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noirangel00
May 26th, 2014, 11:12 PM
Hey guys. I just asked a girl out for this weekend to the drive-in theater. She is about 5 ft. 3 in. which is about the exact height I like for girls and she has an AMAZING body. I have no doubt that if I go to the movie that I'll be having sex. The only problem is that I'm a virgin and I have no idea whether I should to it or not. Opinions? Please and thank you.
Gamma Male
May 26th, 2014, 11:15 PM
What makes you so sure you'll be having sex afterwards?
insanekubiak62
May 26th, 2014, 11:16 PM
Do you think your ready? The hardest thing for a guy is to not do something they arent ready when they are in the mood. If you feel you are ready then don't worry about it. Just let her know it is your first time when you are getting close to doing it or if the talk about sex ever comes up before the date. Tell her then.
noirangel00
May 26th, 2014, 11:29 PM
Well I'm sixteen so it's not like I love her or anything, I just want to have some fun. And she's not exactly a virgin. Aaaaaand it's a DRIVE IN THEATER! So I don't have a doubt that I could have sex if I go. But I am a Christian and I don't want to be a bad guy just because I want to have a one night stand.
Gamma Male
May 26th, 2014, 11:36 PM
Well I'm sixteen so it's not like I love her or anything, I just want to have some fun. And she's not exactly a virgin. Aaaaaand it's a DRIVE IN THEATER! So I don't have a doubt that I could have sex if I go. But I am a Christian and I don't want to be a bad guy just because I want to have a one night stand.

As long as you're both absolutely clear that it's just a one night stand and neither of you are being misled into thinking it's something more, I don't see the harm.
jenny2234
May 27th, 2014, 04:08 AM
We don't know you or her so how should we know if you should.
Ricky.h
May 27th, 2014, 11:11 AM
Hey guys. I just asked a girl out for this weekend to the drive-in theater. She is about 5 ft. 3 in. which is about the exact height I like for girls and she has an AMAZING body. I have no doubt that if I go to the movie that I'll be having sex. The only problem is that I'm a virgin and I have no idea whether I should to it or not. Opinions? Please and thank you.

Go for it, make sure she's on BC or use a condom....concentrate on holding your nut since it's your first time. (Research PC muscles) and FOREPLAY IS IMPORTANT---oral sex to her before penetration is a must

Message me if you need any advice or anyone reading
CrazyPerson101
May 27th, 2014, 12:45 PM
Hey guys. I just asked a girl out for this weekend to the drive-in theater. She is about 5 ft. 3 in. which is about the exact height I like for girls and she has an AMAZING body. I have no doubt that if I go to the movie that I'll be having sex. The only problem is that I'm a virgin and I have no idea whether I should to it or not. Opinions? Please and thank you.


Its really up to you although Id wait if I were you because ( or at least I wanna lose my virginity to someone I love , not someone I like ) .
Taryn98
May 27th, 2014, 02:24 PM
If you're not sure you should do it, then you definitely should NOT do it. Sex is something you should be completely positive about. Are you prepared for the possible ramifications?
Jack982
May 27th, 2014, 02:57 PM
I would wait if I were you, but it's your choice man. Good luck either way!
JayDilla
May 28th, 2014, 12:53 AM
im gonna have to say wait dude...i mean maybe you two might kiss and make out
but you should be prepared and it doesn't sound like your prepared..I know its the drive inn
but trust me..your not ready yet
jjlewis
May 28th, 2014, 03:23 PM
if u both want to do it, do it
NotShortButFunsized
May 28th, 2014, 06:10 PM
If you're not sure you should do it, then you definitely should NOT do it. Sex is something you should be completely positive about. Are you prepared for the possible ramifications?

Exactly. If there is any question whatsoever if you're ready, you aren't. There's nothing wrong with waiting.

There's so much more to sex than "this girl fits my interests and is into me, so it's GONNA happen" (on the first date, no less). Just because the opportunity presents itself doesn't mean you should, and it's dangerous to assume just because you're confident about something means she is too.
Just Sayin
May 29th, 2014, 08:40 PM
I you feel like your are ready then go for it just use protection
hotdude
May 30th, 2014, 05:43 PM
Above all else, don't rush it. Make sure she is full aroused with lots of kissing and caressing. Be gentle and PLEASE ensure she has at least 1 orgasm though 2 or 3 would be better
Upse
May 30th, 2014, 11:56 PM
Bang her bang her hard and if she's a vrgin then she'll bleed
LifeOfLove
May 31st, 2014, 01:30 AM
If you have to ask if you are ready, you're not ready. Simple as that.
CrazyPerson101
May 31st, 2014, 03:08 AM
Hey guys. I just asked a girl out for this weekend to the drive-in theater. She is about 5 ft. 3 in. which is about the exact height I like for girls and she has an AMAZING body. I have no doubt that if I go to the movie that I'll be having sex. The only problem is that I'm a virgin and I have no idea whether I should to it or not. Opinions? Please and thank you.


It depends. During Sex , you feel Passion , love , and emotions. Its not just sex ,there is alot more involved than just doing it. Im not saying don't do it but it's up to you.