Showers with others

[Njames19]

How do I simply put it, I don't think id be able to be naked infront of others let alone my friends so how do you keep yourself from getting a boner or ways to prevent it or hide it

[Bull]

I play sports so have been naked in front of team mates for several years. I have no problem being naked, but yeah we all get a bone from time to time. No big deal. It happens. One thing that will help is for you to be naked as much as possible so being naked is sorta normal for you. Like sleep naked, hang in your room naked, and when home alone be naked. When you are accustomed to your naked body you will be more at ease when naked if front of others. If you have a good buddy you guys might hang out naked some just to get used to seeing other naked bodies. :lol:

[Curious.kid]

I sometimes have to take a shower with my little brother. It's not a big deal only I don't want him to see me with a boner since he's only 5 and I don't want him to ask embarrassing questions.

[Bull]

I sometimes have to take a shower with my little brother. It's not a big deal only I don't want him to see me with a boner since he's only 5 and I don't want him to ask embarrassing questions.

My brother is 15 almost 16 and I am 17 and we sometimes shower at the same time. It is not a big deal for us. Actually our dad had the shower made big enough for both of us and it has two shower heads. Sorta like a locker room shower.

[matt_tgr]

I couldn't shower in front of/with someone... Even thinking about it gives me a boner :D

[riverboy]

I play sports so have been naked in front of team mates for several years. I have no problem being naked, but yeah we all get a bone from time to time. No big deal. It happens. One thing that will help is for you to be naked as much as possible so being naked is sorta normal for you. Like sleep naked, hang in your room naked, and when home alone be naked. When you are accustomed to your naked body you will be more at ease when naked if front of others. If you have a good buddy you guys might hang out naked some just to get used to seeing other naked bodies. :lol:

I agree with Billy. The more you are naked the core comfortable you will be and the less likely boners will happen. A boner will all ways happen no matter what you do. But that's what guys have to put up with.

[wwad]

Keep your eyes to yourself. Don't tempt yourself by looking. Try to engage in conversation as to distract yourself. And if you do get a boner just turn your back to them and think about your grandma naked. Doubt it will last long. Lol

[Lost in the Echo]

It doesn't sound like you're being forced to, so I'd say avoid showering with others.
But, if that's not an option, then when you're showering just focus on getting your body clean and getting out ASAP. Or think of something non-arousing.

[Soldier212]

If ur are uncomfortable being around them , then wait till everyone is gone. Or just not focus on anything arousing

[Izofthebeholder]

I've taken showers in front of them for awhile so it doesn't bother me

[Ben_Frost]

Don't look around ,think about anything else but whatever arouses you, stand under the cold stream of water, and focus on just cleaning yourself.

[itsLOGAN]

I have done it. it's really no big deal :)

[pconnor2001]

It's not a big deal. We all shower naked after gymn class.

[Cognizant]

I couldn't shower in front of/with someone... Even thinking about it gives me a boner :D

Hahaha I'm the same way :P

[christo17]

I regularly take a shower in front of other guys, sometimes it gives me boner, but it's not big deal

[Swagging god]

I regularly take a shower in front of other guys, sometimes it gives me boner, but it's not big deal

Same, I am so used to it that it is second nature to me.

[Soxman97]

I want to just to try it

[pjones]

i have no clue how to keep from getting hard. wish i did because it happens a lot more now, but since my friends do too at times i know it's not just me.

[RogerU]

Think of something that you consider gross

[ksdnfkfr]

I've never cared about getting a boner in the school showers. We're all boys and boys get boners. i like the way it feels to walk around with one tbh.

[hoangnghien]

I've never seen my friends naked or I be naked infront of my friends' face but I am curios and I want to try once:)

[douglaseverett1998]

I haven't yet but I'd take the opportunity if it presented itself.

[Hardcatch]

Ive been doing it for several years at school locker room and gym and if it happens so be it. I don't let it bother me. it happens to everyone. Its all part of being a guy.

[mattjh-]

I don't hide my boner when I get one when I shower with my friends. It is a sign of my manhood, why would I hide it? Plus you won't be the only one who get a boner.

[Kapowzer]

How do I simply put it, I don't think id be able to be naked infront of others let alone my friends so how do you keep yourself from getting a boner or ways to prevent it or hide it

If you're in the shower and you get one you aren't going to be able to hide it. But I know from experience that yeah you get teased but almost everyone gets one at some time so everyone gets teased. We all do it. It's hormones. Just ask them why they're looking at your dick. :P

[Hey-Im-Connor]

turn the water to cold and think about something else

[CrazyPerson101]

I don't have to shower in front of other people but if I do, the shower room has a couple showering stalls for those who want privacy

[CuriousAlex]

I showered with one of my friends when I was 13, because we went to the beach and were all sandy. At first it was awkward then It became normal.

[Body odah Man]

How do I simply put it, I don't think id be able to be naked infront of others let alone my friends so how do you keep yourself from getting a boner or ways to prevent it or hide it

I'm in your boat too. I always skip after-gym showers, just too modest to take them.

[ChaseDakoda]

Don't look around ,think about anything else but whatever arouses you, stand under the cold stream of water, and focus on just cleaning yourself.

That is the truth. If you are 17 what is there to worry about. I am 14 and showered since 5th grade and we got boners but thats all part of growing up. I will be in 9th grade and I have seen most of the guys naked so no big deal, If you look its because you want to know if you are normal, you are normal no matter what size u are.

[Ben_Frost]

That is the truth. If you are 17 what is there to worry about. I am 14 and showered since 5th grade and we got boners but thats all part of growing up. I will be in 9th grade and I have seen most of the guys naked so no big deal, If you look its because you want to know if you are normal, you are normal no matter what size u are.

I was there too, and I did just what I told you, it worked. If you look around everyone will think you're staring at them and feel uncomfortable, or worse they'll bully you thinking you're gay. I'm not saying it's easy, but I did it when I was your age and it worked.

[Just Sayin]

I have only gotten a boner in the showers once and i didnt do anything to hide it i have seen other guys get them before to it wasnt a big deal

[Soccerkid]

I just go ahead and let my boner be seen

[AndrewWiggins]

do math in your head.

[AlisterPSG]

I couldn't shower in front of/with someone... Even thinking about it gives me a boner :D

Same having to think up excuses is hard (pardon the pun)

[AlisterPSG]

also if you wank in the shower dont because if you think about it if you always wank in the showers your bound to get a boner in these showers naked or in boxers

[swimmerguy72]

Try to not look at others, take a quick shower, and think if stuff you know won't give you a boner

[valamar]

Just focus on other boring stuff

[LokaChris]

Everyone get boners.. dont wory vut try not think sexual thoughts. . I know its difficult but try

[briefsboy]

i always shower naked after swimming and about 90% of the time i have a boner. not a big deal

[Menzis]

How do I simply put it, I don't think id be able to be naked infront of others let alone my friends so how do you keep yourself from getting a boner or ways to prevent it or hide it

Are you in a position that you HAVE to get naked, otherwise just try to avoid it?

[ryne113]

Just don't worry about it, some of the other guys are probably uncomfortable to.

[Michelle_Stilt]

I am getting ready to do a nude documentary and we are going to do a shower scene.

[Jamesk0050]

The more you do it the easier it is and by the 4th or 5th time you dont give it a second thought

[steellord321]

You cant always hide it, depends on the shower setup. But if youre in the 12-14 age trust me others will get hard too. And yeah you willl get used to it like everything. The others have the same fears but all survive

[Jamesk0050]

Not a big deal. After 3-4 times you are used to it and nobodyt stares at others in the shower, maybe a glance to see if anyone is unusual or really really different but it never happens, everyone has the same equipment

[sktrboychgo]

just try not to look at anyone and look straight ahead. this seems to work for me. i can get hard at the drop of a hat, so i have started to get semis in the p.e. showers, but i just keep looking ahead and get out really fast. i learned my lesson in a group shower at a campsite couple years ago and got full on hard in front of my dad and a bunch of strangers lol luckily no one said anything.

[ItsFootballnotSoccer]

Maybe focus on other things - if you go in and all you think about is not getting a boner, you will get a boner

[Atlantis]

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