My friends have changed.

[xshanan]

Hey guys i want to tell you things that happened in my school life lately.

I dont have many friends at school, because i dont trust people easily. but now, people that i've been trusted to.... they have changed. all of them has changed.

one of them wants to get rid of because she has crush on my friend, she told everyone in my class about that but me. my friends told me that she doesnt want me know about this, why? because she is shy! and she thought that I have crush on that guy too! she and i have never played and talked since that happened. I want to explain her about this but she might be mad at my friends because they told me about her secret.

and the others... they've changed since they have boyfriend. i feel like i dont have any friends, i dont know who to trust anymore. even my closest friends like to talk behind each others back now ... :(

what should i do? :(

[Zteenagedude]

Sometimes your trust needs to be kept and locked away, like for the person you eill marry etc. But when it comes to friendship, trust kust builds up as the relationship goes on. You do not need to trust them 100% completely to be there friends but trust will build as the relationship continues. I HOPE This helped!

[xshanan]

Sometimes your trust needs to be kept and locked away, like for the person you eill marry etc. But when it comes to friendship, trust kust builds up as the relationship goes on. You do not need to trust them 100% completely to be there friends but trust will build as the relationship continues. I HOPE This helped!

i agree :)
but how can i trust them to tell what i really am feeling now and my secrets if they like to talk behind my and eachothers back :(

[Zteenagedude]

Well sometimes you just have to make that decision for yourself if you feel like one of your friends is talking behind your back then you might want to confront them about it. I wouldn't give away all your secrets right away. It just takes time to develop a great friendship.

[Harley Quinn]

Life is too short to have friends you don't trust and friends that treat you like shit, I would suggest talking to them about what you're feeling but keep it in a general sense. That way, you know that if they do talk behind your back, it won't hurt as much. Friends are an integral part of life and you need friends that help you grow as a person. I know that sometimes friends are hard to make, but I do suggest if you are unhappy that you try and make new friends and you hold the level of trust to a minimum until you know that you can trust them.

[JamesSuperBoy]

If you want to talk to the girl about the crush thing then do so - she told a lot so you dont have to say who actually told you - but people do change as we grow up not always for the better - but dont let that stress you -

[LouBerry]

Hey guys i want to tell you things that happened in my school life lately.

I dont have many friends at school, because i dont trust people easily. but now, people that i've been trusted to.... they have changed. all of them has changed.

one of them wants to get rid of because she has crush on my friend, she told everyone in my class about that but me. my friends told me that she doesnt want me know about this, why? because she is shy! and she thought that I have crush on that guy too! she and i have never played and talked since that happened. I want to explain her about this but she might be mad at my friends because they told me about her secret.

and the others... they've changed since they have boyfriend. i feel like i dont have any friends, i dont know who to trust anymore. even my closest friends like to talk behind each others back now ... :(

what should i do? :(

I know it sucks, but that's a part of growing up. I don't know how old you are, but I learned that lesson in eighth grade. There is very rarely such thing as a perfect best friend. If you have two real friends, you are extremely lucky. People, especially in their younger teen years, are fickle. They are obsessed with fitting in, with being cool, with being liked, and the thing is, they never strive to impress their friends, it's other people. So, as your friends are trying to make more friends, they are changing into a piece of the people they are around. Every day they are a little less the people you know, and a little more someone new. By the time you graduate, you probably won't associate with most of your "best friends" now. Just like them, you'll find new friends, and just like them, you will change. The trick is, find the right friends. Find people who are happy with who and where they are, and they will stick with you as long as you stick with them. If someone isn't being good to you, drop them, they aren't worth it.

[plebble]

That happened to me. A couple of months into secondary school (11 years old) I lost all of my primary school friends because they wanted to be popular by bullying me as I am an easy target because I have red hair. I've always been strong, I was never depressed, however for 7 years after that (now) I'm still alone.

They are not your friends. Find new friends, even if they're really unpopular. The more friends you make the better.