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jjlewis
June 4th, 2014, 06:21 AM
I was curious about what people look for in a b/f or g/f
so this is to everyone gay/str8/bi/curious

What would be your perfect partner, looks and personality?
Or just someone to have a bit of fun with.

Bull
June 4th, 2014, 07:23 AM
Good question. I like girls who have a bubbly personality, not too short, nice boobs, likes sports, is an outdoors type, likes to go for walks, kinda laid back, shows affection, likes to cuddle and make out(I really like kissing), is just a lot of fun to be with.

I would like a guy friend who is outgoing, good personality, enjoys talking, likes sports, has a nice body and shows an interesting bulge. I don't know why but blue eyes get to me with guys. With girls eye color is not a big thing. That is kinda weird. I would want a guy to cuddle, I think I want to relax in a guys arms and listen to music, or hold hands walking in the woods. I've got a lot of guy friends, but not a single one that I can do this with, yet.

Ok, I talked more about guy than girl. I think that is because I am with girls and just want to be with a guy. :lol:

Kasp
June 4th, 2014, 12:33 PM
Trust, friendship and a good sense of humour!

Harley Quinn
June 5th, 2014, 08:02 AM
I look mainly for these things:

Trust
Honesty
Communication skills
Humour
Non clingy

Things like that really, looks wise that all depends. I know I'm attracted to some things but once I see it, I'll know hey, she looks really good. Or something of that nature anyway.

TheN3rdyOutcast
June 5th, 2014, 08:47 AM
I'd go for a guy who's fairly tall and husky. He'd be nice and somewhat caring, but he'd be the dominant in the relationship.
I'm into the romantic stuff and hoping he would be too, kissing, hugging, cuddling in the winter time, stuff like that.

Izofthebeholder
June 5th, 2014, 06:37 PM
I like guys that are cute, make me laugh and likes me for me

Typhlosion
June 5th, 2014, 07:19 PM
Something that really catches my attention, personality-wise, is if the person is outgoing. Of course, trust and funnyness. Not too gender-stereotypical (not girly or manly). And can sometimes just relax and spend time without saying a word, y'know? Doesn't go frequently to gym. Might as well like rock.

And this above isn't only in romantic relationships.

Looks-wise

Really long, natural hair
I like grey eyes
Round face, no pointy chin
Just a tad bit shorter than I
Not skinny
Some meat appreciated :3
Boobs are always welcome
As well as hips
Doesn't open mouth too much when talking (IT'S WEIRD I KNOW)

Likes dresses
Or anything beyond short shorts that aren't pants.
Also wears more sneakers than slippers
Not too many shoes please.

canonjourno
June 8th, 2014, 12:40 AM
I just want a girl with three things:
- beautiful
- talented
- understanding

And probably most added recently...forgiving. I'm a hard personality honestly ;) But I'm not unbearable- I consider myself an honest, sub-consciously flirtatious personality :P

Cognizant
June 8th, 2014, 12:50 AM
Naturally, looks is what comes to mind first. Before you call me a judgmental dickhead, most people use their eyes to perceive people before actually talking to them.

I really like people who have soft skin, slightly tan, largish muscles (for guys)/defined-ish curves (for girls), and a big smile. Nice smiles and really pretty eyes just do it for me. It makes me so happy.

As far as personality goes, I need someone that can be honest even if it might sting; that's the other thing: they should be able to deal with the stings that occur from time to time. It's something my ex didn't do to well with and it made me depressed.
I also am not the most social creature and suck at small talk, so it always helps that the person I'm dating either has a lot in common with me or is good with talking.
I also look for people who are willing to give me what I can give them in return. Sure, it might be weird for a girl or super submissive guy to be holding me, but if they're willing to take one for the team they're the best girlfriend/boyfriend ever :)

ugh this made me realize that my expectations are too high for people around here =\

unknownuser
June 8th, 2014, 01:53 AM
Mostly we need lots of things in common interest and personality-wise so we understand each-other and are on the same page. Additionally, a guy that is understanding, empathetic, rational, down-to-earth, honest, confident, and not easily swayed by others and outside influences.

Appearance-wise, I'm not too picky, but at least someone of reasonable weight and a tiny bit taller than me would be nice... I've also got a thing for dark hair and brown eyes...

Yeah, I guess you could say my expectations are kinda high... maybe that's why I haven't found him... or maybe he doesn't even exist.

Luisss
June 9th, 2014, 03:21 PM
I like brunette girls that are pretty, unique, trustful, honest, nice hair, nice body, perky boobs, lovable, outgoing, understanding, stylish, and fun to be around. It's a lot to ask for but that's my perfect girl.

Lost in the Echo
June 9th, 2014, 03:29 PM
I like a girl who's outgoing ( which is ironic considering how introverted I am ), caring, good sense of humor, good personality, and not even a little bitchy.

As for looks, I like blonde and brunette girls, and blue and brown eyes.

sixguy6
June 9th, 2014, 04:06 PM
My preference is the girl I am currently with so.......go talk to her and found out what shes like lol. But I cant be picky so depends but usually I get along with anyone :)

Melodic
June 9th, 2014, 04:21 PM
Someone I can have fun with, joke around with, and be myself. Someone who is sweet and caring and can be serious when needed. Someone who is outgoing and even if we are totally different, we can find something to talk about. Someone who will understand a lot of my life problems and be there with me through them anyways.

Sarah18
June 9th, 2014, 09:10 PM
I'm not one to focus on looks, but a cute smile and nice eyes are my weakness. I'm 5'7 so if they are taller that's a plus. As far as personality goes, I've been treated like crap in the past, so a guy that is sweet, caring, funny, shares the same interest in music and baseball as me and nice is what I'm really looking for.... and luckily I found a guy that meets all of those and is the perfect boyfriend :)

Ben_Frost
June 9th, 2014, 09:48 PM
Well I already have someone I like, so I'll post what I like about him:

-Taller than me
-Quiet
-Kind
-Wise
-Not clingy
-Not manipulative or obsessive
-Most our tastes match

Rabbit2016
June 10th, 2014, 08:04 PM
I just want a girl with three things:
- beautiful
- talented
- understanding

And probably most added recently...forgiving. I'm a hard personality honestly ;) But I'm not unbearable- I consider myself an honest, sub-consciously flirtatious personality :P

I'm the same way!! I've been dating the same girl for 1 year and 5 months and she hates it and wants me to change but I'm sure you'd understand that it's really hard! I try but when I "flirt" I don't even think about it. We got in a really big fight today and might break up. That's the only reason I logged on here today...

canonjourno
June 12th, 2014, 02:26 AM
I'm the same way!! I've been dating the same girl for 1 year and 5 months and she hates it and wants me to change but I'm sure you'd understand that it's really hard! I try but when I "flirt" I don't even think about it. We got in a really big fight today and might break up. That's the only reason I logged on here today...

You'll be fine bro...message me if you have issues. It surely will have an easy solution :D

Stronk Serb
June 12th, 2014, 02:46 PM
Looks don't really matter to me. When I remember it, I had crushes which weren't attractive physically, but had good personalities. All girls are pretty in some way.

kaydencorey
June 12th, 2014, 06:33 PM
Id like someone close to my age, a bit taller maybe, cute of course :) I love blue eyes, they are beautiful.
Personality is of course more important, he would have to be intelligent or I would get bored, one of those essential things for me, a good sense of humour, able to laugh at himself and be silly :)
Someone adventurous, open, honest and sensitive and not afraid to show his feelings.

bobbi
June 12th, 2014, 11:58 PM
Likes human anatomy and Greek mythology
Taller than 5ft 3in
Intelligent
Knows the Mayan's number system.
Has a sense of humor. My perfect partner in my head has all of these characteristics that I like.

carolinae
June 13th, 2014, 11:51 AM
I already have a boyfriend so I'll just talk about him.
He's shy. Sometimes stubborn, but mostly understanding. He's introverted and loves to read (which is something I love to do too). Intelligently funny. We always have something to talk about. Not too jealous, but let's me know that he cares. Short-tempered, and a bit aggressive (not physically).

He's fairly tan. Green eyes. Curly light brown hair. Around an inch taller than me.

Body odah Man
June 13th, 2014, 01:02 PM
I like sweet girls that can be comforting and that won't nag me about my (lack of) hygiene