Worried about tomorrow! [Archive]

Haydenn3

May 25th, 2014, 09:23 AM

So here is my previous post Hello all I've recently come back from a holiday trip with my friends family while there I bounded very well with my friends 14 year old step brother my friend wouldn't stop going on about how he believes his brother was flirting with me I'm a 17 year old boy and I'm not gay I consider myself Bi or Bi curious I loved spending time with him I've never felt feelings like I did and happiness while spending time alone with this boy however when I talked to him about his current girlfriend he showed me he loved her very much and this confused me very much but I could see that in the 4 days of being with him he trusted me like I had known him for years and I felt the same however I was worried and scared to try to flirt back and see how it goes as I'm not out yet nor do i want to be seen as a pedo or sexual predicted if it didn't go anywhere anyway the holiday soon came to an end and I tried to contact this boy severel times and I've got back yes or no answers mostly and when I asked if he would like to meet he just said no and I asked if he enjoyed my company he said yes I'm very confused and haven't stopped thinking about him for the last week or so it has made me very depressed and annoyed I feel like I'm goin to break down and self harm again please help me out here I'm completely stuck P.s I've never met him until the holiday and won't see him again for months unless we arrange to meet but I don't know if I can last without speaking to him or seeing him

Thanks in advance for the advise

This was about a week ago but I've just been invited to a BBQ tomorrow and am now worried about the outcome I'd like advice on how to approach the situation and if I should talk to him alone about his flirty ness and things
Thanks for the advice :)

Living For Love

May 25th, 2014, 09:54 AM

I don't think you should mention that flirty-ness right when you meet him. Approach him and start a normal conversation like you would do with anyone else, and see how he reacts. If you notice he keeps being distant, then maybe he doesn't want anything with you anymore, but if he reacts like he did when you two met for the first time, then maybe there's still hope, and you should act just like you did in the past. And yes, maybe talk to him when you two are alone.