How would you feel if your girlfriend was drinking?

[Poohteezy]

How would you feel if your girlfriend was drinking underage? Would you get offended if a guy always public talking about sex?

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, honestly, since I drink too it wouldn't really be a problem. As long as she can control the alcohol, and not get all fucked up and go crazy, then it's fine.

Would you get offended if a guy always public talking about sex?

I'm not sure if I understand. Could you word this question a little better?
If you're asking if a guy was talking about sex publicly would I be offended? Personally, no. But really you should only have sex talk amongst friends or people you know who are cool with it.

[Living For Love]

As long as it was with moderation, I wouldn't care much.

[CosmicNoodle]

Itbwouldnt bother me, so long as she could handle the amount she had I wouldn't mind. But if she was just plain drunk thennitbwould bother me, but only because I don't want her to accidentally hurt herself.
But if she wants to, I don't mind. I drink as well, not like I used to, these days its more of a social thing than an alcoholic thing.

[Rallo]

OP banned, though commenting anyway for anyone else who is in the same situation..

I've been in that situation where my girlfriend (now ex) was planning to drink a fair bit on her birthday (I'm talking they bought 3 x 30 packs of cans as well as shots and other drinks, for about ~5-10people...). I was NOT okay with this, I did not want her doing it.. It hurt me like hell when I said "I don't overly want you drinking that much:/" and she completely didn't care. If your situation is the same, then i know how you feel.

[Cognizant]

OP banned, though commenting anyway for anyone else who is in the same situation..

I've been in that situation where my girlfriend (now ex) was planning to drink a fair bit on her birthday (I'm talking they bought 3 x 30 packs of cans as well as shots and other drinks, for about ~5-10people...). I was NOT okay with this, I did not want her doing it.. It hurt me like hell when I said "I don't overly want you drinking that much:/" and she completely didn't care. If your situation is the same, then i know how you feel.

i've been in a similar situation, and it absolutely sucks when they don't give you the level of respect you try to give them.

[Typhlosion]

I'd rather if she didn't, because she'd probably be a better drinker than I :lol3:
I'd rather if she didn't, but I'm a hypocrite.

[Abyssal Echo]

I drink too so I don't think it would bother me too much.

[Vocabulous]

If they drink they can get the fuck out of my life frankly. But I am biased on the subject.

[Karkat]

OP banned, though commenting anyway for anyone else who is in the same situation..

I've been in that situation where my girlfriend (now ex) was planning to drink a fair bit on her birthday (I'm talking they bought 3 x 30 packs of cans as well as shots and other drinks, for about ~5-10people...). I was NOT okay with this, I did not want her doing it.. It hurt me like hell when I said "I don't overly want you drinking that much:/" and she completely didn't care. If your situation is the same, then i know how you feel.

i've been in a similar situation, and it absolutely sucks when they don't give you the level of respect you try to give them.

Would just like to add that while I'm an alcoholic, and therefore should be 'ok' with it or be a hypocrite, my drug abuse and alcoholism when I've been in relationships (and in general, really), have ALWAYS been in the context of trying to stop. Hating myself for it. Regretting my decisions.

If my boyfriend asked me not to, I wouldn't do it. If I did, I absolutely would care, I'd hate myself for doing it, and I'd beg him to forgive me, because I hate scaring him. I care about him, and his feelings, and I'd absolutely try to listen to him.

If someone has a problem, and they don't care about how you feel about it- or even more so, if they DON'T have a problem and they don't care how you feel, they're not worth the trouble. End of story. I mean, you don't want to leave someone who needs you, but get their family involved. Check them into rehab. Then kick their ass to the curb, at least for a while- because they will outright manipulate you. If they think they don't have to give you any respect, and they're abusing, the respect will not start coming in any time soon, and you deserve better- or, if nothing else, a break.

Even with family. Sometimes you have to have your fucking ass handed to you on a plate by life to get where you truly are- and even then sometimes you'll go right back where you started. :rolleyes: I would know.

Addicts do need help, but they don't need to be coddled. They need to take initiative, or things will never change. End of story.

[mrpieface2]

I would be mad at first, but I guess as long as she can control how much she drinks ( which means not getting drunk) I guess I'll be okay with it

[Rallo]

i've been in a similar situation, and it absolutely sucks when they don't give you the level of respect you try to give them.

That's exactly it!
I didn't want to be controlling and say "Don't do it.", so I simply went with "I don't overly want you drinking, it will really hurt me if you do." so she knew how I felt about it and knew it would hurt me, though it was her choice. She still went a head with it, but anyway.

[thatgothgirluknow]

if he didnt drink to much no but if he even gets close to drunk yes id freaking kill him but then again thats just cause i have experance with stuff like that and as for a guy allways talking about sex itd probley get anoying pretty fast and i would just aviod him

[gothy]

upset

[Luminous]

OP banned. :locked2: