I'm not interested in sex. Is this normal?

[Croconaw]

I know that most people my age feel the need to have sexual interaction. Not once in my life have I felt this way. I've never been interested in having sex with anyone. I feel attracted to just girls, but I have never wanted to have sex with either gender. Would I be considered an asexual lesbian? Is this normal to not be interested in having sex? People told me I was stupid for not wanting to have sex. It just doesn't appeal to me. I feel weird for thinking this way. Can anyone help please?

Does anyone else feel this way?

[Luminous]

Yes, you probably are asexual. If you do feel romantic attraction to other females, you'd also be homoromantic. It's entirely possible, and completely normal, no need to worry.

[Big O]

I think your asexual but that's all I can say I wanna have sex with girls

[Hundred Spirited God]

first,it isn't stupid,what's stupid is how they called you that for not being insterted in sex,and yea,i think it's normal for you to not be interested sex,your either uncomfortable,shy,or just don't want to

[Calliope]

It's totally normal! Don't worry about it, sex isn't needed in life. Sounds like you're homoromantic asexual, although I'll let you decide. Ignore all the people who say you're stupid for not wanting it, or you "just haven't found the right person", they don't know you.

[Star Wolf]

I agree with Megido. You could be asexual homoromanitc.

There is also the possibility you just don't have sexual feelings until you fall in love with someone. I've read stuff that says female arousal is deeply linked with emotional connection.

[Luminous]

I agree with the other posters. You could be asexual homoromanitc.

There is also the possibility you just don't have sexual feelings until you fall in love with someone. I've read stuff that says female arousal is deeply linked with emotional connection.

If you're talking about demisexuality, that is possible, but I don't think it's as likely, because OP has no desire for sex at all, while demisexual would be not experiencing sexual attraction until forming a deep emotional connection. Someone who is demisexual may still feel a desire for sex, but not experience any sexual attraction to somebody.

[gothy]

I know that most people my age feel the need to have sexual interaction. Not once in my life have I felt this way. I've never been interested in having sex with anyone. I feel attracted to just girls, but I have never wanted to have sex with either gender. Would I be considered an asexual lesbian? Is this normal to not be interested in having sex? People told me I was stupid for not wanting to have sex. It just doesn't appeal to me. I feel weird for thinking this way. Can anyone help please?

Does anyone else feel this way?

Im a bit similar to you. i mean i really couldnt give a damn wether i ever lose my virginity. While all the other boys are as horny as hell.
Its not stupid. sexuality is sexuality. as long as it doesnt involve non human or non living animals/humans, then no sexuality is stupid. :)

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Sexuality is something that some people think you can organize into neat shiny boxes. But in reality, there are no shiny boxes. Don't worry about it.

[Croconaw]

Thank you for the answers. :) I feel better now. I didn't think it was bad, but others are trying to convince me that it is. I'll ignore them.

[sixguy6]

Well its not bad at all. Youre just asexual so it completely fine :)