TheRedViper
June 5th, 2014, 07:54 AM
We've been really good friends for two years now, ever since she came to my school (but she left now). She's very beautiful, and this sometimes makes me worried she is way too good for me. I'm by no means ugly, I'm just not great looking either. I'm pretty average. I'm not saying she just cares about appearance in a relationship, but I don't know.
I think we're very close as friends. We always texted (and still do) each other, and we were pretty much best friends when she was at school. We'll sometimes catch up not during school, like tonight we went to KFC and talked there for like an hour, then went back to her house and just stayed there for a few hours, watching Youtube and TV. She said she was supposed to go see her boyfriend later tonight, but told me she'd rather just stay with me.
She has a boyfriend, who's been on and off for ages now. He treats her pretty badly, even though he is constantly sucking up to her and pretending he loves her whenever she gets pissed off. She always, and I mean always, complains about him and how she hates him and doesn't want to be with him. Just now she texted me (even though we saw each other an hour ago) and said she is breaking up with him finally. This has happened several times though, over the past year and a half.
I honestly think though that we'd be good together. We love being with each other, even if it's just talking and sitting quietly, and she considers me one of her best friends, and trusts me heaps. I know it would make sense to ask her out (or at least see how it goes) if she does in fact break up with her boyfriend. And I really do want to at least ask her. I'm just worried that I'm nowhere near good enough for her. I sometimes feel a bit insecure that I'm too boring for her, since she leads a pretty full-on life, like heaps of parties and stuff.
I don't know, I just feel really conflicted. I really want to ask her out, but I don't want to ruin our friendship if I ask her and she says no (I also don't want her to feel awkward).
I think we're very close as friends. We always texted (and still do) each other, and we were pretty much best friends when she was at school. We'll sometimes catch up not during school, like tonight we went to KFC and talked there for like an hour, then went back to her house and just stayed there for a few hours, watching Youtube and TV. She said she was supposed to go see her boyfriend later tonight, but told me she'd rather just stay with me.
She has a boyfriend, who's been on and off for ages now. He treats her pretty badly, even though he is constantly sucking up to her and pretending he loves her whenever she gets pissed off. She always, and I mean always, complains about him and how she hates him and doesn't want to be with him. Just now she texted me (even though we saw each other an hour ago) and said she is breaking up with him finally. This has happened several times though, over the past year and a half.
I honestly think though that we'd be good together. We love being with each other, even if it's just talking and sitting quietly, and she considers me one of her best friends, and trusts me heaps. I know it would make sense to ask her out (or at least see how it goes) if she does in fact break up with her boyfriend. And I really do want to at least ask her. I'm just worried that I'm nowhere near good enough for her. I sometimes feel a bit insecure that I'm too boring for her, since she leads a pretty full-on life, like heaps of parties and stuff.
I don't know, I just feel really conflicted. I really want to ask her out, but I don't want to ruin our friendship if I ask her and she says no (I also don't want her to feel awkward).