Masturbation addiction

[Professor Moopicorn]

Hey guys.

I think I'm addicted to masturbating, and I really want to stop. I have tried to stop masturbating on numerous occasions, but I only last about a week and it starts up again! The problem is that now every time I'm in bed, I just start masturbating, even if I'm not horny. I want to stop because it makes me feel terrible when ever I'm around my little baby bro, my parents, even my crush! I just feel like I shouldn't go near them because I'm not good enough. Plus I'm trying to get my Christian faith stable and this is not helping in the slightest! Please, if any of you have any ideas of how I could stop myself masturbating or if you have/are going through the same thing, please tell me. Thanks guys :)

[dakota1998]

This new thing for you is normal, I was up to 4 times a day and at last ejaculation I was dry but had a orgasm. Like you I tried to stop to no results. I have slowed down to 3 times a day and when I do it I do not do it fast because all I want to do is keep it hard for as long as I can for at least 20 min, so work on that. I am a catholic and a christain and that has nothing to to with masturbation, if so why did GOD give us a PENIS and a CLIT? For pleasure.
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[LunarScorpio]

Take it easy. If you masturbate many times a day, start by doing it once a day. Then cut it down to once every two days and go from there.

It is much easier that way

[hockeyfan]

First if all u r good enough. Stop thinking that way.

I think that is something guys go through like a stage. I know I did.

[Lost in the Echo]

Keep yourself busy. Do activities you enjoy. For the most part that should keep your mind off of masturbation.

[NeuroTiger]

Just keep yourself busy...It's our brain which usually triggers this urge.

[Professor Moopicorn]

Thanks guys for the suggestions! Helps a lot. :)

[ksdnfkfr]

just try to keep in mind that at your age your body has a high sex drive and is basically designed to ejaculate on a regular basis. it's a bodily elimination function. it's really no different than urges to eat, drink, sleep, pee and poop etc. you can become addicted to it like you can become addicted to eating. but a 14 yo boy having the urge to ejaculate once a day is just as normal as the urge to eat. religion being a throwback to dark ages catholicism may teach you it's a crime, but your bible doesn't say anything directly about it one way or another.

[iamintenn]

Masturbation is a natural part of sexuality. I think you are being too hard on yourself. *No pun intended*
Your body will tell you when you have masturbated too much

[flappybird]

Just put your mind on something else. Make more female friends, particularly if you find them arousing. Soon, you will see the human side of girls and not the bodily side.

As far as religion is concerned, it the belief of the majority of the people that masturbation is bad, hence the religion registers it. If you have an abnormally high drive then it is fine, there is nothing wrong with you.

[Professor Moopicorn]

Just put your mind on something else. Make more female friends, particularly if you find them arousing. Soon, you will see the human side of girls and not the bodily side.

As far as religion is concerned, it the belief of the majority of the people that masturbation is bad, hence the religion registers it. If you have an abnormally high drive then it is fine, there is nothing wrong with you.

Yeah, thanks. I think I'm ok now. Must of just been over reacting. lol. Anyway, I already have heaps of female friends. Some of the special ones, I respect them too much to see them in a sexual way anyway.

[disckjokeyman]

Dont watch any porn and just go to your bed whenever you are realy realy tired and try to never touch down there except if its nessecery!

[Bull]

I don't think you have anything to worry about. When I first started to cum I was like a rabbit, could not get enough of that good feeling. Once the newness of cumming was gone I slowed down to 2 or 3 times a day. Now it is more like 1 or 2. I think it is just a normal function of puberty, not to worry about. I too am a Christian, attend church with my family every Sunday, and have never felt any shame about masturbation. I think the fact that my dad and I had a conversation early on about what I would experience during puberty helped a lot. I got the message, masturbation is natural and ok. Thanks dad! Good luck sorting out your feelings. Message me if you have questions.

[Professor Moopicorn]

I don't think you have anything to worry about. When I first started to cum I was like a rabbit, could not get enough of that good feeling. Once the newness of cumming was gone I slowed down to 2 or 3 times a day. Now it is more like 1 or 2. I think it is just a normal function of puberty, not to worry about. I too am a Christian, attend church with my family every Sunday, and have never felt any shame about masturbation. I think the fact that my dad and I had a conversation early on about what I would experience during puberty helped a lot. I got the message, masturbation is natural and ok. Thanks dad! Good luck sorting out your feelings. Message me if you have questions.

Thanks for this info mate. So long as I keep my mind clear, I think I'll be good. And thanks to your dad too! Lol

[Hercules]

I to am a Christian and struggle with masterbation. Nothing I have tried ever works. Depending on Jesus is the only way. Allow Him to transform you . Gaze upon Jesus.

I have set the Lord always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken. Therefore my heart is glad, and my whole being rejoices; my flesh also dwells secure. (Psalm 16:8, 9 ESV)

[CrazyPerson101]

Hey guys.

I think I'm addicted to masturbating, and I really want to stop. I have tried to stop masturbating on numerous occasions, but I only last about a week and it starts up again! The problem is that now every time I'm in bed, I just start masturbating, even if I'm not horny. I want to stop because it makes me feel terrible when ever I'm around my little baby bro, my parents, even my crush! I just feel like I shouldn't go near them because I'm not good enough. Plus I'm trying to get my Christian faith stable and this is not helping in the slightest! Please, if any of you have any ideas of how I could stop myself masturbating or if you have/are going through the same thing, please tell me. Thanks guys :)


Well limit your self. Start off with you're normal amount , each week do it one time less than the other ( so if you do it 5 times a day ) do it 5 times a day for a week , then go down to 4 and keep repeating the process. Also keep yourself busy so it will keep your mind off of masturbaing more . Hope this helps :)

[jjlewis]

nothing wrong with doing it

[Hermes]

I know some branches of the Christian church are anti-masturbation but as far as I can see this is part of that particular church's doctrine with no evidence that this prohibition comes from God.

I know Christian teaching also includes resisting temptation but don't assume from that, that anything tempting is bad and should resisted. Some temptations, mostly those that hurt other people, need to be resisted, others don't matter.

So, on to masturbation. Masturbation is normal and common for anyone who has reached puberty and is doesn't hurt anyone. It's a way to get sexual relief and keep a lid on your horniness without dashing out to have casual sex and can thus avoid using people just to get off or risking pregnancy before you are ready.

[Jason_Monty]

Firstly you can't stop masturbation all at once. You can find a hobby. And then start cutting down from like 3times a day to 1 or 2 then do it every second day.

[leggie]

I masturbate at least 20 times a week. Should I cut it down?

[Wyatt 13]

Dude I think the problem is when we are avoiding doing things because we are jerking

[jamessapp]

i m a chronic masturbator (since my 6) and i masturbate 10 times every day

[Hercules]

I know some branches of the Christian church are anti-masturbation but as far as I can see this is part of that particular church's doctrine with no evidence that this prohibition comes from God.

I know Christian teaching also includes resisting temptation but don't assume from that, that anything tempting is bad and should resisted. Some temptations, mostly those that hurt other people, need to be resisted, others don't matter.

So, on to masturbation. Masturbation is normal and common for anyone who has reached puberty and is doesn't hurt anyone. It's a way to get sexual relief and keep a lid on your horniness without dashing out to have casual sex and can thus avoid using people just to get off or risking pregnancy before you are ready.

EVIDENCE
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell." Matthew 5:27-30

[ImCoolBeans]

Honestly, if you want to jerk off every day, that's fine. There's nothing wrong with that, there are people who do it even more than once per day, look around at other threads, most people are saying 1+. Totally normal, especially in your teenage years.

[jmw99]

just start by once a day and if you feel that is too much go to once every 2 days etc

[Hermes]

EVIDENCE
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell." Matthew 5:27-30

The usual definintion of adultery requires that one of the parties to it has to be married and not to the other party involved. That would mean that if you are single and you fantasise about a girl who is also single then you are not committing "adultery in thought", though if you don't interpret that the same as I and prefer not to fanasise then that is fine. That does not rule out masturbation.

[bigp0599]

Just that's what I always thought that too at first but now I'm ok with it

[WWEDDPYWC]

Don't worry buddy. You can stop. You just have to BO-LIEVE!

[Your Captain]

Dakota is right. It feels good and there is no problem with doing it so don't stop. I am also addicted; once I managed to stop for 25 days. I managed to do it as I was in love at if I masturbated I had to do it over something, if it was over her it would be a discrace but over another girl and it would be betrayel