Unrequited love?

[WTMF]

Hey Virtual teen

I am a young man who easily falls for girls I haven't known for a long time. I don't see that as a problem or anything though.

Lately I met a girl at a big party. She was with her friends and I was with one of my friends. We started talking to them, and one girl really caught my eye. Later that night we couldn't find the girls.
When I got home I saw that I got a friend request on facebook from the girl that caught my eye. And just looking through her pictures made me realize that she is a perfect girl in my eyes.

So 2 days ago a group of friends and I went to this big market where we met the girls again. I didn't really see them at first, but one of my friends said hi to them, and he told me that "the girl" asked him where I was. I went over there and said hi, and we where together all night. We flirted a bit and it was just nice.
Later that night me and my friend were screwed as we couldn't get home because we didn't catch the bus. So the girls offered us to sleep with them in their tent (they were camping right next to the market) and ofcourse we said yes!

When we got to the tent at it was time to sleep, the girl said she wanted to sleep next to me. We where sleeping really close to each other. Next day we got up pretty late and me and my friend had to hurry to get the bus.

Later that day we went back to the market where I met the girl again, but she was gone really fast, and later I saw her with another dude.

So I don't know if I have fallen for the wrong girl. It seems like I was just another flirt for her, and that I have wasted my chance with her. I feel like **** right now.

So any advice on what I could do to find out how the girl feels without acting like a creep or a desperate idiot?

[Body odah Man]

Wish I could help you, but girls are waters with unfathomable depths which we guys cannot fathom. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt tho-try spending more time with her if you can, ge tto know the situation. If not..then try to get over ur pain :(

[WTMF]

I would really like to spend some more time with her. But the problem is that I never see her. She lives in my city, but she studies in another city. And we don't have the same group of friends. So the only way I get to see her is at big parties or public arrangements and stuff like that, you know?

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Do you have her number or could you talk to her more on facebook? It'll help if you can't meet up with her. There's not much else you can do for the moment. Maybe if you guys get a bit closer you can start hanging out in a smaller group of people and then eventually just you two?

Remember you've only known her for a short time, so you don't know her that well. She might be into this or that, but you need to talk to her more to understand. Everything's about communication. Healthy relationships with friends, family, partners, the lot. They revolve around good communication, so talk to her.

[Melodic]

Was she just talking to the other guy? Just because you see a girl socializing with another guy doesn't mean you blew it, it means she's talking to another guy. Honestly, If I was you, I would FB message her and ask her to hang out alone, if she says yes you still have a chance, if she says no, then you don't.

But you should get to know her well before you state her perfection, she may not be the dream girl you picture.

[WTMF]

I just don't know how to start a conversation with her on FB. I don't want it to be awkward or anything

[Hudor]

I just don't know how to start a conversation with her on FB. I don't want it to be awkward or anything

That girl could have just been socialising as was said above. You can try to make sure when you are good enough friends with her.
You can maybe start out with "hey care for some banter?" sort of thing and then
start off with something about a recent event you both attended, something you found funny or weird and ask her opinion on it.

[CrazyPerson101]

Hey Virtual teen

I am a young man who easily falls for girls I haven't known for a long time. I don't see that as a problem or anything though.

Lately I met a girl at a big party. She was with her friends and I was with one of my friends. We started talking to them, and one girl really caught my eye. Later that night we couldn't find the girls.
When I got home I saw that I got a friend request on facebook from the girl that caught my eye. And just looking through her pictures made me realize that she is a perfect girl in my eyes.

So 2 days ago a group of friends and I went to this big market where we met the girls again. I didn't really see them at first, but one of my friends said hi to them, and he told me that "the girl" asked him where I was. I went over there and said hi, and we where together all night. We flirted a bit and it was just nice.
Later that night me and my friend were screwed as we couldn't get home because we didn't catch the bus. So the girls offered us to sleep with them in their tent (they were camping right next to the market) and ofcourse we said yes!

When we got to the tent at it was time to sleep, the girl said she wanted to sleep next to me. We where sleeping really close to each other. Next day we got up pretty late and me and my friend had to hurry to get the bus.

Later that day we went back to the market where I met the girl again, but she was gone really fast, and later I saw her with another dude.

So I don't know if I have fallen for the wrong girl. It seems like I was just another flirt for her, and that I have wasted my chance with her. I feel like **** right now.

So any advice on what I could do to find out how the girl feels without acting like a creep or a desperate idiot?


Well from living with 5 women all my life I can help a little bit. You never know who that other dude was, It could have been family , a friend or it could have been another guy she flirted with. Don't jump to conclusions without knowing the whole story. Also Its kinda cute you do that XD , I do that too sometimes so thats my advice. Good luck :)

[WTMF]

I wrote to the girl an hour ago on FB. She haven't answered yet tho. She's not online, and I'm just sitting here waiting for her to see it haha. Thanks everyone for helping me, you guys are nice people :)

[always.with.mrwrong]

Hey Virtual teen

I am a young man who easily falls for girls I haven't known for a long time. I don't see that as a problem or anything though.

Lately I met a girl at a big party. She was with her friends and I was with one of my friends. We started talking to them, and one girl really caught my eye. Later that night we couldn't find the girls.
When I got home I saw that I got a friend request on facebook from the girl that caught my eye. And just looking through her pictures made me realize that she is a perfect girl in my eyes.

So 2 days ago a group of friends and I went to this big market where we met the girls again. I didn't really see them at first, but one of my friends said hi to them, and he told me that "the girl" asked him where I was. I went over there and said hi, and we where together all night. We flirted a bit and it was just nice.
Later that night me and my friend were screwed as we couldn't get home because we didn't catch the bus. So the girls offered us to sleep with them in their tent (they were camping right next to the market) and ofcourse we said yes!

When we got to the tent at it was time to sleep, the girl said she wanted to sleep next to me. We where sleeping really close to each other. Next day we got up pretty late and me and my friend had to hurry to get the bus.

Later that day we went back to the market where I met the girl again, but she was gone really fast, and later I saw her with another dude.

So I don't know if I have fallen for the wrong girl. It seems like I was just another flirt for her, and that I have wasted my chance with her. I feel like **** right now.

So any advice on what I could do to find out how the girl feels without acting like a creep or a desperate idiot?
I wish I could help...I sorta have the same problem with a guy I know. He acted like he really liked me and I fell hard. Then he went off with other girls

[Kasp]

Good luck with this! I know how you feel so I hope it all goes okay :)