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thatgothgirluknow
June 3rd, 2014, 04:19 PM
so my councelar already knows about my cutting but is it importand to tell her that i dont care if i die or end up in the hospital im not really trying very much not to cut anymore or that im im doing it allot more often and its allot more severe

Harley Quinn
June 3rd, 2014, 04:20 PM
If you want to get help, then yes it's very important to tell her that. However, you do have to realise that it may lead to a lot more psychiatric help than you realise. But, if you do want help, I do advise you tell her.

CosmicNoodle
June 3rd, 2014, 04:22 PM
Yes. Its very important, they can't help unless they know exactly what's wrong, and how bad things are

Living For Love
June 3rd, 2014, 04:24 PM
Yes, I think it's always good to tell everything that's happening to you to your counsellor so that he/she can work out to best way to deal with the issue. You shouldn't be afraid of telling it, the counsellor is there to help you, so you should always try to give as much information as possible.

gothy
June 3rd, 2014, 04:24 PM
Yes i advise you do. im a bit of a hypocrite when i say this, but i advise that you do. It would be tragic if you died. please dont die.

Miserabilia
June 3rd, 2014, 04:27 PM
Self harm leading into semi suicidal thoughts like that is even more serious, and I think it's one of those things you should definitly tell if you are counceled.

thatgothgirluknow
June 3rd, 2014, 04:29 PM
If you want to get help, then yes it's very important to tell her that. However, you do have to realise that it may lead to a lot more psychiatric help than you realise. But, if you do want help, I do advise you tell her.
i want help but im not sure what u mean by more than i realise i already go to counseling every week already since i was sent to a crisis center for having a blade at school

xXoblivionXx
June 3rd, 2014, 04:57 PM
so my councelar already knows about my cutting but is it important to tell her that i dont care if i die or end up in the hospital im not really trying very much not to cut anymore or that im im doing it allot more often and its allot more severe

yeah, it's important that your councilor knows. And as for what your feeling.. are you feeling suicidal or is it kind of like if you were about to be hit by a car you wouldn't try to get out of the way? I think it's best that you tell your counselor because that way he or she will be able to help you get more help. it's not necessarily going to be easy but it's the safest thing for you to do right now. PM me if you ever want to talk about anything

thatgothgirluknow
June 3rd, 2014, 05:00 PM
yeah, it's important that your councilor knows. And as for what your feeling.. are you feeling suicidal or is it kind of like if you were about to be hit by a car you wouldn't try to get out of the way? I think it's best that you tell your counselor because that way he or she will be able to help you get more help. it's not necessarily going to be easy but it's the safest thing for you to do right now. PM me if you ever want to talk about anything
like as if i was about to be hit by a car

xXoblivionXx
June 3rd, 2014, 05:04 PM
like as if i was about to be hit by a car

okay, I know what your feeling and I've been where you have been. Looking back I should have told my councilor that I was borderline suicidal but I didn't I just told him that I would be fine and that I would stop cutting. about a year later I ended up in the ER after a suicide attempt and everything was so much more complicated

thatgothgirluknow
June 3rd, 2014, 05:06 PM
okay, I know what your feeling and I've been where you have been. Looking back I should have told my councilor that I was borderline suicidal but I didn't I just told him that I would be fine and that I would stop cutting. about a year later I ended up in the ER after a suicide attempt and everything was so much more complicated
maybe its a good idea to tell her since sometimes i am suicidal

xoraphox
June 3rd, 2014, 05:07 PM
I know we are not allowed to ask questions in other's topic, but I have the same problem... I have constant suicidal thoughts and I started cutting again... My mom know that I did cut but she thinks that I stoped... The school conselor don't know about the cutting but she knows anout my depression... I don't know if I should get help about myself because I don't really want to go in therapy and all this stuff... Any help or argument to change my mind?

xXoblivionXx
June 3rd, 2014, 05:43 PM
maybe its a good idea to tell her since sometimes i am suicidal
yeah, I think it is. good luck, I'm sure you will end up fine and get the help that you deserve.

I know we are not allowed to ask questions in other's topic, but I have the same problem... I have constant suicidal thoughts and I started cutting again... My mom know that I did cut but she thinks that I stoped... The school conselor don't know about the cutting but she knows anout my depression... I don't know if I should get help about myself because I don't really want to go in therapy and all this stuff... Any help or argument to change my mind?

well, the thing with help and mental health is that for the therapy or the counseling you need to want to get better for it to work, you need to want to get better other why you will just continue to hide your true feelings and I think we all know how badly that can end. it's best to get help but you need to want it first

xoraphox
June 3rd, 2014, 05:45 PM
The thing is, I don't know if I want it.... I'm afraid of getting hospitalized and I really don't know what will happen....

thatgothgirluknow
June 3rd, 2014, 05:51 PM
its very unlikely u will be hospitalized if u try to get help and arent extremely suicidal unless u get in to a situation where u put urself of orthes in danger meaning if u end up in the hospital for a suicide threaten to hurt someone or get caught with a knife at school you shouldnt end up in a hopstal

xXoblivionXx
June 3rd, 2014, 06:00 PM
The thing is, I don't know if I want it.... I'm afraid of getting hospitalized and I really don't know what will happen....

Yeah most likely you won't get hospitalized. You may be referred to see a therapist and maybe the therapist will prescribe some sort of medication

Hundred Spirited God
June 3rd, 2014, 06:47 PM
YES,you'd want to get help,every life counts :)