Was he coming on to me?

[Bull]

:confused:: Was he coming on to me? Did my response let him know I was interested?
A former school mate is home from college for the summer. At a community event we met up and he was drinking a beer and I told him that I wished I could have one. He snagged a few and we went to some woods to drink and catch up. At one point he put his hand on my bare leg, sorta like a pat. Later he put his hand on my leg and left it there, sorta massaging it. I popped a boner, which I am sure he saw. I put my hand on his shoulder as we were laughing. Then later in the day, he was leaving and I put out my hand to shake his and thank him again for the beers. He pulled me into a hug and said we should get together while he is home. I told him I would like that.
So, what do you think?

[Apassionato]

It sounds like flirting, but it's hard to know for sure, some guys are just more touchy feely, especially if they've had something to drink.

[Elysium]

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[Microcosm]

It sounds like flirting, but it's hard to know for sure, some guys are just more touchy feely, especially if they've had something to drink.

I'd agree it could've been the beer. Still, the way you described it it does sound like flirting and I think there is a chance.

[Bull]

The buzz was gone by the time we met up and he was leaving. That's when he said we should get together. So I hope that was an invitation.

[hero98]

next time u see him and u 2 are alone grab his dick through his clothes and see how he reacts. if the reaction is bad play it off as joke

[Bull]

next time u see him and u 2 are alone grab his dick through his clothes and see how he reacts. if the reaction is bad play it off as joke

Sorry, not my style. I am not an aggressor. I am willing to take it slow and easy and follow his lead.

[digzchickz]

well, the alcohol definitely could have been affecting how he was acting, but to me, i think that maybe he was hinting around that he would like to do something... he sounds like he isnt the most bold/forward type though, so he probably just drops hints. so yeah, i mean if it makes you uncomfortable i dont think you are really committed to doing anything with him yet, but if you want to see where it leads, then go to his house and see where it goes.

[RavleIncarnate]

Me knows me as touchy-feely guy with da fwends! But I react very coldly/ unforgiving to people I don't know if I don't get a good, nice "vibe" from them.

[kaydencorey]

Sounds like he was flirting ;) meet up again and see what happens this time.

[bob97]

Hang out again and see if he does stuff like that again. Without the beer. Then you'll know for sure

[Lost in the Echo]

Sorry, not my style. I am not an aggressor. I am willing to take it slow and easy and follow his lead.

That's probably the best thing to do. Just remain neutral until he makes it outright obvious he wants to do something with you.

[Bull]

Went to a movie night at his house. About 10 people and I was the only one still in HS. A lot of fun, food, and beer. Anyway, he is absolutely coming on to me. We sat on this couch that tilted back for the movie and he had his hand on my leg rubbing and running his finders under the leg of my shorts. I would kinda snuggle closer to him, trying to let him know I liked what he was doing. That was all that happened, but I am sure now that more will happen as we are together over the summer. I really enjoy being with him.

[gig-guy]

That was all that happened, but I am sure now that more will happen as we are together over the summer. I really enjoy being with him.

Did more ever happen?

[Body odah Man]

Went to a movie night at his house. About 10 people and I was the only one still in HS. A lot of fun, food, and beer. Anyway, he is absolutely coming on to me. We sat on this couch that tilted back for the movie and he had his hand on my leg rubbing and running his finders under the leg of my shorts. I would kinda snuggle closer to him, trying to let him know I liked what he was doing. That was all that happened, but I am sure now that more will happen as we are together over the summer. I really enjoy being with him.

then ur lucky :)

[Bull]

Did more ever happen?

Yep, slow progress that is fun.