CollegeGirl
June 2nd, 2014, 03:12 PM
My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. He's a great guy, very caring & sweet. We have the average relationship problems and have our fair share of ups & downs, but we love each other and when things between us are good, they're great! But things have happened recently & I am so confused! As my username says, I am in college, and my university is 2 hours away from home. My boyfriend would come and visit me often to spend time together. One month ago, he came to visit me and things went terribly wrong. We went to an off campus party that friends of mine were throwing & had an amazing time. Everyone was drinking & dancing and having fun. I went to the bathroom, and when I returned it was like all hell broke loose. Apparently, a random guy had started a fight with my boyfriend, and a weapon :( was pulled out somewhere in the process. I met up with my boyfriend at my dorm where police were there apprehending him.
In the aftermath of the situation, I was denied campus residency from my school, and have been since forced to transfer to another college. My boyfriend was arrested, but released shortly thereafter. However, he has been charged and will be facing sentencing in the next month. We have remained in contact since then and he has been very apologetic about the whole situation. He has expressed a lot of remorse and love for me, and is begging for me to not hold this situation against him as he never meant for any of it to happen. Thus, we are still together... but even with my love for him, I have so many doubts about him now. My mom really dislikes him now (considering he directly caused me getting kicked out of school.) And keeps saying anyone that cares about you would never jeopardize your future, and I kinda agree with her. But he insists that he loves me and never wanted things to happen like this, and that hes SO sorry, and that he loves me, and .. well, I love him too, but I'm so lost on what I should do. I know this story is pretty long & dramatic so I appreciate anyone that takes the time out to read it and respond. I guess my question is, with everything that has happened, what do you think I should do in regards to this "relationship"
In the aftermath of the situation, I was denied campus residency from my school, and have been since forced to transfer to another college. My boyfriend was arrested, but released shortly thereafter. However, he has been charged and will be facing sentencing in the next month. We have remained in contact since then and he has been very apologetic about the whole situation. He has expressed a lot of remorse and love for me, and is begging for me to not hold this situation against him as he never meant for any of it to happen. Thus, we are still together... but even with my love for him, I have so many doubts about him now. My mom really dislikes him now (considering he directly caused me getting kicked out of school.) And keeps saying anyone that cares about you would never jeopardize your future, and I kinda agree with her. But he insists that he loves me and never wanted things to happen like this, and that hes SO sorry, and that he loves me, and .. well, I love him too, but I'm so lost on what I should do. I know this story is pretty long & dramatic so I appreciate anyone that takes the time out to read it and respond. I guess my question is, with everything that has happened, what do you think I should do in regards to this "relationship"