Polo2847
June 6th, 2014, 03:50 AM
So I have a crush on a girl, I'm her friend for 2 years and we get along well. I never confessed because she always says she doesn't want to be in a relationship, and never had interest in love. Now, since because I like her, I noticed my increased presence around her, and commented on how she looks here and there. We laugh a lot. She's leaving to Japan in a month for university, so I don't want to ruin our friendship by confessing since she already stated how she felt about love.
I don't know why, but she never touches me like fist bump, or hug. I've never even hugged her, all my other friends I've hugged. She always hugs her friends, high 5's, but never once I've received a hug. I went bowling, got a strike, and raised a high 5, but never got one. Said cya later when we head to class, she never fist bump me back. I don't know what she'll do if I went to offer a hug. I'd like to get one before she leaves. I always see her hugs/high 5, etc. her friend, other friends, mutual friends, but never me. What she does do is punch and kick me though. Like if she's mad, I'll let her punch my palms. If she's having a good time, sometimes she likes to slap, hit me, punch me in arm.
I know this sounds weird, but idk what she's trying to tell me. She never does the "affectionate" stuff to me, but always the "violent" stuff, unless her violent stuff is her affectionate stuff. She did mention she likes to hit those who she's comfortable with. She says she doesn't really punch other people as hard as me, I always get the harder beatings lol.
Idk if she's saying she likes me? Or maybe she knows I like her, so she doesn't want to "give me what I want?" If she doesn't want to be in a relationship, I'll be fine being a good friend with her. Can't friends hug? I do it all the time with other friends. She's avoiding "affectionate" contact, even from a friend's pov, not a lover's pov. Maybe she's waiting for me to be the first to confess? What do you think she's trying to say?
I don't know why, but she never touches me like fist bump, or hug. I've never even hugged her, all my other friends I've hugged. She always hugs her friends, high 5's, but never once I've received a hug. I went bowling, got a strike, and raised a high 5, but never got one. Said cya later when we head to class, she never fist bump me back. I don't know what she'll do if I went to offer a hug. I'd like to get one before she leaves. I always see her hugs/high 5, etc. her friend, other friends, mutual friends, but never me. What she does do is punch and kick me though. Like if she's mad, I'll let her punch my palms. If she's having a good time, sometimes she likes to slap, hit me, punch me in arm.
I know this sounds weird, but idk what she's trying to tell me. She never does the "affectionate" stuff to me, but always the "violent" stuff, unless her violent stuff is her affectionate stuff. She did mention she likes to hit those who she's comfortable with. She says she doesn't really punch other people as hard as me, I always get the harder beatings lol.
Idk if she's saying she likes me? Or maybe she knows I like her, so she doesn't want to "give me what I want?" If she doesn't want to be in a relationship, I'll be fine being a good friend with her. Can't friends hug? I do it all the time with other friends. She's avoiding "affectionate" contact, even from a friend's pov, not a lover's pov. Maybe she's waiting for me to be the first to confess? What do you think she's trying to say?