Spontaneously getting told you shouldn't have been born.

[Remora]

So yeah, me and my mom were practising my French and i got stressed and freaked out arlier today, she assosiated this "extraordinarily rude behaviour" with beeing depressed si did a pathetic attempt to cheer me up.

But since she's my mom, she decides to tell me i'm an accident. She's -so- good at this cheering people up stuff, she should get an award! right?

After beeing told i was the result of a broken condom, she decided i was still "a little bit depressed" so told me that they were considering abortion during those 9 months.

I don't know why i went trough the effort of typing this, i don't know why i'm posting it and neither do i know how in the name of the Great Feline you guys are supposed to help me, but i just need to ge this off my chest, i guess.

Thank you for having wasted your time reading this.
Meow.

[Miserabilia]

What?
That's awful.
I'm sure she's not really trying to mean that or she's just really really bad at comforting.
We're her for you anyway if you feel depressed

[Remora]

She's probably just really really bad at confronting...
Thank you for your reply anyways :c

[CosmicNoodle]

that really is awfull, I think she's not trying to be mean, I think she's just innept at mothering....
Feel free to PM of you want to talk.

[Miserabilia]

She's probably just really really bad at confronting...
Thank you for your reply anyways :c

Don't worry, and you're not wasting anyone's time. There's always someone ready to read and listen, is one of the things I've learned here.

[Gamma Male]

My mother has told me on several occasions that if she could go back in time she never would of had kids. I don't really know what can be done about it. That's just how she feels. When you turn 18, you're free to move far away and never see her again.

[Remora]

Well, i'm kind of way too loyal to her, i'm way to dependent of her and youngest of 5 (10).
I judt don't know right now. I locked myself in my room, she hasn't come upstairs yet.

[Living For Love]

I'm sure she didn't really mean it. She said that in the heat of the moment, you're still important to her. Stay strong.

[Dalcourt]

Aw, you are not wasting our time...it's really bad what your mom said to you, a parent should never say that. I'm sure she didn't want to be mean...maybe she had a bad day, too or she is bad at parenting in general...
My Dad says things like that to me, too mostly when he is in a bad mood ... but usually he tells me he didn't want to be mean later when his mood is better again.
So, just don't think too much about it.

[Microcosm]

That's terrible. Especially from your mother...
Still, you're a human being. You should be treated like one.
Anyways, feel free to PM me if you want to talk further.

[ksdnfkfr]

that's like the worst thing a parent can say to a kid. sorry you had to hear it.