Never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl

[JakeD14]

I've never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl.. All my other friends have had Girlfriends/Boyfriends and I'm the only one who hasn't. It's really makes me feel bad about myself and wonder whats wrong with me and I don't know what to do about it. I've started to socialize more than I did before but I feel awkward around new people.

[Obsidian]

You shouldn't feel badly about yourself. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17 and before that I always felt weird because everyone else had experienced more things than I had. But now, having reached a point where I've experienced a lot, I often wish I could go back in time and redo a lot of my 'firsts.' They're a lot more special and worth remembering when they're with the right person. Do things because you like the person and because you want to, not because you feel pressured since it seems like everyone else has. Everything will be a lot more enjoyable that way, and you won't have anything to look back on and regret.

I used to feel awkward around people I'd just met too, and sometimes still do. But it gets better with time. Try to be as social as you can, even if it makes you feel uncomfortable at first. The more you socialize the more natural it will become and the less awkward you'll feel. And I'm sure once you become more comfortable meeting new people you'll find someone to have your first kiss with in no time :)

[CharlieHorse]

i'm in a similar boat.
never had a gf, never had anyone.
nobody has ever wanted me.
i have plenty of friends of both genders. I'm just not attractive or rich or interesting enough to be around.

[canonjourno]

My best friend has the same issue...get over it ;) Someone has to see the worth in you eventually- and who knows, it may be the best one out of all of your friends! Oh- AND NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU. And despite never meeting you: I'm ten thousand percent sure of it!

[BornActor]

I've never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl.. All my other friends have had Girlfriends/Boyfriends and I'm the only one who hasn't. It's really makes me feel bad about myself and wonder whats wrong with me and I don't know what to do about it. I've started to socialize more than I did before but I feel awkward around new people.

I used to feel really insecure about not having kissed anyone or been in a relationship during high school. When I got to college, though, I learned that there are plenty of people like me. I really wanted a relationship and first kiss to be with the right person, and in college, there are a lot of people like that. One of my friends is gay and hasn't come out to his family yet, so he's just begun meeting people in his sophomore year of college. Another one is asexual and aromantic so she's just not really interested in a relationship at all. I think more and more I'm meeting people who haven't done anything with anyone or been in a relationship, and they're so comfortable with themselves that I became really comfortable when I got to college. I'm not sure what age you are or if you plan on going to college, but I hope you're able to find a community of people that make you feel comfortable with your lifestyle.

[CheekyBird]

I know how you feel; I'm 17 new been in a relationship or been kissed.. It gets to me at times and I wonder what's wrong with me ( not the prettiest and I don't have loads of confidence) but all in all don't worry about it. Someone will come along at some point in your life and you will look back and think you are silly for worrying about it. I just think that the right person hasn't come along and when they do it will feel right. :)

[gothy]

dont worry. im the same and im 18.