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Jack russell dad
May 21st, 2014, 04:57 PM
Ok guys, I've never dated anyone, and i want to know my sexuality. I've never been attracted to anyone, until a year ago. A couple of guys moved to school, and i guess you could say i was attracted to them. I would imagine myself kissing them, and imagine them naked. My crush on them has faded. Now, when i think of sex with Guy, i get fully aroused. When i think of sex with a girl, i get little to no arousal. And if i have a hard on, and i think of sex with a girl, i lose my hard on. I think I'm gay but what do you think?

trackstar15
May 21st, 2014, 05:13 PM
Hmmm yea you might be gay. Do you just feel sexually attracted to guys? Or emotionally too?

Jack russell dad
May 21st, 2014, 05:34 PM
Hmmm yea you might be gay. Do you just feel sexually attracted to guys? Or emotionally too?

Just sexually, i don't think i have found the one yet. But i can picture myself kissing a Guy, and would have no problem spending my life with one. I just wanted other people's opinions cause i Keep second guessing myself, but I'm positive I'm gay.

Luminous
May 21st, 2014, 06:37 PM
It sounds to me like you're gay, but don't worry about it to much. Gay is just a word. Just allow yourself to like who you like and be attracted to who you're attracted to. It'll all come together at some point. I truly believe that one day you'll find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, and whether that's a guy, girl, or anyone else, who cares, because you love them.
If you need someone to talk to, I'm always here.

beenthere
May 21st, 2014, 06:56 PM
Its pretty normal to fantasize about other guys in puberty. I don't think you should worry about it too much. maybe your gay or bi, but give things a chance, the whole world can change with a kiss. So just hang in there and see what happends.

Jack russell dad
May 21st, 2014, 07:09 PM
Yeah, i guess you guys are right, thanks. I'm just one of those people who over think stuff

Its pretty normal to fantasize about other guys in puberty. I don't think you should worry about it too much. maybe your gay or bi, but give things a chance, the whole world can change with a kiss. So just hang in there and see what happends.

But see, i wanted to date him. I liked him more than just physically. Well, two of them, anyways. It was more than a fantasy. Plus I'd rather be with a Guy. I've never found a woman attractive, or atleast not enough to arouse me, whereas when i was around one of my crushes in particular, i always felt like i was in a better mood.