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Alexwellace
May 25th, 2014, 07:24 PM
Does it ever feel to you like no matter how big the vehicle is, you always feel like the excess wheel? In my friend group practically everyone is going out with someone either within the friend group, or has brought their loved one into it. Now, whenever i hang out with them all they ever seem to do is stare longingly into each others eyes, and the kissing! It's at all times, mid conversation, i find it really rude! Not to mention all it does it remind me how lonely i feel.

Have any of you ever experienced this? I can't exactly ask them *all* to stop showing their love to each other, but it honestly makes me feel like utter poop that i have no one but them and they act like all they have is each other. Which, i honestly can't blame them for. I have never known love really, so i can't really judge them, but does anyone know a way to not feel like a third wheel to literally Everyone in the friend group?

bob97
May 25th, 2014, 08:22 PM
Yeah its really annoying. I honestly just dont hang out with them. For me its not worth it. When I was going out I was never like that and I never asked my friends to hang out with us because I knew they would want to see it. I'd just tell them to not be so touchy feely around you. It can't hurt to ask. Good luck

ImagineRepublicCity
May 27th, 2014, 09:21 AM
Well really, I don't like those kind of friend groups because then they all begin to like each other, and then later they break up and it just becomes a huge storm of explosions.

Anyway, don't feel upset about it. Since I only have another 2 female friends in my group, normally they're both taken (Well, one of them has been in a relationship forever with another guy in our group) but you shouldn't fret too much about it. Let time do its thing, and just wait.

If you begin to feel left out, either say something, cockblock and be annoying (this is a joke?) or leave the group. I'm sure you'll figure something out.