyone gets turned down. As long as you bounce back from it, you're still attractive.

[User-Unknown]

I'm not going to lie to you; that'd be distrustful of me. Not a single person here knows whether she's interested in you or not. There's only one way to know that for sure, and that's to ask her.

You will never get a yes if you never ask. It's worth a rejection and some temporary emotional pain to get a definite answer.

I'm sorry that's not what you want to hear. You asked for advice and this is advice: stop acting so childish, grow a pair, and ask her out on a date. If she says no, then at least you can move on and pursue someone else. Rejection shouldn't ruin your confidence this much. Everyone gets turned down. As long as you bounce back from it, you're still attractive.

CANT YOU JUST GIVE ME YOUR PERSPECTIVE. GOSH...

You telling me if she is interested in me or not is not lying. ITS GIVING ME YOUR PERSPECTIVE.

You will be different to me with girls your interested in. You must be someone who fucks around with the guys who treat others with respect... (Aka. Me). Maybe you don't care about looking like a complete freak and you have friends because your a dick to people who treat others with respect. EVERYONE TREATS ME LIKE RUBBISH, A NOBODY. I'D RATHER BE DEAD, NO ONE WILL CARE IF IM DEAD. EVEN MY PARENTS AND ALL THE GIRLS IVE LIKED SO CALLED FRIENDS. NO ONE WILL CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL.

[Camazotz]

CANT YOU JUST GIVE ME YOUR PERSPECTIVE. GOSH...

You telling me if she is interested in me or not is not lying. ITS GIVING ME YOUR PERSPECTIVE.

My perspective is that you're overreacting to this whole situation. You're over-analyzing every little moment you had together with this girl. Based on how you're coming off here, I would assume that she thinks of you as a friend.

You will be different to me with girls your interested in. You must be someone who fucks around with the guys who treat others with respect... (Aka. Me). Maybe you don't care about looking like a complete freak and you have friends because your a dick to people who treat others with respect.

I'm confident because I'm comfortable with myself. I know my positive qualities and my negative ones. I tend to come off as odd when I meet people because my sense of humor is somewhat dark and childish (quite the combination). Most people tell me that they thought I was weird when we first met, but they got used to me and thought I was hilarious. I'm used to some glares because I don't make a great first impression. I've come to terms with this fault. I make up for it with my ability to make people feel happy.

EVERYONE TREATS ME LIKE RUBBISH, A NOBODY. I'D RATHER BE DEAD, NO ONE WILL CARE IF IM DEAD. EVEN MY PARENTS AND ALL THE GIRLS IVE LIKED SO CALLED FRIENDS. NO ONE WILL CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL.

I'm sorry that you're bullied and I'm sorry that you feel neglected. I'm sure that your parents love you very much. No one deserves to feel the way that you do. Find people that are worth caring for and that are willing to care for you back. Form positive relationships with them. Work on keeping these relationships.

[User-Unknown]

My perspective is that you're overreacting to this whole situation. You're over-analyzing every little moment you had together with this girl. Based on how you're coming off here, I would assume that she thinks of you as a friend.



I'm confident because I'm comfortable with myself. I know my positive qualities and my negative ones. I tend to come off as odd when I meet people because my sense of humor is somewhat dark and childish (quite the combination). Most people tell me that they thought I was weird when we first met, but they got used to me and thought I was hilarious. I'm used to some glares because I don't make a great first impression. I've come to terms with this fault. I make up for it with my ability to make people feel happy.



I'm sorry that you're bullied and I'm sorry that you feel neglected. I'm sure that your parents love you very much. No one deserves to feel the way that you do. Find people that are worth caring for and that are willing to care for you back. Form positive relationships with them. Work on keeping these relationships.

Why did I think I could get help on these forums. You just continue going on and on about it. IM LOOKING AT SIGNS ALL SINGLE SIGNS BECAUSE IM NOT 100% sure if she likes me and you telling me she sees me as a friend... It seems I have today I had sex with her and then you say that yes she is into you, what a fucking joke.

I'm off these forums. FUCK YOU ALL, BITCHES!!!!!

[sixguy6]

Very interested:eek:. I didn't expect someone to say that.

Thanks for giving me your perspective on if she is interested.

You're welcome ;) I know a flirt when I see one lol and she seems interested so go for it man

[Lost in the Echo]

I'm shy as hell too, and it has cost me to miss out on a lot in life, and I deeply regret it. Just tell this girl you like her, and see where it goes from there. Being shy your whole life will get you nowhere, it will only make you depressed.
And also, please show a bit of respect. All the people who have posted in this thread have only tried to help you. They don't deserve to be cussed at, or be spoken to in the manner of which you've been using.

[User-Unknown]

You're welcome ;) I know a flirt when I see one lol and she seems interested so go for it man

Do you think its a good idea for me to tell my friends who also know her that I like her? Do you think this is a good start?

[User-Unknown]

I'm shy as hell too, and it has cost me to miss out on a lot in life, and I deeply regret it. Just tell this girl you like her, and see where it goes from there. Being shy your whole life will get you nowhere, it will only make you depressed.
And also, please show a bit of respect. All the people who have posted in this thread have only tried to help you. They don't deserve to be cussed at, or be spoken to in the manner of which you've been using.

I'm already depressed about not having any friends… You have no fricking idea how boring and upsetting it is to not have anything to do and have your parents always annoying you about school work and that i'm not doing things. Also, added on other family problems, being bullied… I am extremely depressed, every time when i have a shower, i sit on the floor curled in a ball. Think its fun in my life… HELL NO!!! Having a girlfriend will just help me get away from it all and feel accepted. But I don't see it happening at all… BECAUSE ALL OF YOU ARE NOT HELPING ME IN THE WAY I THOUGHT.

[sixguy6]

Do you think its a good idea for me to tell my friends who also know her that I like her? Do you think this is a good start?

Look man if you tell your friends they might go tell other people and then she might find out before you even tell her you like her. The closest distance between to points is a straight line. By that I mean go directly to her and tell her that you like her. Like hey I like you and was wondering if you'd go to _______ with me. She will act surprised just to try and cover up that she likes you so dont be shy and keep calm. Keep me posted B)

[User-Unknown]

Look man if you tell your friends they might go tell other people and then she might find out before you even tell her you like her. The closest distance between to points is a straight line. By that I mean go directly to her and tell her that you like her. Like hey I like you and was wondering if you'd go to _______ with me. She will act surprised just to try and cover up that she likes you so dont be shy and keep calm. Keep me posted B)

If only there was a like button on this. Thank you for telling me its a bad idea. I just need to wait for some more people to give me their perspective until i get the confidence to do something about it. With how things are going on these forums with people just telling me that they don't know and just to ask her… doubt it… :/ Its too difficult for me to do it just like that, need time and help to build my confidence.

[LouBerry]

If only there was a like button on this. Thank you for telling me its a bad idea. I just need to wait for some more people to give me their perspective until i get the confidence to do something about it. With how things are going on these forums with people just telling me that they don't know and just to ask her… doubt it… :/ Its too difficult for me to do it just like that, need time and help to build my confidence.

If you don't care about our opinions or our perspectives, you shouldn't have made a thread asking for them.

If you really feel that you in no way can talk to this girl, and ask her how you feel, then you should let it go. Lay low and see if she comes to you instead of the other way around. Then maybe start slow and try to just be friends with her. Don't go in for the kill and ask her out of anything, just ask her basic questions about herself, because girls love to talk about themselves, and before you know it, you'll be friends, and you can work on it from there.

[Stronk Serb]

Leeel. I was like this, except I didn't insult people on the few threads I made. I asked a girl to go to a concert with me. She said 'no' even though she liked the band performing. I moved on, it did hurt, but there are other girls. She isn't the one and only, there are plenty of others.

[AzuPazu]

First of all.. there's no need for you to rage at everyone. It's not like they're trying to harm you even if you feel like they are.
If people on here didn't care , they wouldn't comment.

Now for your reasoning, from what I read there could be indeed a huge chance that she likes you. But at the same time, I want you to be ready for anything that could happen. That means that there's also a chance that things won't go the way you want it to go. And no one wants to see you fall.
Lots of people said it here before: no one can be 100% sure whether she likes you or not. They can only guess. And I'm guessing towards the yes.
But if you want to be 100% sure, you would have to ask her. And if you want a more accurate guess before making that move I would show interest in her and see how she reacts.

All in all: good luck to you and whatever you do, stay calm.

[sixguy6]

If only there was a like button on this. Thank you for telling me its a bad idea. I just need to wait for some more people to give me their perspective until i get the confidence to do something about it. With how things are going on these forums with people just telling me that they don't know and just to ask her… doubt it… :/ Its too difficult for me to do it just like that, need time and help to build my confidence.

Yeah well give it times and it'll come to you