Experimenting Worries

[Aventzger]

Hey guys! So I have this good friend of mine and he recently asked me to experiment with him. I asked him what is he gonna do and he told me we were going to give each other handjobs and blowjobs before proceeding to have anal sex. He is 15 and I'm 16(Well, my birthday is yet to pass so I'm still kind of still 15). Honestly, I'm having mixed feelings about this. I'm excited to experiment but I'm slightly anxious as I know he has done all of the above mentioned sexual acts to a couple of his friends.
Should I go for it? Would the fact that he has had anal sex with a few other guys affect me?
Thanks for your help!:)

[hero98]

If the anal sex hes had with friends was unprotected he might have an std and you should make sure to use protection. Aside from that it doesnt really affect you in any way. Its a good thing, his experience can guide you.

[Bull]

Just me. I would do the hj. Not sure about oral. No to anal. Remember, when you have sex with someone you are having sex with all their sex partners. Should you decide to do anal be sure each wears a condom.

[Aventzger]

Yeap. Its getting an STD is what I'm afraid of. But what protection can be used other than condoms? Because I have remembered he was intending on doing in a very remote and quiet school bathroom. Thanks for the help btw! :D

I understand condoms are the best way to go but, both of us have no way of getting hold of them and my school discipline culture is really strict where bag checks are frequent and random and a condom will land you in hot soup. ><

[Living For Love]

You must tell him to use protection, and only do it if you want. He can't force you to do anything. And condoms are the only contraceptive method that protects against STD's, so he really needs to use it. I guess you can easily bought them in any shopping centre.

[hero98]

I understand condoms are the best way to go but, both of us have no way of getting hold of them and my school discipline culture is really strict where bag checks are frequent and random and a condom will land you in hot soup. ><

You can buy condoms at any supermarket, order them cheaply online or get them from a machine in some public bathrooms. So you have plenty ways of getting them. Dont worry theres no age restriction to buying condoms. You can also get them for free from many clinics.

Also, nobody, including your school, is allowed to take condoms from you even if they find them in your bags. You are violating no law by having them

[Aventzger]

Alright. Thanks for the help! Thank goodness I asked for advice before going for him. Who knows what could have happened.

[CrazyPerson101]

Hey guys! So I have this good friend of mine and he recently asked me to experiment with him. I asked him what is he gonna do and he told me we were going to give each other handjobs and blowjobs before proceeding to have anal sex. He is 15 and I'm 16(Well, my birthday is yet to pass so I'm still kind of still 15). Honestly, I'm having mixed feelings about this. I'm excited to experiment but I'm slightly anxious as I know he has done all of the above mentioned sexual acts to a couple of his friends.
Should I go for it? Would the fact that he has had anal sex with a few other guys affect me?
Thanks for your help!:)

Well It will definitely change your life/experience with that person. Things will be different than before but I would use protection because of STDs so Its really up to you. Good luck :)

[Aventzger]

Well It will definitely change your life/experience with that person. Things will be different than before but I would use protection because of STDs so Its really up to you. Good luck :)

Thanks! It will sure change. I'm actually worried for him because if I am not wrong, he has done all his experimenting so far unprotected. ><"

[Fireangel]

If I were you would not pass up the opportunity. Don't do it in your school, try to do it in your house or his house and use protection.

[Jason_Monty]

If your worried about your school finding the condom, just hide it in your underwear. A position comfortable for your penis and balls. Your school won't do scrotum checks (hopefully) :)

[reiddec2]

just go for it ;)

[deregisterme]

Set your limits. You don't have to do everything your first time. As for his previous, the minus (as everyone has said) is STDs, and his plus is his experience

[Unde4dmau5]

Much like everybody else, I am going to say go for it. Use protection, of course, to keep the both of you safe. And don't do it at school. If you get caught, then the school would probably take action and press charges on the both of you. I'm sure the both of you don't want that. So just try to go anywhere else to do it but school. Best of luck friend!

[Just Sayin]

I would say go for it just make sure you use protection and you will be fine

[Adrian]

If you're 100% comfortable with experimenting with him and you guys are going to use a condom... Go for it!

[pjones]

if want to masturbate together that's great. then you will know if want to do anything else with him. i do not recommend you do anything at school. if a condom will get you in trouble imagine getting caught doing anything sexual and what would happen to you.

[allan_cris]

if you feel comfortable with it just do it you might end up liking it

[valamar]

I would do it if i were you

[LokaChris]

Go for it if youre comfortable with it and just remember to use a condom

[Lee360TheCoder]

Go for it! But, use protection. (Duh!) :3

[Zachary G]

Hey guys! So I have this good friend of mine and he recently asked me to experiment with him. I asked him what is he gonna do and he told me we were going to give each other handjobs and blowjobs before proceeding to have anal sex. He is 15 and I'm 16(Well, my birthday is yet to pass so I'm still kind of still 15). Honestly, I'm having mixed feelings about this. I'm excited to experiment but I'm slightly anxious as I know he has done all of the above mentioned sexual acts to a couple of his friends.
Should I go for it? Would the fact that he has had anal sex with a few other guys affect me?
Thanks for your help!:)

You should only go for it if you feel comfortable with the idea of it, if you are uncomfortable with any part of it then you should speak up and say something before you get started so you can talk about it. because he has had anal sex before really doesnt have an effect on you really, only that he has more experience in doing it than you do. so before you commit to anything, i think you 2 have a lot to talk about.

[disckjokeyman]

If I was u I'd go for that!:D but I never like to get f****d by someone

[Randomboy73]

If your comfortable go with it. But use protection!