Is this normal for a gay guy?

[Dimentio]

Sorry if this is random nonsense, I've been sleep and food deprived so my mind is not the best at explaining a VERY weird problem D':
Well now that i think about it, I always did think things about guys that wasn't normal, but of course i thought every guy did, then at 12 i realized, hey I'm gay! Then at 14 i accepted the fact i was gay, then at 16 i came out to everyone and i would like to say it was a slow process, but there are ass holes in the world, so going with the two year thing, 18 now and hoping for my first boyfriend ;)
Anywho, okay obviously if I'm in THE MOOD, I don't care about all that stuff and i have literally no shame XD But any other time, I don't know, but i literally have no interest in penis'!
Like i never ever have imagined Darren Criss, aka my husband, nude, and i never really would wanna see it, and even when it comes to other guys, it's not an issue with our relationship, like Jake for instance, INSANELY attractive, yet i have no interest in that stuff, like I'd rather see someone in their underwear then nude, just most of the time i have such little interest in them I'd rather not see them!
And i feel like I'm kinda weird for being a gay guy who 90% of the time doesn't like the one thing i am meant to like, but i don't know D': They just look and feel weird and augh, I absolutely hate cum, I hate my own and when that thing happened with me and a friend, I FREAKED out when his stuff touched by hand, but I'm deffinitly no where near straight, girl parts have been known to make me be sick, and i could never kiss a girl (Sorry Katy), so deffinitly gay.... But i just hate gay stuff sexually.... I'm all down for cuddles though :3

[Luminous]

You are probably asexual homoromantic. You don't experience any sexual attraction, but you do experience romantic attraction, to people of the same sex.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I'm sort of the same way, I don't really desire to see a guy's package,I can get off pretty good just seeing a guy shirtless or in his underwear. I wouldn't worry about it, you like what you like, and you can't change that.

[Gamma Male]

Like Hannah said, romantic and sexual attraction can be two different things. From what you said you do sound like an asexual homoromantic.

[CosmicNoodle]

You are probably asexual homoromantic. You don't experience any sexual attraction, but you do experience romantic attraction, to people of the same sex.

Yep, this is basically what I was going to say, word for word.

But yours has better spelling...

[centropede]

Kinda same for me, i'm getting more and more assexual every day. But i could, hug, kiss, cuddle with a boy any time. Of course if i let someone close to me. I kinda dont like when people touch me.

[CrazyPerson101]

Sorry if this is random nonsense, I've been sleep and food deprived so my mind is not the best at explaining a VERY weird problem D':
Well now that i think about it, I always did think things about guys that wasn't normal, but of course i thought every guy did, then at 12 i realized, hey I'm gay! Then at 14 i accepted the fact i was gay, then at 16 i came out to everyone and i would like to say it was a slow process, but there are ass holes in the world, so going with the two year thing, 18 now and hoping for my first boyfriend ;)
Anywho, okay obviously if I'm in THE MOOD, I don't care about all that stuff and i have literally no shame XD But any other time, I don't know, but i literally have no interest in penis'!
Like i never ever have imagined Darren Criss, aka my husband, nude, and i never really would wanna see it, and even when it comes to other guys, it's not an issue with our relationship, like Jake for instance, INSANELY attractive, yet i have no interest in that stuff, like I'd rather see someone in their underwear then nude, just most of the time i have such little interest in them I'd rather not see them!
And i feel like I'm kinda weird for being a gay guy who 90% of the time doesn't like the one thing i am meant to like, but i don't know D': They just look and feel weird and augh, I absolutely hate cum, I hate my own and when that thing happened with me and a friend, I FREAKED out when his stuff touched by hand, but I'm deffinitly no where near straight, girl parts have been known to make me be sick, and i could never kiss a girl (Sorry Katy), so deffinitly gay.... But i just hate gay stuff sexually.... I'm all down for cuddles though :3

You are probably asexual homoromantic. You don't experience any sexual attraction, but you do experience romantic attraction, to people of the same sex.


Yeah , I agree with Hannah , I couldn't say it better myself. Hannah summed it up :) ( Great job btw Hannah )

[JustAnotherTeen]

With help from people nice people around the forum I've realised that sexual attraction and romantic attraction are different things. So I agree with Hannah, it's sounds like you're a asexual homoromantic

[darkangel91]

My sexual feelings are really weird too, I totally understand. I've always thought the naked body was a little disappointing. I think guys are way sexier with clothes - some, anyway - on, and I think genitals are just kinda gross. But then sometimes I don't. Sometimes I feel all sexy, and then sometimes I could see the hottest guy on earth in the nude and feel absolutely nothing. And although part of me wants it, another part of me thinks sex is just weird and disgusting and wants nothing but kisses and cuddles. Nice to know other people are similarly complicated.