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evil04
March 7th, 2008, 02:10 AM
I've been best friends with this girl since middle school, and we're now juniors in high school. Mind you that we dated a lot in middle school. Anyways, since we've been best friends, I think I've always had feeling for her, I just kept them to myself, and even lied to myself about it. Comes now that I can't keep that in anymore. I told her, and she didn't think it was weird, nor did she start changing the way she acts around me. She currently has a boyfriend. She's not sure that things would work between us, but believes in the possibility that she's wrong. To be honest I'm really not quite what to do. I feel as if I'm at the bottom of a pool with no air, and no energy to go back up. To give you an idea of the toll this is taking on me, last night I walked to a decently sized patch of woods ~1km away from here at midnight and sat under a tree for an hour. Any advice, suggestions, or just anything, would be greatly appreciated. :(

Gumleaf
March 7th, 2008, 03:08 AM
well you said she has a boyfriend right now, so until she is single again, then there isn't much you can do. if a time comes that she is single and you still feel the same way about her, then tell her how you feel again, and see if she is interested.

Gavin
March 7th, 2008, 01:43 PM
I agree,you cant do much about that now b/c,she currently has a boyfriend,so i would just carry on supporting her b/c,you're to are still best friends.

evil04
March 7th, 2008, 05:56 PM
Yeah I guess. She knows how I feel. I guess I'll just wait it out. I'll keep you updated :)

Gavin
March 7th, 2008, 07:26 PM
ok no worries :)

sabotaged111
April 19th, 2008, 05:19 PM
well you said she has a boyfriend right now, so until she is single again, then there isn't much you can do. if a time comes that she is single and you still feel the same way about her, then tell her how you feel again, and see if she is interested.

I agree with this, theres not much you can do until shes single, i know it sucks, but thats life. Sorry again. I too have the same problem:wub:

Close102
April 20th, 2008, 11:49 AM
asw said before now she knows how you feel so when she is single u can take a chance