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TheN3rdyOutcast
June 5th, 2014, 09:13 AM
I would, one of my biggest dreams is to have a loving husband someday. :hug3:

Horatio Nelson
June 5th, 2014, 09:14 AM
Yes, I would love to get married one day.

refrigeratorx
June 5th, 2014, 09:16 AM
I used to want to... and have kids and all of that stuff, but the thought of being tied down to another person like that confuses me. maybe i am just young and i will want it later in life, but i will get married for myself and not for people who would think its weird for me to be like 50 and unmarried lol

Bull
June 5th, 2014, 09:19 AM
I absolutely want to get married, but not any time in the near future. I have some issues that must be put to rest first. Maybe late in college, or better after graduation from college. Really depends on when I meet the right girl and fall head over heals in love. :lol:

Abyssal Echo
June 5th, 2014, 09:25 AM
Maybe maybe not. it depends on the person and if I move to a state the recognizes same sex unions. Right now Ohio doesn't
I know a gay couple that's been together over 20 years everything is jointly owned in case something happens so, they don't feel the need to get married.

Hollywood
June 5th, 2014, 09:26 AM
Definitely someday, but not anytime soon. Even if I find someone that I fall in love with I'm not rushing into anything. I'll likely be close to or already 30 by the time I get married, if I do.

Harley Quinn
June 5th, 2014, 09:36 AM
I said probably, I mean I have no initial plans for a wedding or anything but like, sure maybe I'd get married. Depends on the situation and who proposes but, yeah I don't see why not in the future when I'm in my late twenties possibly.

Miserabilia
June 5th, 2014, 09:37 AM
Possibly. I don't really want to when I'm very young but I don't know. I'll see what life brings me.

Emerald Dream
June 5th, 2014, 09:55 AM
I wanted to say definitely, but I answered probably. I would like to get married in my future (now), but I do tend to get focused on other big things. A few years from now, I may not want to get married at all due to being a workaholic. I know the way I am, and I if prioritize something else over marriage (like I have with relationships right now) then that's how it will be.

CosmicNoodle
June 5th, 2014, 09:55 AM
I sent it as a useless bit of paper, I am perfectly capable of being with the person I love without it.

But if my partner wants us to be married, then I'm OK, its not that I'm against it, I just don't quite see the point.

Some people see it as romantic, or like the idea, I get that. But its not something that interests me much

Living For Love
June 5th, 2014, 10:00 AM
The idea of being a dad and having a family has always been part of my plans, but on the other hand, I don't want my professional career to be affected by it. I don't know if I could conciliate both things, it's too soon to know...

DarkHorse4eva
June 5th, 2014, 10:08 AM
i want to marry my boyfriend, kinda hopes he wants too
i also hope more than anything that i will be with him forever, and i know we can still be that, even if we don't get married

Gamma Male
June 6th, 2014, 12:13 AM
Definitely, but sure as fuck not anytime soon. :lol: Maybe after I get out of college. It just depends on when I meet the right guy.

phuckphace
June 6th, 2014, 12:15 AM
hell no. bachelor for life mane.

Plane And Simple
June 6th, 2014, 12:21 AM
Yes.

Stronger
June 6th, 2014, 12:48 AM
I voted maybe, I've gone back and forth, and I think it would be nice to get married and have a small family; but at other times I don't see myself with anyone. Certainly don't wouldn't want to right now with school and trying to achieve my work goals.

LouBerry
June 6th, 2014, 01:02 AM
I'm engaged right now, and we're planning on getting hitched not this coming April, but the one after. So, yes.

Plasma
June 6th, 2014, 01:14 AM
I'd like to, but I need to be completely sure I've found the right person first. Marriage can be such a mess

Karkat
June 6th, 2014, 04:06 AM
If I don't stupidly break up with my amazing boyfriend, absolutely. If we end up parting ways? Nope.

DarkOmega
June 6th, 2014, 05:22 AM
I sent it as a useless bit of paper, I am perfectly capable of being with the person I love without it.

But if my partner wants us to be married, then I'm OK, its not that I'm against it, I just don't quite see the point.

Some people see it as romantic, or like the idea, I get that. But its not something that interests me much

same. its pointless for me . its just a piece of paper . perfectly capable of being with somebody else without saying I'm married

Apassionato
June 6th, 2014, 10:53 AM
I've been in a Civil Union with my partner since I was just 18, however, I don't romanticise marriage. It's a legal contract that awards us privileges, but also responsibilities. It enabled him to permanently move to Germany, which was the primary reason we did it.

I like the symbolic side of marriage, but in the end, it doesn't really matter. I think of it as a legal extension of your personal situation and rather useful. I'm hoping for my Civil Union to be considered a marriage soon, if only to erase the "separate but equal" aspect.

TheLoneWolf
June 6th, 2014, 12:04 PM
Definitely not.
Costs way too much money, doesn't have any emotional value to me and it's way more difficult to seperate again.
So, nope.

Apassionato
June 6th, 2014, 12:10 PM
Costs way too much money...

My ceremony cost about 150€ and has saved us thousands in taxes, travel costs and legal costs since.

Seemyheart
June 6th, 2014, 01:47 PM
Yeah, I want to get married some day. I want it to be a one time thing though, if he isnt 100% sure about me, im not going to take a risk and have a failed marriage. I want what my grandparents have, to have a long lasting marriage.
No way am I getting married anytime soon though, I still have things I want to do before I get tied down

Hundred Spirited God
June 6th, 2014, 01:58 PM
if a marriage doesn't inlcude sex,then defenitely!! :D

Cognizant
June 6th, 2014, 02:05 PM
Most likely yes because I really want to start a family, but there's part of me that says I want to be free from that major commitment.
It's a bit too early for me to decide about marriage, given that ideally I'll wait till I'm like 25-30.

Lisa R
June 6th, 2014, 03:55 PM
Definitely so once i find the perfect mister right ...

Melodic
June 6th, 2014, 04:06 PM
I'd love to marry someday. However, it would have to be someone that can handle my emotional problems, possibly understand them from experience of their own.

sqishy
June 6th, 2014, 04:13 PM
Probably

plebble
June 6th, 2014, 04:58 PM
I honestly don't think there is anyone out there for me. I know someone's reply will be "aww don't be like that you will find someone xoxox", no. You don't understand. I am incredibly weird and no one will ever want me. I'm not being depressing, or stubborn, I am being truthful.

Blood
June 6th, 2014, 07:03 PM
As of right now, no way.

Luminous
June 6th, 2014, 07:14 PM
Definitely. I don't see any future for myself without a wife.

ugaboy
June 7th, 2014, 08:52 PM
I would love to have kids someday, but I just dont see it working out. Honestly, probably end up alone for my life.

KieranRules
June 7th, 2014, 09:25 PM
Yep! It's just one of those 'life things' that has to be done for me! It would just make me feel at peace and let me know that there is someone out there who would share their life with me. I know that marriage is just a legal document but the whole reception thing and the idea of being able to say: "I'm married" just makes the whole thing special to me. :)

Oh and same-sex marriage is now legal in UK so I want to take the chance that others before me did not have and help change happen. :)

unknownuser
June 8th, 2014, 01:56 AM
Yeah, I'd like to... if I find the right person and if career permits.

Sarah18
June 8th, 2014, 12:43 PM
Most definitely! I cannot wait to get married and start my family! I met my boyfriend over a year ago and we've been together since. He's a few years older than me and we both already talk about our plans after I graduate from college and when we'll get married and start our family. I think marriage is special since you're dedicating your life to someone, so it should be with someone you really love.

Snookers
June 8th, 2014, 12:54 PM
Am I one of those people who thinks that they're going to have at least 2 marriages? no? oh okay...

But yea, most people (girls) these days want a wedding, not a marriage, sadly..

Calliope
June 8th, 2014, 01:09 PM
Not particularly.

Sir Suomi
June 8th, 2014, 10:37 PM
Eventually, yes. I'd like to be able to settle down, and have a family. However, I'd like to wait until I'm in my later 20's, maybe even early 30's. I'd like to still be able to go out, have fun with friends, and not worry about commitment. However, it could all change depending on the kind of girl I meet on the way.

Ben_Frost
June 8th, 2014, 10:42 PM
Definitely not,my plan is to live together with my two best friends and make a family of only three and many cats. I don't like the idea of marrying to someone. I prefer living with the people I care about, and cooperating to live happily and without worries.

Dalcourt
June 8th, 2014, 10:52 PM
I have never thought about this honestly...but maybe if I find the right one.

Microcosm
June 8th, 2014, 10:55 PM
I want to wait until I've done a few things first. Maybe when I'm 25-30 and I've had a few years to myself I will get married and take on the responsibility of having children.

Chaotic Trickster
June 10th, 2014, 09:17 AM
I will most likely never get married, so certainly not.

highschool
June 10th, 2014, 05:22 PM
call me traditional, but I don't know what I would do if I didn't get married.

Sarah1996
June 10th, 2014, 06:01 PM
I would love to get married some day.

Lost in the Echo
June 10th, 2014, 06:03 PM
Probably, but it's not really something I think about much.

OhMateus
June 12th, 2014, 04:00 PM
someday :):wub:

FullyAlive
June 12th, 2014, 04:42 PM
I would like to get married someday, I like the tradition of it my parents are married, my grandparents etc and whilst I know it doesn't always work out I'd like to try my hardest for it too.

bobbi
June 12th, 2014, 11:41 PM
Maybe but I don't think I will ever have the guts to walk down an wedding aisle and have all the attention on me.

johny1996
June 13th, 2014, 01:21 AM
Yup.. may be when I turn 25.. :) So I still have plenty time to enjoy my life..

LifeOfLove
June 15th, 2014, 01:30 AM
Well, I'd definitely say I'm going to get married...
In fact, something big just happened for me. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years now. It's been an awesome 4 years, so awesome that recently actually proposed! Pretty hard to believe I'm actually engaged, but I'd say it means I'm getting married for sure!!

Whight
June 15th, 2014, 06:00 PM
While I know getting married is just a piece of paper of sorts, idk, there's something about it that I really want.
I mean, I really want a family again. I know having a loving person in your life is the same wether there's a paper attached or not, but the marriage thing feels like it'll make it all to more real and important. Like, then is when i'd really feel I have a family again, a real one.

Croconaw
June 15th, 2014, 06:06 PM
Maybe.

TheAwesomeCoder
June 16th, 2014, 03:50 PM
YES I would like to be married

ChaseDakoda
June 16th, 2014, 03:58 PM
I most certaintly do. I gene pool has twins in it and I am hopping to have twins at some time in my life or adopt twins. and work at Disney World like 3 of my uncles do.

crazyBoyjJ
June 16th, 2014, 03:58 PM
I really do. I can't stand without being with a girl. I luv girls even if their annoying and bitchy at times. I still need them. I hate not having a gf when I see everyone else in a rekationship :( . but I wouldn't get married now I don't wanna tie myself to one girl just yet.

zbo95
June 16th, 2014, 10:38 PM
I use to not want that but now i do. As i get older the idea of having my only family and not being alone is way more inticing. I've been in a family my whole life and falling in love and starting my own family only seems right

xXoblivionXx
June 17th, 2014, 12:55 PM
Yeah, one day :)

tbake98
June 17th, 2014, 12:57 PM
Absolutely, I want to.

NeuroTiger
June 17th, 2014, 01:07 PM
Yeah...;)

Body odah Man
June 17th, 2014, 01:25 PM
Marriage seems quite nice to have

StacyD
June 17th, 2014, 09:06 PM
Absolutely, yes I do.

xlBitterSweetlx
June 19th, 2014, 11:55 AM
Yes.
I know it's overall just a document and a taken family name, but to me the whole idea of a ceremony, a holy union and a happy family, the feeling that me and ny beloved somehow belonging to each other, is extremely special and important.
And I mean, if you love someone and want to spend your life with them, if this 'document' is just an unnecessary proof for your love, why not sign it? I think that marriage is something beautiful. Imperfect, but beautiful in its essence.

honeybear
June 22nd, 2014, 06:53 AM
I don't think I'll ever get married to a man...I don't think I could develop affection for one on that level any more..the only way I would ever get officially married is if same sex marriage was made legal where I live ...if so I'd marry my gf who I've been with for over 5 years...and I'd do it in a heartbeat

Dutchstranger
June 22nd, 2014, 07:18 AM
Maybe. If my gf wants it I will too.
If she doesn`t I don`t mind either.

MyPlague2014
June 22nd, 2014, 07:25 PM
I love being single

Hundred Spirited God
June 23rd, 2014, 04:29 AM
no,never going to and I never will