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tyd922
June 5th, 2014, 10:10 PM
Do girls care if they have a bf and you ask them out? What's the chances of them saying yes. Btw they've been together for 3 months

LouBerry
June 5th, 2014, 10:12 PM
Do girls care if they have a bf and you ask them out? What's the chances of them saying yes. Btw they've been together for 3 months

Yeah, that's fucking disrespectful and tasteless. If a girl is talking to you or some shit while she has a boyfriend, she's cheating on him, and she'll cheat on you too. Also, if she isn't trying to talk to you, leave her alone, she's in a relationship and you need to stay the Hell out of it.

Plasma
June 5th, 2014, 10:27 PM
Yeah, that's fucking disrespectful and tasteless. If a girl is talking to you or some shit while she has a boyfriend, she's cheating on him, and she'll cheat on you too. Also, if she isn't trying to talk to you, leave her alone, she's in a relationship and you need to stay the Hell out of it.

You tell him, Nicholas Cage bunny!

sixguy6
June 5th, 2014, 10:31 PM
Well I have asked them before but usually I end not being their bf but more like a FWB so I guess it works ;) :)

Plasma
June 5th, 2014, 10:38 PM
Well I have asked them before but usually I end not being their bf but more like a FWB so I guess it works ;) :)

The worst kind of person.

sixguy6
June 5th, 2014, 10:44 PM
The worst kind of person.

At least this person doesn't start s*it ok.

Plasma
June 5th, 2014, 10:47 PM
At least this person doesn't start s*it ok.

Yeah fucking some girl in a relationship isn't starting anything right?

sixguy6
June 5th, 2014, 10:49 PM
Yeah fucking some girl in a relationship isn't starting anything right?

Starting something with her;), not starting anything with you. Soooo yeah

Plasma
June 5th, 2014, 10:52 PM
Starting something with her;), not starting anything with you. Soooo yeah

Cheating hits a certain sweet spot for me.

sixguy6
June 5th, 2014, 10:53 PM
Cheating hits a certain sweet spot for me.

A good sweet spot? ;) :P

Plasma
June 5th, 2014, 10:53 PM
A good sweet spot? ;) :P

What do you fucking think?

sixguy6
June 5th, 2014, 10:55 PM
What do you fucking think?

Oh a good one then :D

Camazotz
June 5th, 2014, 11:23 PM
Well I have asked them before but usually I end not being their bf but more like a FWB so I guess it works ;) :)

That's completely disrespectful. That's a total jerk-move and utterly immature. One day you might understand what it feels like to be cheated on with someone you share strong feelings with.

Plasma
June 5th, 2014, 11:24 PM
That's completely disrespectful. That's a total jerk-move and utterly immature. One day you might understand what it feels like to be cheated on with someone you share strong feelings with.

Yeah. It fucking sucks, I'll tell you that

sixguy6
June 6th, 2014, 07:14 AM
That's completely disrespectful. That's a total jerk-move and utterly immature. One day you might understand what it feels like to be cheated on with someone you share strong feelings with.

Not a jerk move when her bf is an aeshole. And when she says she doesn't like him anymore

BuryYourFlame
June 6th, 2014, 07:51 AM
Not a jerk move when her bf is an aeshole. And when she says she doesn't like him anymore
If he's that bad then she should break up with him before starting things with someone else. If she has agreed to be exclusive then she should at least say they're not exclusive any more before going with other guys. It's not an excuse to cheat, it could be a reason to break up with him though.

Anyway, as others have said, very disrespectful. Don't do it, it'll make you look very stupid and just piss them both off.

sixguy6
June 6th, 2014, 07:55 AM
If he's that bad then she should break up with him before starting things with someone else. If she has agreed to be exclusive then she should at least say they're not exclusive any more before going with other guys. It's not an excuse to cheat, it could be a reason to break up with him though.

Anyway, as others have said, very disrespectful. Don't do it, it'll make you look very stupid and just piss them both off.

IDC about the guy. Well she did a while after and she said she prefer me over her bf

Camazotz
June 6th, 2014, 10:12 AM
IDC about the guy. Well she did a while after and she said she prefer me over her bf

If he's that bad then she should break up with him before starting things with someone else. If she has agreed to be exclusive then she should at least say they're not exclusive any more before going with other guys. It's not an excuse to cheat, it could be a reason to break up with him though.

Anyway, as others have said, very disrespectful. Don't do it, it'll make you look very stupid and just piss them both off.

It's still a jerk-move. Cheating with a girl who is in a committed relationship is always scummy. The mature thing to do is wait until she's officially out of the relationship. You cause tons of drama for everyone by going behind his back, and it makes you look like a dirtbag. Like James said, even if her boyfriend is a terrible person and she doesn't care for him anymore, that's no excuse to cheat.

sixguy6
June 6th, 2014, 11:01 AM
It's still a jerk-move. Cheating with a girl who is in a committed relationship is always scummy. The mature thing to do is wait until she's officially out of the relationship. You cause tons of drama for everyone by going behind his back, and it makes you look like a dirtbag. Like James said, even if her boyfriend is a terrible person and she doesn't care for him anymore, that's no excuse to cheat.

Its a good enough excuse for me. There was no drama because the dude didn't even know.

highschool
June 10th, 2014, 05:28 PM
as you can tell, they definitely care. It just doesn't paint you as the right kind of guy..

Melodic
June 10th, 2014, 05:40 PM
Yeah, I'm in a relationship. Granted, it's been a little weird but I'm still in it. Even then, if someone asked me out I'd say no. It's not right to meddle in a persons relationship.

Sarah1996
June 10th, 2014, 05:58 PM
Obviously.. Like honestly.
Why ask out a taken girl? Thats just pushing it.

metallic_pink
June 11th, 2014, 01:52 AM
I guess she does. It's just that she finds you interesting or getting bored with her current. If you like each other, wait for her to leave her bf. Simple as that! Good luck!

Living For Love
June 12th, 2014, 04:58 AM
Mod note: please keep the discussion civil.

Karkat
June 12th, 2014, 05:11 AM
IMO

Don't do it. Just say no. I see no positive outcome from that. Seriously.