Possibly Bi?

[Microcosm]

I don't know if I'm straight or bi. I really like girls sexually and I don't think about having sex with guys as attractive for me(although I don't mind the thought, I just don't enjoy it either.). There is this one guy that I care about a lot.. We dated once for about two weeks before I ended It because I was not sure if I could handle being bi and having a boyfriend. Am I overthinking this? I have a lot of feminine things about me( I act like a girl innately in some cases). I mean I don't always act feminine but I have the personality of a girl in many ways. Any help here would be greatly appreciated.

[Blood]

Are you sexually attracted to makes and females? If so, you're bi.

[Microcosm]

Are you sexually attracted to makes and females? If so, you're bi.

Yes I know it's just that I'm not sure. I think maybe it's just this one guy. Not really any others just him. Other than him, I'm into girls. And I wouldn't think having sex with him to be attractive. Only romance and just playing with him in a romantic way.

[Blood]

Yes I know it's just that I'm not sure. I think maybe it's just this one guy. Not really any others just him. Other than him, I'm into girls. And I wouldn't think having sex with him to be attractive. Only romance and just playing with him in a romantic way.

Hmmm. Well, give yourself some time. You're still young and your hormones are still kinda spazzy. Just remember: romantic orientation and sexual orientation don't always go hand in hand and there's nothing wrong with that. We're all attracted to different things. Try not to worry so much about labels. Just go with the flow. :)

[Gamma Male]

You could be a heterosexual biromantic. Or could could be bisexual but just not comfortable enough with yourself and your sexuality to think about sex. If so, that'll pass. Or, you could be going through a phase because of wacky hormones. It's tough to say.

[JustAnotherTeen]

Heterosexual Biromantic maybe? One of you will know ;)



edit. Just realised Gamma Male put the same thing, sorry :)

[CosmicNoodle]

Again, heterosexual biromantic....that's a long name...

[HazwoldTheElder]

As others have said, I think you might need to just think it out for a bit. It took me a good year to confirm my sexuality and, yeah, I had discovered there were people who I liked both because they were friends and because I had a crush on them, it just took me a while to realize the romantic bit.

I'd recommend that if you just give it a few weeks, maybe months, to think, you'll soon be a bit closer to understanding yourself. (And yes some bi people just aren't attracted sexually to both sexes)

Good luck on your discovery, man :)

[Faolan]

It is possible to be attracted to both sexes in different amounts and still be considered bisexual. This sounds similar to what you've described. You seem to like girls more, but you still find some boys attractive. If it's just this one guy, though, than you may be straight with some bisexual tendencies. As a friend of mine said to me when I came out, "The body's nothing more than a vessel for the person within; remember that it doesn't matter one's gender when love is there." Don't box yourself in if you can help it. You're just you, and that's all that matters. :)