cousin

[MattB12]

My cousin is female and 22 im male and 14... She was "babysitting" my sister when my parents were out so i thought i would be safe to wank.... I was wanking and she came in the room she saw what i was doing said nothing and walked back out then a few secs later she came back in and said "your big mind if i show u some tips?" and before i could answer she came over and started giving me a hj it felt so nice and i really enjoyed it ! Is it weird that i enjoyed it ? Is this wrong that she did it ?

[Bull]

not at all weird that you enjoyed it. my male cousin, my age did it to me and I enjoyed it. The age difference might be the only thing weird. But, hey it felt good and you enjoyed it, so relax. Might not want to do it again.

[AvMan]

It's not weird that you enjoyed it, you were bound to! But it's perhaps a bit odd that she did it considering the age gap. If she offered again id turn it down but its up to you :)

[MattB12]

It's not weird that you enjoyed it, you were bound to! But it's perhaps a bit odd that she did it considering the age gap. If she offered again id turn it down but its up to you :)

She's really hot though

[ChickenCasseroleYum]

=]...if you're only 14 and she's 22, isn't that illegal?!

[Stumpygoat]

It's very wrong she did that. You just got molested by your cousin. Tell your parents and stay away from her, who knows what else she might do

[Big O]

Personally anything you do sexually with family is wrong to me I mean I would accept from basically anyone but not family that would make it awkward. Its not weird you enjoyed it but that's creepy and weird

[phuckphace]

It's very wrong she did that. You just got molested by your cousin. Tell your parents and stay away from her, who knows what else she might do

yeah this. OP you're a minor and she's a full 8 years older than you. what she did was molestation and is totally illegal.

[Body odah Man]

yeah this. OP you're a minor and she's a full 8 years older than you. what she did was molestation and is totally illegal.

blah blah blah blah. If he's ok with it it ain't molestation, only if she did it and scarred him which this post doesn't seem to imply

[punker_26]

if you liked it theres nothing wrong

[JustAnotherTeen]

That's illegal and she is betraying the trust of your parents but I guess it's really up to you

[Body odah Man]

That's illegal and she is betraying the trust of your parents but I guess it's really up to you

Is what she did really THAT terrible? Sure, I get the betraying trust part..but not why it's illegal.

[deregisterme]

My cousin is female and 22 im male and 14... She was "babysitting" my sister when my parents were out so i thought i would be safe to wank.... I was wanking and she came in the room she saw what i was doing said nothing and walked back out then a few secs later she came back in and said "your big mind if i show u some tips?" and before i could answer she came over and started giving me a hj it felt so nice and i really enjoyed it ! Is it weird that i enjoyed it ? Is this wrong that she did it ?

Is what she did really THAT terrible? Sure, I get the betraying trust part..but not why it's illegal.

It's where the law can be a bit cruel to the older person. Most countries it's anyone under the age of 18 or 16 (for example a 16 year old having sex with a 15 year old in the UK is technically legally wrong as the age of consent is 16). In many laws, it's not just sex, but any form of sexual contact. Though TBH if OP liked it and did it again, and kept it private, it is not likely much will happen. OP and cousin would be in far more trouble if caught by another family member, than with the law. There are legally far worse crimes out there, not that OPs parents would see it that way.
For OP, I know the feeling, as I have had those thoughts over a female cousin I have. If you continue, just be careful

[Stumpygoat]

blah blah blah blah. If he's ok with it it ain't molestation, only if she did it and scarred him which this post doesn't seem to imply

Him liking it doesn't make it okay, it was molestation even if he liked it. No one that age has any business touching someone his age

[TPAallDay]

Age really has nothing to do with it. As long as you are developed (which the post seems to suggest he is) I don't see the issue

[Stumpygoat]

Age really has nothing to do with it. As long as you are developed (which the post seems to suggest he is) I don't see the issue
Age has a lot to do with it. There are a lot of laws that say age has a whole hell of a lot to do with it.

[Taryn98]

Am I the only person that thinks this is totally fake?
How many 22 yo girls are giving handjobs to 14yo guys? How many cousins are doing things to each other? I don't believe any of this. And if it is true, then it's literally criminal sexual assault on a minor and criminal incest.

[Thatcarguy]

I dont a fuck what anyone says saying o if you enjoyed it then its fine well let me put this here you are 14 she is 22 she molested you and she should know better. Dont listen to all these people saying o if you enjoyed it its fine because this is really really wrong

[phuckphace]

Its normal to have petty crushes on your cousin, but I do think this story is bs to the max. Like bs factor 10. LOL, I swear its as if 90 percent of people on these forums done sexual illegal acts with family members. Its ridiculous and all lies. And even if it was true which I highly doubt, its incredibly illegal. Though its only a handjob, which may be believable but you're trying to say it was your 22 year old "hot" cousin who did it for you? Just bs.

I dont a fuck what anyone says saying o if you enjoyed it then its fine well let me put this here you are 14 she is 22 she molested you and she should know better. Dont listen to all these people saying o if you enjoyed it its fine because this is really really wrong

both of these.

[Chrisrsnow]

Heck no. Enjoy it while it lasts and use the mental images for the he/t time your alone!

[Catholic Guy]

If you were both alight with it then I suppose it's not a problem

[Hundred Spirited God]

for ANYONE who's following laws over this crap,your stupid!.my uncle got arrested for molesting my niece (he's 50-60,she's around 12),he feel's bad about it,now he's lonely cause they went by the damn law!,the government made laws like that just to hurt people,is his cousin hurting him? no she's not!,everyone is being to harsh to her,grow up and have a heart

[plebble]

blah blah blah blah. If he's ok with it it ain't molestation, only if she did it and scarred him which this post doesn't seem to imply

doesn't matter if he's ok or not, it was still illegal and could serve up to 5 years in prison (in the UK anyway)

[Stumpygoat]

for ANYONE who's following laws over this crap,your stupid!.my uncle got arrested for molesting my niece (he's 50-60,she's around 12),he feel's bad about it,now he's lonely cause they went by the damn law!,the government made laws like that just to hurt people,is his cousin hurting him? no she's not!,everyone is being to harsh to her,grow up and have a heart

Your uncle is a scumbag and he belongs in prison for touching a 12 year old. They didn't make laws like that to hurt people, they made them to protect people like your niece from horrible people like your uncle.

OP's cousin is the one who needs to grow up, she doesn't have any reason to be touching someone so much younger than her.

No one should "have a heart" dealing with child molesters like your uncle and his cousin. They're disgusting people.

Don't call US stupid when you're the one defending pedophiles.

[nklarke]

Am I the only person that thinks this is totally fake?
How many 22 yo girls are giving handjobs to 14yo guys? How many cousins are doing things to each other? I don't believe any of this. And if it is true, then it's literally criminal sexual assault on a minor and criminal incest.

I am with you.

[Hundred Spirited God]

Your uncle is a scumbag and he belongs in prison for touching a 12 year old. They didn't make laws like that to hurt people, they made them to protect people like your niece from horrible people like your uncle.

OP's cousin is the one who needs to grow up, she doesn't have any reason to be touching someone so much younger than her.

No one should "have a heart" dealing with child molesters like your uncle and his cousin. They're disgusting people.

Don't call US stupid when you're the one defending pedophiles.

My uncle felt bad,that's how heartless you are saying he's disgusting.stupid,heartless,and a snob,doesn't surprise me with most girls,and the government is going to make you into a mindless zombie if your going to follow every law like that,and I'm siding with both of them,look up "most brutal rape video" on YouTube and I can guarantee theirs a lot worse people,your just treating mole stirs like that cause you probably whined about being molested,not ALL molestores are evil

[Stumpygoat]

My uncle felt bad,that's how heartless you are saying he's disgusting.stupid,heartless,and a snob,doesn't surprise me with most girls,and the government is going to make you into a mindless zombie if your going to follow every law like that,and I'm siding with both of them,look up "most brutal rape video" on YouTube and I can guarantee theirs a lot worse people,your just treating mole stirs like that cause you probably whined about being molested,not ALL molestores are evil

I don't care that he felt bad. I bet the girl he violated felt much worse. He's scum. All child molesters are garbage, and so are the people who defend them.

[Hundred Spirited God]

Yea,she's fine now,and he still's feel bad!,my niece could of gave him a warning,and he would of felt bad enough,the government only makes laws to ruin people's live's and make them miserable,my uncle and niece could of both been happy at the same time,and I don't care about decency,if I want to do something like that and tell someone else to do it cause it bothers me,that makes me selfish

[Stumpygoat]

Yea,she's fine now,and he still's feel bad!,my niece could of gave him a warning,and he would of felt bad enough,the government only makes laws to ruin people's live's and make them miserable,my uncle and niece could of both been happy at the same time,and I don't care about decency,if I want to do something like that and tell someone else to do it cause it bothers me,that makes me selfish

She's a KID. He's an ADULT. she doesn't need to give him a warning, he needs to behave like one and not do anything that would get him a warning.

The government doesn't want to hurt people and ruin their lives, they want to protect innocent people like your niece from monsters like your uncle.

[Hundred Spirited God]

She's a KID. He's an ADULT. she doesn't need to give him a warning, he needs to behave like one and not do anything that would get him a warning.

The government doesn't want to hurt people and ruin their lives, they want to protect innocent people like your niece from monsters like your uncle.

So molestors shouldn't be given a second chance? People aren't perfect,i GIVE them a second chance,

[Living For Love]

Mod note: let's keep the discussion civil, please.

[AvMan]

She's really hot though

Hmm that makes it more difficult :/ In my opinion I still wouldn't keep doing it though, as hard as it is to resist.

[jjlewis]

that is weird, shes way to old to do something like that to you

[Nick24]

blah blah blah blah. If he's ok with it it ain't molestation, only if she did it and scarred him which this post doesn't seem to imply

You clearly don't know what you are talking about. He is a minor under the age of 16 so it doesn't matter what state he lives in and considering he is speaking English odds are it's either u.s. U.k or canada. And age of consent is at least 16 in all of those. Some states in the u.s it's 18. If this story is true, because let's be honest most stories on this website are complete bull crap, then she deserves to go to jail.

[Body odah Man]

You clearly don't know what you are talking about. He is a minor under the age of 16 so it doesn't matter what state he lives in and considering he is speaking English odds are it's either u.s. U.k or canada. And age of consent is at least 16 in all of those. Some states in the u.s it's 18. If this story is true, because let's be honest most stories on this website are complete bull crap, then she deserves to go to jail.

Most of those laws were made to PROTECT people that got molested or violated by giving them something to fall back on if they felt violated/molested. If they don't feel either of those 2 things and they're roughly pubescent age so they understand what happened (doing something sexual to a 11 year old or younger kid is DISGUSTING and those people shuld be locked up for life), then as long as they're ok with it what's the harm?

[Nick24]

Most of those laws were made to PROTECT people that got molested or violated by giving them something to fall back on if they feliolated/molested. If they don't feel either of those 2 things and they're roughly pubescent age so they understand what happened (doing something sexual to a 11 year old or younger kid is DISGUSTING and those people shuld be locked up for life), then as long as they're ok with it what's the harm?

The harm is that a 14 year old kid who is just in the beginning of puberty may understand what is going on, but the law is not there just for the people that feel violated it's there to prevent people from feeling violated or not. It's also to protect young hormone filled kids who don't know right from wrong who get taken advantage of by not only someone who is way older than him but someone who is also taking care of him. If this story is true, which I still don't think it is, then she deserves to be locked up. She is 22 taking care of a 14 year old kid and performed a sexual act on him. She's a complete pedophile.

[sixguy6]

Well I have been with a 26 year old but not my cousin

[Body odah Man]

The harm is that a 14 year old kid who is just in the beginning of puberty may understand what is going on, but the law is not there just for the people that feel violated it's there to prevent people from feeling violated or not. It's also to protect young hormone filled kids who don't know right from wrong who get taken advantage of by not only someone who is way older than him but someone who is also taking care of him. If this story is true, which I still don't think it is, then she deserves to be locked up. She is 22 taking care of a 14 year old kid and performed a sexual act on him. She's a complete pedophile.

Pedophilia literally means love for children just like philadelphia means brotherly love. I could get into a whole conversation about how we've given a reasonably pure word a completely horrible name but that would be going wayyyy off topic. Anyway, I don't believe that 22 and 14 is pedophilia at all. 40 to 14 yes, heck even 30+ to 14, but NOT 22. The difference in maturity isn't THAT high between the 2 IMHO. As for him not knowing right from wrong cuz he's 14...OK that point I will concede to you, but I still think he had SOME knowledge about the whole thing to make this whole thing different from molestation. If I'm wrong, then I will be sure to uphold your standpoint on this issue :)

[Nick24]

Pedophilia literally means love for children just like philadelphia means brotherly love. I could get into a whole conversation about how we've given a reasonably pure word a completely horrible name but that would be going wayyyy off topic. Anyway, I don't believe that 22 and 14 is pedophilia at all. 40 to 14 yes, heck even 30+ to 14, but NOT 22. The difference in maturity isn't THAT high between the 2 IMHO. As for him not knowing right from wrong cuz he's 14...OK that point I will concede to you, but I still think he had SOME knowledge about the whole thing to make this whole thing different from molestation. If I'm wrong, then I will be sure to uphold your standpoint on this issue :)

Maybe I misused the term, I don't know the exact definition, either way, she still committed a crime. Technically if he was perfectly fine with it, then it's not molestation. Instead it's child molestation. No matter what anyone says she at the minimum committed that crime. I'm not sure how maturity has anything to do with it, but from personal experience the difference in maturity from a 14 year old and a 22 year old is drastic(of course this instance is one of the exceptions). Considering a lot of people mature a lot throughout high school and college.


So bottom line she committed a crime and deserves to be in jail. Unless of course this whole story is complete crap, which wouldn't surprise me at all.

[Body odah Man]

Maybe I misused the term, I don't know the exact definition, either way, she still committed a crime. Technically if he was perfectly fine with it, then it's not molestation. Instead it's child molestation. No matter what anyone says she at the minimum committed that crime. I'm not sure how maturity has anything to do with it, but from personal experience the difference in maturity from a 14 year old and a 22 year old is drastic(of course this instance is one of the exceptions). Considering a lot of people mature a lot throughout high school and college.


So bottom line she committed a crime and deserves to be in jail. Unless of course this whole story is complete crap, which wouldn't surprise me at all.

How does that work? 'If he was perfectly fine with it, it's not molestation. It's child molestation.' Seems a bit redundant to me and kinda missing the logic here. And as for it not being real...this forum does have many many trolls.

[hockeyfan]

It's normal to enjoy that. Although if ur parents knew ur sis would probably get a new babysitter.

[Nick24]

How does that work? 'If he was perfectly fine with it, it's not molestation. It's child molestation.' Seems a bit redundant to me and kinda missing the logic here. And as for it not being real...this forum does have many many trolls.

We'll molestation is performing an unwanted sexual act, and child molestation is performing a sexual act on a minor whether it was wanted or not.

[Body odah Man]

We'll molestation is performing an unwanted sexual act, and child molestation is performing a sexual act on a minor whether it was wanted or not.

Ahhhh. Ok, fine, I admit it falls under child molestation then, but it's the dude's own choice whether or not he wants to report it. If he's traumatized by ti then he shoud report, if not..he can just keep quiet about it and enjoy.

[phuckphace]

molestation doesn't have to be explicitly unpleasant to have negative effects.

[Cloud_Strife]

My cousin is female and 22 im male and 14... She was "babysitting" my sister when my parents were out so i thought i would be safe to wank.... I was wanking and she came in the room she saw what i was doing said nothing and walked back out then a few secs later she came back in and said "your big mind if i show u some tips?" and before i could answer she came over and started giving me a hj it felt so nice and i really enjoyed it ! Is it weird that i enjoyed it ? Is this wrong that she did it ?

I agree with those whom I quote below here:

=]...if you're only 14 and she's 22, isn't that illegal?!

Him liking it doesn't make it okay, it was molestation even if he liked it. No one that age has any business touching someone his age

I dont a fuck what anyone says saying o if you enjoyed it then its fine well let me put this here you are 14 she is 22 she molested you and she should know better. Dont listen to all these people saying o if you enjoyed it its fine because this is really really wrong

At the end of the day, by virtue of your ages, you are by all rights a minor and she an adult. As you mentioned here, you didn't verbalise that you gave consent - she touched you before you allowed her to. Furthermore, even if you did allow her verbally, it wouldn't have been legal. From her point of view, it wasn't ethical nor moral to have done so.

She is an adult - old enough to be your aunt, even. She should have known better.

What now happens depends upon you. However, one wonders that if she could have done this to someone who trusts her and is related to her when she is in a position of responsibility as a child-carer/babysitter, what she would do to others if she were placed into another position of responsibility?

Is it wrong that you felt good about the enjoyment? From a physical perspective, probably not. The act of ejaculation leads to release of chemicals which make it a pleasurable response. However, it is important to not mix up the psychological and social aspects to what happened.

Weighing it all up, I'd say you have an ethical responsibility to speak up mate. But it rests on your shoulders at the end of the day.

[RogerU]

It's normal you enjoyed it, but what she did might be wrong

[Soxman97]

If you were ok with it then nothing wrong

[Nick24]

Ahhhh. Ok, fine, I admit it falls under child molestation then, but it's the dude's own choice whether or not he wants to report it. If he's traumatized by ti then he shoud report, if not..he can just keep quiet about it and enjoy.


I agree completely with that. The kid did nothing wrong. I'm just saying it's extremely disgusting that a babysitter would do that.

[Body odah Man]

I agree completely with that. The kid did nothing wrong. I'm just saying it's extremely disgusting that a babysitter would do that.

To me, it seems more like she did it to give him a pleasant experience rather than to abuse him and make him feel terrible. If, however, her objective was to abuse him..then yeah she is messed up like major bro and I agree with you.