View Full Version : Sore after sex
churris
May 29th, 2014, 06:26 PM
Ladies, do you get sore after you had sex? I've only been with my boyfriend a few times, and it still hurts a little when he enters, so maybe I'm just tight or something lol
I'm asking after sex, however, even if you had foreplay and we're wet enough, do you find yourself sore around your vagina and if yes, for how long? Was he rough? Did it last long?
Thank you!
Taryn98
May 29th, 2014, 07:34 PM
When I first started having sex, yes I would be sore after for a day or two but after doing it several times, I didn't notice that anymore
Babs
May 29th, 2014, 07:47 PM
There is no such thing as a loose or tight vagina. it's a strong muscle, not a flappy piece of skin. it shouldn't hurt, not even the first time. try using lube. even if it doesnt initially hurt at first, it can still be sore without lubrication.
AND PLEASE don't use oil based lube.
biancachica
May 29th, 2014, 10:03 PM
Im also on the smaller side. the first times i had sex it took a couple of months of sex before i wasnt sore the next day. Im now with my second bf that ive been intimate with and it still hurts when he enters me and it takes a couple of minutes to get adjusted. My advice is to have a lot of foreplay, use lube and relaxe.
ChrisTJ
May 30th, 2014, 02:25 AM
For me it was a bit sore the first time but I wouldn't say it was all that sore after the event. Try either using lube or lots and lots of foreplay, lack of sexual arousal on the female's part is the main reason for soreness during sex.
DeeHaz
May 30th, 2014, 04:39 AM
All it takes is practice- but it's enjoyable practice at least :)
StacyD
May 30th, 2014, 10:02 AM
Yep. The more you do it the better it gets. :)
So practice practice practice. :)
jenny2234
May 30th, 2014, 12:26 PM
I don't anymore but when I started I did.
Jade99
May 30th, 2014, 09:06 PM
After my first time i was pretty sore for a few days. It's not so bad anymore just a little soreness usually. It's probably cause i'm so small lol.
Emmaaa
May 31st, 2014, 05:19 AM
It was sore after my first time but for others there has been no pain :)
It sometimes doesn't help if the guy is "massive" It's so sore then! :L :D
emily-candace
June 1st, 2014, 12:56 AM
Im still a virgin but I wouldn't think it should still hurt after two or three times unless it was all within like a week or a few days. If it hurts during masturbation then maybe you are just too tight.
churris
June 3rd, 2014, 04:21 PM
All it takes is practice- but it's enjoyable practice at least :)
Totally! It was just a little discomfort a few hours later, I was just wondering.
GlitterRose
July 12th, 2014, 02:15 PM
When I first started having sex, yes I would be sore after for a day or two but after doing it several times, I didn't notice that anymore
same here, it took quite a while for me to have sex and not be sore, regardless of penis size. Lube did tend to help slightly though
Gabbykins
July 12th, 2014, 03:11 PM
I was always sore after the first 6 or 7 times I had penetrative sex. It takes time and regular "exercise" ;) for your vagina to get used to that kind of intrusion, no matter what size the intruder is.
Lisa R
July 13th, 2014, 04:46 PM
I'm still a virgin and never had sex but i would imagine it would be like working out. A little stiff and sore for the first couple days untill you loosen up.I could be wrong.
AnnaThaBabe
July 20th, 2014, 10:44 AM
very sore the first time, and some after that, but u get used to it. if the guy is very big i get sore too, but usually not a lot
vBulletin® v3.8.9, Copyright ©2000-2021, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.