View Full Version : Would you do this?
jjlewis
May 27th, 2014, 02:22 PM
OK so im str8, but a gay friend of mine says he would go all the way with me, would any of you just do that so ur not a virgin anymore, I mean you could pretend it was a girl? is this stupid?
Stronger
May 27th, 2014, 02:32 PM
Is that something you want to do? It does sound kinda silly, you should just wait until you found the right person.
Babs
May 27th, 2014, 02:52 PM
honestly it's so silly to do it just to lose your virgin status. virginity is a social construct and it's utterly pointless, however if it's important to you then don't do something just to lose your virginity. if you truly want to do it then go for it. otherwise it's pointless and may not be enjoyable for you if you don't want it.
Apassionato
May 27th, 2014, 02:54 PM
If you have to pretend that he is somebody else, it's not worth it. It will be awful for both of you that way.
Why do you want to lose your virginity so badly? There's no shame in being a virgin at 15 - or 25 for that matter.
Luminous
May 27th, 2014, 02:56 PM
I like girls, but if a guy said he would have sex with me just because, I would turn him down. Virginity is just a word, it's not important. If you think you want to experiment with him, then do it, but whatever you do, don't lead him into thinking that you want to be with him or anything like that. Follow your gut, don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Jack982
May 27th, 2014, 03:31 PM
I wouldn't do it, only have sex with someone if you want to. Not because you feel you have to.
kaydencorey
May 27th, 2014, 04:22 PM
Is it going to be enjoyable to either of you if your pretending he is someone else, how will that make him feel?
If your wanting to do this because you like him and want to experience this with him then its more than just an activity to loose your virginity, and could mean something special for both of you.
Work out all the reasons you want this, and don't do anything till you are sure.
Just Sayin
May 27th, 2014, 04:34 PM
I think just doing it to loose your virginity is really foolish. If its something your interested in doing then go for it but dont just do it so your not a virgin anymore
Lost in the Echo
May 27th, 2014, 04:43 PM
If you do this for the sole purpose of wanting to lose your virginity, then you will likely look back on this as an adult and have a lot of regret. As mentioned, this doesn't sound like a good idea at all.
oshane
May 27th, 2014, 05:03 PM
I Believe that you should wait find the right person for it make no sence that you have to pretend that your gay friend is someone else. being a virgin is not so bad for the meantime just masturbate.
gothy
May 27th, 2014, 05:36 PM
No. i want it to mean something when i lose it
Cook my Sock
May 27th, 2014, 06:46 PM
No I wouldn't do something like that just to loose your virginity, you obviously don't really want to do it with him because you said you could pretend it's a girl. Soo why don't you just wait for a nice girl instead.
loki000000
May 27th, 2014, 08:38 PM
Go with what you think is best if you like this person then yeah go for it, but don't do it for a social status either. Never know you may later regret it later. :)
CrazyPerson101
May 28th, 2014, 01:31 AM
OK so im str8, but a gay friend of mine says he would go all the way with me, would any of you just do that so ur not a virgin anymore, I mean you could pretend it was a girl? is this stupid?
It depends, honestly if you feel that he is the one you want to lose your virginity to then go ahead. If I were you , I would wait till I find the person I love ( I know it sounds corny but hey .... Meh )
jamiebo
June 5th, 2014, 04:54 PM
I think that's right
Microcosm
June 6th, 2014, 04:04 AM
If it's something you'd want to do then by all means do it.
LuciferSam
June 6th, 2014, 02:24 PM
If you want to, then there's nothing wrong with it, but having sex just for the sake of loosing virginity sounds kind of dumb to me. I also don't get the feeling that you actually want to do it. It's your life, so you can do what you want, but I personally do not recommend going through with this.
tom101
June 8th, 2014, 01:00 PM
Its sounds messy tbh. What would the point be? If you are st8 then why not wait a sleep with a girl?
Soxman97
June 10th, 2014, 02:46 PM
Nothing wrong with it I don't know if I would go all the way but I would do Hj or bj
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