does this make me gay?

[Tyler8134]

Me and my friend are both 15 and we both have girlfriends.
When he comes over we have dinner, go upstairs then get naked and play xbox until we get tired, then we climb into bed naked. We often wake up hugging and with morning wood so we jerk off together and put our trunks on and go down stairs for breakfast.
Like I mentioned we both have girlfriends and we've been friends since kinder.

[Just Sayin]

No that doesnt make you gay at all me and my best friends did the same thing when we were your age. Stuff like that is fairly normal for guys your age and its kinda fun i think so enjoy it

[Swagging god]

No that doesnt make you gay at all me and my best friends did the same thing when we were your age. Stuff like that is fairly normal for guys your age and its kinda fun i think so enjoy it

Yea, no biggie...I did this for a while and some friends and I still party kinda like that.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

[Upse]

No I do that ALL THE TIME with one if my friends and we play with each other and we are NOT gay or by or cerise

[Dalcourt]

I don't think this makes you gay at all...it seems that other straight guys do it, too with their friends. I personally never did this kind of playing around with a friend I didn't want a relationship with, that's maybe cuz I'm gay?? Dunno...

[dubstep13]

Nope, that doesn't make you gay at all. It's curiosity and/or good friendship. I wish I had a friend like that haha.

[ksdnfkfr]

i think that's just a really super great friendship you have, healthy and normal. If you guys were making out, that would be gay. you're just doing like the ultimate male bonding thing.

[Apassionato]

Do you feel any kind of physical attraction to him? Does it turn you on to watch him, see him naked or jerk off with him? If so, you are sexually attracted to men and therefore not straight. Does this make you gay? Only if you have no sexual interest in women - but since you both have girlfriends I assume you are bisexual or bicurious.

A desire to do something - anything - sexual with somebody of the same sex is a clear sign that you are more than straight, but this is not a black and white/straight and gay world.

[Faolan]

Do you feel any kind of physical attraction to him? Does it turn you on to watch him, see him naked or jerk off with him? If so, you are sexually attracted to men and therefore not straight. Does this make you gay? Only if you have no sexual interest in women - but since you both have girlfriends I assume you are bisexual or bicurious.

A desire to do something - anything - sexual with somebody of the same sex is a clear sign that you are more than straight, but this is not a black and white/straight and gay world.

This sums it up very well. That being said, you are both hormonal teenagers, and experimenting is part of that. Only you can truly know whether you are bi/bicurious, and it may just be you and your pal goofing off.

[Bull]

I think you and your friend have a great relationship. :) You are enjoying being together on several planes and that is a good thing. If you are both interested in girls, I mean not just for show but really into them, you are not gay. If you are more interested in each other than any girl you may be leaning gay. Either way, we are what we are, gay is good, bi is good, bi-curious is good, str8 is good. Stop worrying about labels and enjoy being a normal teenager.

[riverboy]

No this doesn't make you gay.

[pjones]

sounds like you both have a very good friend. i don't think you're gay

[fast8]

No nothing u do can make u gay u would know if ur gay or bi just bc u try something does not make u gay

[Gamma Male]

You're probably kinda bisexual.

[CharlieHorse]

Yes of course. It doesn't matter at all what your actual sexual orientation is. If you jack another guy off, you're instantly gay and there's nothing you can do about it!

-_-
No

Being homosexual means that you have sexual and emotional/romantic attraction to those of the same sex.
No act can dictate that, but can be evidence for an orientation, but not always.
That's why all these "am I gay" threads always end the same. Because it's always "maybe" or "you'll just have to wait until you're older".

[Wyatt 13]

Damn dude I'm gay so I would say not enough evidence to think that is gay stuff.

[Soccerkid]

No I don't think that makes you gay

[Soxman97]

No just a good friend I wish I had a friend to do that with

[plebble]

I was gonna say yes, but everyone else is saying no and I'm just as confused as you now

[Coolguy2067]

Me and my friend are both 15 and we both have girlfriends.
When he comes over we have dinner, go upstairs then get naked and play xbox until we get tired, then we climb into bed naked. We often wake up hugging and with morning wood so we jerk off together and put our trunks on and go down stairs for breakfast.
Like I mentioned we both have girlfriends and we've been friends since kinder.

hmmmmm.... it depends on why youre doing it. do you enjoy seeing him naked? do you just happen to wake up hugging. it seems to me you both are interested in each other

[Stronk Serb]

You could be bisexual

[dirtyboxer55]

yeah that sounds pretty gay to me

[AceofSpades97]

Well if you don't love him than you aren't gay. You are gay when you love a guy not when you jack off together. And people who say you are gay when you do that don't know what they are talking about.