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MatthewC
May 20th, 2014, 07:21 PM
I don't know if this goes here but i am trying to stop or at least lower my masturbation to few times a week but i keep getting the urge to masturbate


My question is have you ever done this and how did u do it?


Thx if you post

gevans604
May 20th, 2014, 07:28 PM
I did it once but I didnt last long. I tried to stay busy so by the time I usually jerked off I was to tired to.

Stronger
May 20th, 2014, 08:13 PM
If you want to masturbate less, whenever those urges pop up try and focus your mind onto other matters. Play some video games, go outside whatever helps distract your mind.

DeletedAccount123
May 20th, 2014, 08:34 PM
I decided to wait up to a week between times, because it's way more intense for me when I do. So for me, the main factor is how amazing it's going to feel when I finally do go for it. It's like 100x more fun if I've waited.

Jaseblader
May 20th, 2014, 08:39 PM
I am trying to do that now and what I do is, every time I get the urge to J/o I think its disgusting even though I know its not. I also think about how I put tissue in my Underwear in order to keep the cum from dripping onto my underwear 'cuz I don't like it being there because sometimes I sleep in my underwear and when my older brother wakes me up, he rips the covers off of my bed.

casperathome
May 22nd, 2014, 12:59 AM
For the life of me I do not understand why guys wanna give up something so pleasurable, so relief giving and anxiety relieving. It can take only minutes of your time, helps you go to sleep and starts your day out just right. It is not harmful and proven to keep the pipes open and prostrate running right. Is not harmful in any way and 99.9 % of all guys do it. There are no religious arguments (other than priests making you feel guilty). My parents think it's quite normal. I jerk like 2-3 x a day. people should stop obsessing about it and just treat it a normal part of being. Period. You don't feel guilty about pooping or peeing do you? It's a personal thing and both guys and girls both do. Sorry but just get over it and enjoy it.!! IT'S JUST NOT A BIG DEAL. Everyone on this site does it and so do ALL of your friends.

casperathome
May 22nd, 2014, 01:04 AM
Sorry to rant. It is not disgusting. It's what most people do. If you feel guilty it's what your parents or religion has put on you. Fortunately for me I have liberal open minded parents. Some of you don't. As a teen you have certain rights to privacy and what you do to your body. Sorry guys only my *liberal* opinion.

Bull
May 22nd, 2014, 06:21 AM
Why would you want to stop something that brings you so much pleasure? Cut down on frequency, maybe, but stop completely? NO WAY!

ComfortableInChaos
May 26th, 2014, 06:57 PM
I've gone like, 2-3 days without jerking off, but I'm gonna do it tonight. Idk why you'd wanna stop, that's like saying you don't ever wanna have sex.

reiddec2
May 26th, 2014, 07:59 PM
Honestly, do you homework, i know it sounds lame but it helps!

Jason_Monty
May 28th, 2014, 11:48 AM
2-3 days.

Sir Suomi
May 28th, 2014, 11:52 AM
Honestly, I don't have the time for it anymore, so these days when I'm given an opportunity I will masturbate. It's up to you on how much you want to do it, and as long as it doesn't take up your whole day, it's fine to do it often.

CrazyPerson101
May 28th, 2014, 12:15 PM
I don't know if this goes here but i am trying to stop or at least lower my masturbation to few times a week but i keep getting the urge to masturbate


My question is have you ever done this and how did u do it?


Thx if you post


Stay busy , don't stop working or you will get the urge and wind up doing it

AndrewWiggins
June 23rd, 2014, 12:29 PM
I would just do it whenever you want to.

briefsboy
June 23rd, 2014, 03:04 PM
ive never been able to stop. the urge just builds up and i keep thinking about how good it is. I cant see a reason why you should force yourself to stop if you enjoy it.

TheFSM
June 24th, 2014, 03:48 AM
I've done this before. However I'm interested in many things and lately I've been distracting myself by learning Japanese. So, just find something that interests you and that you can do on a regular basis and do that whenever you feel the urge to masturbate. Particularly something mentally taxing, like reading.

Stripling
June 24th, 2014, 07:02 AM
distract yourself with other things. try not to be alone in a room with a computer! it is really hard though so just think hard about your reasons for doing it and i think in the end it just comes down to willpower - which I know I lack :/

Body odah Man
June 24th, 2014, 07:13 AM
I don't know if this goes here but i am trying to stop or at least lower my masturbation to few times a week but i keep getting the urge to masturbate


My question is have you ever done this and how did u do it?


Thx if you post

I have the same problem you're having ATM and it SUCKS. I can last a few days or so but then I cave, despite prayers and attempting to resist. There is however a Wikihow article on stopping a masturbation addiction written for teens and irate moms of teens and I've also made a thread named 'resisting the urge' which may contain some helpful tips. Good luck and best wishes

ChaseDakoda
June 24th, 2014, 09:16 AM
Why give up? Its natural and mother nature gave you the toold to take care if it so do it.

mattjh-
June 24th, 2014, 10:36 AM
I have tried not to masturbate for a while. I know it's really tough. What you have to do is try doing a lot of sports of just keep yourself busy. Don't do anything that you think is boring because you will start thinking about sex if you're bored. Just do anything that you like!

MyPlague2014
June 24th, 2014, 12:07 PM
Ive gone two weeks without doing it lol then I couldnt hold off any longer but thats just me

Suave
June 24th, 2014, 12:48 PM
Just don't think about it. Like if the thought of masturbation comes up just counter it with something else. Keep yourself busy so you don't have time to masturbate.

swimmerguy72
June 25th, 2014, 12:42 AM
The only times I did this is when I was away at camp for 2 weeks and also when I've had to share a room in school trips

Hideous
June 25th, 2014, 12:45 AM
There's nothing wrong with masturbating too "often", it's actually really healthy to masturbate a lot. If you're really that desperate to stop, I recommended participating in activities such as exercising, playing video games, walking outside, dancing, doing homework...etc.

LokaChris
June 25th, 2014, 12:58 AM
OK!!.. I really don't understand why you would want to stop wanking but in any way.. I have found that if im real bussy the day and tyred the night I don't get the urge to wank AT ALL.. hope it helps