Ive hurt my friend

[Soccertees]

For a while now ive been worried im gay, and had strong feelings towarda a friend of mine, i always seem to be looking at other friends and guys at school, i dont want to but i cant stop it.
My friend who ive known for a long time was at my house 2 days ago and we were having fun playing around i got a boner again and ive never felt so horny before, he noticed and put his hand on me to feel and rubbed a bit, dunno if he was maybe just having a laugh. but something took over me and i pushed him down on the floor and forced his hand down my jeans and tried to undo his jeans and he tried to stop me and was freaking out,but i didnt stop,and he ran off, i didnt mean to hurt him
Im so scared hes going to tell his parents what i did and hes not talking to me, i dont know how to make things ok, what should i do?
i could get into trouble for this couldnt i?

[Bull]

Yeah, an awkward situation. If anyone asks it was just two mates messing around. Give your friend some time and tell him you are sorry that you made him uncomfortable while the two of you were playing around. Do not act any different to him than has been the norm before the incident. Just continue as always. Remember, he put his hand on your boner first. Had he ever done that before? Have you ever touched him before? He started the whole thing. He may feel some guilt. I hope you guys continue to be friends. Keep us posted on outcome.

[Living For Love]

Try to meet him, apologise and explain the situation. It does sound you creeped him out, but we all make mistakes. Tell him you didn't thought about what you were doing and that you appreciate his friendship, and don't want to lose it over something like this.

[Soccertees]

hes never going to forgive me for this, he was crying, I think he thought I was going to really hurt him.
he wont meet me or let me come to his house, I think ive lost my friend for good.

[Bull]

hes never going to forgive me for this, he was crying, I think he thought I was going to really hurt him.
he wont meet me or let me come to his house, I think ive lost my friend for good.

So sorry to hear that. Give it time and continue to be open and friendly with him. Can you text him, message him on social media? Make the text/message very general, no details, just something like sometimes "horsing around gets out of control". Don't put pressure on him, but don't give up hope.

[Living For Love]

hes never going to forgive me for this, he was crying, I think he thought I was going to really hurt him.
he wont meet me or let me come to his house, I think ive lost my friend for good.

He pretty much though you were going to rape him or something, so his reaction is understandable, but you two are young pubescent teenagers, he understands that something our thoughts and desires might take the best of us. If you can't meet him personally, then try to get in touch with him through messages, e-mail, something like that, because even though he might not forgive you, you have the right to explain everything to him.

[kaydencorey]

You obviously realise that you made a big mistake here, and you scared your friend very much, he told you to stop and you didn't, if he hadn't run away how far would this have gone, so you have to accept responsibility for that.
However, I don't think you meant things to get out of hand like that and that's what you need to tell your friend if and when he's willing to talk to you.
But you have to be prepared that he might not trust you after this.
I wish you luck.

[Chrisscotland]

u assaulted him, hes going to find it hard to trust u after that, best leave him alone for a while

[centropede]

Hug him...if he allows, if not then really don't, he might be shocked that you touched him too much.... and if you touch him more....

[jjlewis]

u freaked him out big time if he was crying u should have stopped!

[TurboDieselBandit]

Any updates?

[CrazyPerson101]

For a while now ive been worried im gay, and had strong feelings towarda a friend of mine, i always seem to be looking at other friends and guys at school, i dont want to but i cant stop it.
My friend who ive known for a long time was at my house 2 days ago and we were having fun playing around i got a boner again and ive never felt so horny before, he noticed and put his hand on me to feel and rubbed a bit, dunno if he was maybe just having a laugh. but something took over me and i pushed him down on the floor and forced his hand down my jeans and tried to undo his jeans and he tried to stop me and was freaking out,but i didnt stop,and he ran off, i didnt mean to hurt him
Im so scared hes going to tell his parents what i did and hes not talking to me, i dont know how to make things ok, what should i do?
i could get into trouble for this couldnt i?

Well you screwed up big time.If he told you to stop you should have stopped. He probably thought you were going to rape him and I would have reacted the same way. Can you provide us with any updates , I would be able to help alittle better with more info.

[Soccertees]

I know I screwed up, seriously screwed up :( I never meant to hurt him, I really didn't.
Only update is that he eventually replied to one of my texts and told me to never come near him again because he thinks I will do the same again and if I go near him he's going to tell someone what happened :(

[Living For Love]

I know I screwed up, seriously screwed up :( I never meant to hurt him, I really didn't.
Only update is that he eventually replied to one of my texts and told me to never come near him again because he thinks I will do the same again and if I go near him he's going to tell someone what happened :(

If you think becoming friends with him again is almost impossible, at least try to make sure he knows you really regret what you did and that you'd never do it again. Perhaps the best thing to do is to tell him you're going to back off a bit now. He will probably get less afraid of you and won't tell anyone.

[deregisterme]

I know I screwed up, seriously screwed up :( I never meant to hurt him, I really didn't.
Only update is that he eventually replied to one of my texts and told me to never come near him again because he thinks I will do the same again and if I go near him he's going to tell someone what happened :(

You might have to give him some space. Other than sending an apology (which you've probably already done), there's not a lot you can do :-(

[Wyatt 13]

Damn dude, you made a mistake BUT that doesn't make u a bad or pervert PERSON. Was just your behavior what he was scared of. Give him some time. At first you did the right think apologize. AND any way what was your plan? I mean What really u wanted to do? Blow him or what?

[Biscuithead13]

Sometimes you just have to accept the loss. It hurts deep, but If you've already tried to apologize for your actions and has replied nothing besides telling you he wishes to no longer have contact with you, you honestly have no choice but to respect his wishes. I've been on both ends of this and it sucks, but its just a mistake you learn from, and believe it or not, it will make you a stronger person in the long run :)