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Hundred Spirited God
June 5th, 2014, 03:59 PM
One of the reason's why I want to is cause she's bipolar and i have borderline personality,it said people with borderline personality disorder suffer from unstable relationships,what makes me think I'll even last with her? Another reason is cause I try to plan to see her but they always get ruined,she said she can't explain how much she loves me,she's really attached,and I feel bad for becoming her boyfriend and not even being there to support her,I'm giving up hope on our relationship.

LouBerry
June 5th, 2014, 04:04 PM
One of the reason's why I want to is cause she's bipolar and i have borderline personality,it said people with borderline personality disorder suffer from unstable relationships,what makes me think I'll even last with her? Another reason is cause I try to plan to see her but they always get ruined,she said she can't explain how much she loves me,she's really attached,and I feel bad for becoming her boyfriend and not even being there to support her,I'm giving up hope on our relationship.

If you don't really want to be with her, don't be. It's not fair to either of you. Let her move on. However, "it said people with borderline personality disorder suffer from unstable relationships" is a bad excuse, don't just mindlessly go with what you think is going to happen, make it not happen. Work for a relationship.

Remora
June 5th, 2014, 04:05 PM
I'm no love doctor but you should (if you are absolutely sure this won't work out) end it ASAP to cause as little harm as possible.

Harley Quinn
June 5th, 2014, 04:34 PM
One of the reason's why I want to is cause she's bipolar and i have borderline personality,it said people with borderline personality disorder suffer from unstable relationships,what makes me think I'll even last with her? Another reason is cause I try to plan to see her but they always get ruined,she said she can't explain how much she loves me,she's really attached,and I feel bad for becoming her boyfriend and not even being there to support her,I'm giving up hope on our relationship.

Just because you have a personality disorder doesn't mean you're going to fail at a relationship, you only fail at a relationship if you don't try. Plans get ruined, that's normal, don't let that be a reason to break up with her. Seriously, if you want this to work, fight for it and don't just give up that hope. However, if you do want to break up with her, honestly, just do it. There's no point making it a long process because that'll just hurt a lot more.

Hundred Spirited God
June 5th, 2014, 08:52 PM
well,when i tried to break up with her 3-4 days ago,she cut her wrist and it started to bleed,i can't leave her without her hurting herself

Seemyheart
June 5th, 2014, 09:11 PM
Tell her why you want to break it off, in all honesty. you can't be scared to end things (if that's what you want) because she'll hurt herself. let her know she cant do that, she is strong.