tom101
June 8th, 2014, 05:03 PM
Kind of a long story, so I will it cut it down as much as i can.
Just before xmas my boyfriend of nearly 4 years left me for someone else. It was a pretty bad break up and a lot of things where said in anger by the both of us. in the end I just got so fed up of him using my feeling to play with me, then I just turned in to dickhead towards him. Once I made it clear that I was no long going to be nice to him he told me he did not want anything to do with me and he would never talk to me again. I was pretty happy with this. It meant I now had some kind of closer.
a few weeks ago he emailed me. He wanted to know if I could post some of stuff back that I had at mine still. I was told him that i was not going to post it because he still had some of mine stuff. So it would be best if we met up and swap our stuff. I was not rude to him I was just to the point. However I did let some info slip that I did not mean to. In his reply that is all he wanted to talk about. nothing about picking his stuff etc, just about what I am doing with my life etc. Anyway I ended up having a long convo over email with him for a few days. each email was more friendly then the one. Then we start talking about the holiday we went on together (stayed with family in Italy) I asked him if he wanted any of the pics from it. In his reply he told me that he had a wonderful time and that he will always remember going away with me and that non of us should forget it. we seem to be talking almost every day now. He seems pretty unhappy atm, and tbh I hate the idea of him being that unhappy. He told me that he is always sick etc. I know he has no real friends any more and he just spends all his free time with his new bf. who tbh is a fucking retard.
I miss him so much still, and apart of me wants him back at the same time I do not want to make myself look like a fool by asking him out right how he feels about me. I do still love him after all this time and no one can seem to take his place. I do not know what to do. I need to how he feels about me. I am finding hard to tell. Non of my mates will help me because they all hate him now. I feel a bit alone and confuse about the whole thing. I was just wondering if anyone has any idear on the best way for me approach him ?
Just before xmas my boyfriend of nearly 4 years left me for someone else. It was a pretty bad break up and a lot of things where said in anger by the both of us. in the end I just got so fed up of him using my feeling to play with me, then I just turned in to dickhead towards him. Once I made it clear that I was no long going to be nice to him he told me he did not want anything to do with me and he would never talk to me again. I was pretty happy with this. It meant I now had some kind of closer.
a few weeks ago he emailed me. He wanted to know if I could post some of stuff back that I had at mine still. I was told him that i was not going to post it because he still had some of mine stuff. So it would be best if we met up and swap our stuff. I was not rude to him I was just to the point. However I did let some info slip that I did not mean to. In his reply that is all he wanted to talk about. nothing about picking his stuff etc, just about what I am doing with my life etc. Anyway I ended up having a long convo over email with him for a few days. each email was more friendly then the one. Then we start talking about the holiday we went on together (stayed with family in Italy) I asked him if he wanted any of the pics from it. In his reply he told me that he had a wonderful time and that he will always remember going away with me and that non of us should forget it. we seem to be talking almost every day now. He seems pretty unhappy atm, and tbh I hate the idea of him being that unhappy. He told me that he is always sick etc. I know he has no real friends any more and he just spends all his free time with his new bf. who tbh is a fucking retard.
I miss him so much still, and apart of me wants him back at the same time I do not want to make myself look like a fool by asking him out right how he feels about me. I do still love him after all this time and no one can seem to take his place. I do not know what to do. I need to how he feels about me. I am finding hard to tell. Non of my mates will help me because they all hate him now. I feel a bit alone and confuse about the whole thing. I was just wondering if anyone has any idear on the best way for me approach him ?