bf going to far scared and dont know what to do

[thatgothgirluknow]

so my bf has been talking about sex for a while but he always says its up to me though im really afraid thats not the case cause lately my anxiety has been acting up really bad and so i cant stand for anyone to touch me or even to be around anyone but if im already around him when it gets that bad i uasully just tell him not to touch me witch means dnt kiss me dont hug me dont do anything i dont want to sit on your lap i just want my space he can talk to me but thats about it but he wont listen to me and it just makes my anxiety worse and on top of that he grabs me and forces me to kiss him and sometimes even touches me inapropetley but latley my anxiety has been so much worse pretty much every day of the week and hes only making i t worse plus hes been touching me allot more and i scream and yell at him to stop and fight him but its no use i dont know what to do i still love him and he does sometimes try to help with my anxiety by making me tea or sometimes sitting with me without touching me but lately he keeps touching me and im scared next time he wont stop at that but i dont know if i should brake up with him

[mrpieface2]

I would tell him to take a chill pill with the sexual stuff. If you don't want to do that stuff, tell him, or break up with him.

[thatgothgirluknow]

i have told him and he wont listen he'l sometimes even ask before hand and when i say no he'll do it anyways then apoligize but do the same thing latter that day

[gothy]

that is sexual assault. break up immedietly. dont mean to scare you. but hell only get worse or at best never change. break up now. if you are questioning it, then you know you should do it. be safe. :)

[thatgothgirluknow]

that is sexual assault. break up immedietly. dont mean to scare you. but hell only get worse or at best never change. break up now. if you are questioning it, then you know you should do it. be safe. :)

i know i should and i probley will but the thing is that i love him and i really like the rest of his family to and i would hate to ruin the relationship i have with them over the last year his mom has supported me in allot and i dont want to loose that

[gothy]

i was in same situation. i know how you feel. but i realise im better without my ex. think about it. Its a big decision. i wish you the best and please stay safe. i worry alot

[thatgothgirluknow]

i was in same situation. i know how you feel. but i realise im better without my ex. think about it. Its a big decision. i wish you the best and please stay safe. i worry alot
thanks

[gothy]

and do you love him or do you feel you have to love him? this was my conflict before i broke up too. Ill help you with what i can. :)

[thatgothgirluknow]

and do you love him or do you feel you have to love him? this was my conflict before i broke up too. Ill help you with what i can. :)

what do u mean?

[gothy]

what do u mean?

well u know how u said his family is really nice? well you may feel like you owe him or them to stay with him. deep down you know it isnt right or healthy to stay, but you still feel you must.

[Blood]

so my bf has been talking about sex for a while but he always says its up to me though im really afraid thats not the case cause lately my anxiety has been acting up really bad and so i cant stand for anyone to touch me or even to be around anyone but if im already around him when it gets that bad i uasully just tell him not to touch me witch means dnt kiss me dont hug me dont do anything i dont want to sit on your lap i just want my space he can talk to me but thats about it but he wont listen to me and it just makes my anxiety worse and on top of that he grabs me and forces me to kiss him and sometimes even touches me inapropetley but latley my anxiety has been so much worse pretty much every day of the week and hes only making i t worse plus hes been touching me allot more and i scream and yell at him to stop and fight him but its no use i dont know what to do i still love him and he does sometimes try to help with my anxiety by making me tea or sometimes sitting with me without touching me but lately he keeps touching me and im scared next time he wont stop at that but i dont know if i should brake up with him

i have told him and he wont listen he'l sometimes even ask before hand and when i say no he'll do it anyways then apoligize but do the same thing latter that day

Your boyfriend is making you do things you don't want to. I don't care how you look at it, it's wrong. The more you tolerate it, the more he's going to do it. It may escalate to the point where he rapes you. You've already asks him to stop and he won't. He isn't respecting you or your body.

I strongly advise you to end this relationship. It's not healthy and it can turn very dangerous very fast.

[thatgothgirluknow]

well u know how u said his family is really nice? well you may feel like you owe him or them to stay with him. deep down you know it isnt right or healthy to stay, but you still feel you must.
that kinda sounds true
Your boyfriend is making you do things you don't want to. I don't care how you look at it, it's wrong. The more you tolerate it, the more he's going to do it. It may escalate to the point where he rapes you. You've already asks him to stop and he won't. He isn't respecting you or your body.

I strongly advise you to end this relationship. It's not healthy and it can turn very dangerous very fast.
i think u guys may be right i should end it ill see him tomrrow maybe that would be a good time