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ithinkalot2
June 4th, 2014, 01:39 PM
I'm in a bit of a (strange/unusual maybe) situation.
At my school we have this kind of social network that people in our school and schools around in our area where we could get advice and support from each other and helplines for various things.
There was help for other guys/girls that were having problems with sexuality so I made contact with some others to chat, I got on very well with another boy, he is in my school a year below me.
We didn't tell each other who we were because it can be kept anonymous, we swapped emails and started to keep in touch that way, which progressed to chatting over xbox and texting each other.
We realised we liked each other a lot but were still very unsure about our sexuality but it was easy to talk because we were not face to face, emails even got a little more personal if you know what I mean :whoops:
The problem now is I would love us to be able to spend time together for real, I feel that we know each other well and would like things to progress.
He is a bit scared, I understand but I'm going crazy everyday when we were at school thinking I could be walking right past him :confused:
I'm looking for a bit of advice on what to do next?
Thanks for reading.

Miserabilia
June 4th, 2014, 01:42 PM
I don't know but the obvious answer seems to just ask him online if you could, if you don't your never really going to know who it is. Or just send a picture of your faces, etc.

Living For Love
June 4th, 2014, 02:09 PM
Yeah, you need to find out who he is! Ask him via e-mail, tell him you just think you are already enough comfortable with each other and that it would be nice if you could actually meet in real life. It doesn't mean you're going to start dating him right now, though, but make sure he understands it would be cool if you could actually have a real conversation, and no one has to know about you two either way.

kaydencorey
June 4th, 2014, 05:04 PM
Ask him how he feels about meeting you for real, if you have known each other for a while and are comfortable, then meeting would be the next step :)
You have to find out who he is, you have probably walked past each other so many times!
Go for it.

Lost in the Echo
June 4th, 2014, 05:29 PM
Just continue being comforting with him, and ease him into meeting you. If he's still not ready, then give him a bit more time.
You just don't want to force him into it, that could ruin everything. He's ready when he's ready.