I am sick of the way he treats her?

[Redrocket]

Hey guys I don't know how to start this but here we go.
So there's this girl that I been friends with for along time and I got strong feelings for her and here's the problem she has a boyfriend who is controlling her life!

First he is a complete racist he hates whites,natives,blacks you name it. But he likes black women. Even though he's with an Irish one! he's also bi and He also has a problem with disabled people. I am really sick of the way shes being controlled first he tells her what time she has to be home and calls and texts her over 20 times when she's out. He also doesn't do anything with her all he does is sit on his ass and does nothing
And makes her stay for a week

HHe also won't let her hang with her friends and he tells her who not to hang with! He also keeps changing her pass code on her phone so she won't use it!! This is going to far! If I was with her I would give her space and let her hang with she wants!!

He hangs with other guys and girls so it's not really fair and he is having sex with men behind her back!!! I don't know what to do why won't she leave him?
First she tells me he hates him and later she tells me he loves him I am getting sick of this!!!!!

[Elysium]

It's her relationship, not yours. Unless she's in danger, I don't think you have any right to intrude. Does she know you have feelings for her?

[Harley Quinn]

You don't know what it's like for someone to be in a relationship like that, you may have good intentions and you may care about her, but that doesn't mean you should interfere or anything. Some people stay in relationships, even if they shouldn't because they don't know what else to do. She needs to make up that decision for herself, you can be there for her but you can't force her into anything and your feelings for her shouldn't interfere with that.

[Gamma Male]

If he's cheating on her and she doesn't know, tell her. Other than that I don't see how their relationship is any of your business. It's consensual. Leave them alone.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

I know it must be tough to see that happening, but you really shouldn't say bad things about him or tell her anything. It sounds bad I know, but even when my friend was dating my other friend, I knew that she wasn't a very committed person and that they were bound to break up, but I couldn't and didn't say anything.

If she comes up to you and says "Hey, my boyfriend has been doing this and this and it's annoying, should I do this/what should I do" then I guess you can help her out to some extent (Like tell her to talk to him or something, don't go up to him on her behalf). Other than that, I hate to break it to you, but there's not much.