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HazwoldTheElder
May 31st, 2014, 08:43 PM
Hello! I'm Harry, I'm Bi and I don't really have time for introductions!

Basically I have a problem, there's this guy who I met through video games, his name's Zach and he's from America (Michigan, specifically). One day we were chatting through Skype, he needed someone to talk to as he'd just broken up with his girlfriend. By this time I'd helped him through a lot, he'd told me about the times he'd attempted suicide and I told him about my similar experiences. Once I helped him when he wanted to die (saved his life, I guess).

Anyway, we were talking about general stuff, and he told me more about himself and his life, after I told him I was bi, he said the same. We respected each other "You're a good man Mr (LAST NAME CENSORED FOR PRIVACY)" I said, "You Too Mr. (SAME HERE)" Zach said. Then, after talking for about an hour or so, he said "if we were to go out and get married who's last name would we take?", I'd gotten the hint but continued to talk, then he officially asked me out and I said yes.

The problem is, Zach lives all the way in Michigan, and I'm from the UK. He's also 3 years younger than me (I'm 15). He's made me the happiest person on Earth but I don't know if it's the right thing to do. He's mature enough to understand how these things work, sometimes I think he's more mature than me:lol:. (Oh, and I know him well enough to understand he's not a creeper). What should I do?

CosmicNoodle
May 31st, 2014, 08:54 PM
Urmm...I think 12 is a little young....buuuuttt. I don't think it's a good idea buddy. Its long distance. He's 12, you may not be able to physically interact for nearly a decade.

I just don't think it's a good idea.

Living For Love
June 1st, 2014, 04:50 AM
Well, even if you two wanted to be in a relationship, how could you meet him real life? Maybe the best idea is to keep being friends with him, and then, who knows, in the future, when both of you are older, maybe things can work out better.

Rallo
June 1st, 2014, 09:04 AM
I would prefer to stay friends in a situation like that. Like said above, it'll be almost a whole decade before you'll be able to see him. LDRs only tend to work when you have a way of really making things happen in the future, for example saving up to see them. At your (and his) age, you're both too young for that at this point in time. I would personally stick with a really close friendship with him until you're old enough that going over to see him is an option at some point.

Bull
June 1st, 2014, 10:04 AM
Over 7500 KM separate me and a guy that I absolutely love talking to. We share fantasies of what we would do with each other if we were together. It is fun, sexy, and very satisfying. Try it, I think you will like it. We sure do. ;)