Masturbating With Friends..

[Beaarrr]

When my mate comes round.. we always end up masturbating. We usually stay in our covers. I never know how to bring up the conversation of masturbating together without sounding to up or it. Is it normal for me to really want to masturbate together? We also talk to eachother about how were wanking and techniques were using.. and we try out eachothers ways! its really fun and i enjoy it! do other boys do this?!

Thanks!! :)

[Atonement]

Normal. Yeah, its perfectly normal. Just your hormones acting with you. Just be careful to not ruin a relationship with your friend over this. It happens a lot.

[Hippie]

Yeah, it's perfectly normal. Don't worry :D. Alot of people try stuff like that to be honest, and alot of them think the same you are and are all worried. I guess it's just Hormones.


Hippie

[Maverick]

I'm going to have to disagree here. Yes its normal that you have the urge to want to do it, but does that mean you should? I don't think so.

You're going to get urges to want to do that or have sex with someone on impulse but its important to have good judgment and think through it not just give into to those urges.

Once you do it, you can't take it back and what's done will be done. By doing it you can be putting your friendship at risk. It can make things very awkward and ruin friendships. Worst case scenario is that you get caught or people find out.

Sexual activities shouldn't be done with friends. Sex is something for relationships. You don't want these to cross paths because with friends there are boundaries.

[skinny_bones4]

But this isn't sex, its just wanking. But it does seem odd...because i never thought to do that with my friend.

[Gumleaf]

i can speak from experience and advise you not to do it. i have regretted what happened between a friend of mine and myself about a year ago. we have no contact with eachother now mainly because of the awkwardness the whole thing created.

[Sugaree]

I agree with Stephen. I've done it before and I regret it now. So just take what you think is a good opinion on this matter

[Tyleisme]

It's not abnormal to want to do these things, whether you act upon that impulse or not is your decision. I'm not going to tell you whether I think it's right or wrong. But I will say, if you thought it was right, why would you be asking here. You can't take back what you do, and it's possible that it could cause problems with you and your friend. Just think about whether or not doing something like that is worth losing a friendship.

[Beaarrr]

Ok, thanks everyone, this really helped me!! :)

[Patchy]

As Ant and Stephen said, it can ruin friendships if they take it the wrong way, I did it with a mate for a while, and now the friendship isn't the same, as in its now extremely open.

[Attax]

it is up to u, if u want to atk but ur frien may find it wired and not communicate with u again

[mden]

Normal. Yeah, its perfectly normal. Just your hormones acting with you. Just be careful to not ruin a relationship with your friend over this. It happens a lot.
Well, tha summed up everything I was going to say.
Thanks for saving me the typing. :]

[gorilla]

im 14 and me and my friends have masturbated together for about 3 years now since we was in year 7. i think its normal and it is fun just dont do much more with him than that.

[dogman]

When my mate comes round.. we always end up masturbating. We usually stay in our covers. I never know how to bring up the conversation of masturbating together without sounding to up or it. Is it normal for me to really want to masturbate together? We also talk to eachother about how were wanking and techniques were using.. and we try out eachothers ways! its really fun and i enjoy it! do other boys do this?!

Thanks!! :)

When you say you talk, is it in person or over the interent, b'se if it is over the interent i would say it is fine, but if it is in person, like in the same room, i dont think this is OK

[lolboi06]

it is normal and yes other boys do this

[theOperaGhost]

Old...locking.