guys, i need help

[Jack russell dad]

Ok, where i live, there was only one gay Guy( that is out of the closet) and he graduated. I was never interested in him, but i think I'm the only gay Guy here now. I have one Guy i had a crush on but it has faded, like all my crushes. And I've never had any kind of bf or gf so i dont have relationship experience( im really basing my sexuality off my crushes and the fact ive never been attracted to a girl). I really want a date. I have only had three crushes, and of the three guys i like, i know neither is gay, which sucks. Anybody in the same boat? I want a date bad! Any advice?

[DerBear]

Sadly if none of your crushes are gay then you just have to move on. I know this isn't helpful advice but the only option is, is to find someone you like who is. At 15 having a relationship and dating someone does seem important, especially when you have others around you who are going into relationships but its not the end of the world if you don't have one because waiting to find someone who you like and waiting to find someone who'll like you back is much more worth it than going out with someone who you aren't attracted to.

[yeahsure]

move somewhere else, or sell yourself to someone rich on ebay.

seriously though, it's difficult for anyone to tell you how to get a date. i'm sure there must be other gay/bi guys near you, even if you aren't aware of who they are.. how you find them is partly down to how social you are, and being able to identify them..

[Jack russell dad]

Sadly if none of your crushes are gay then you just have to move on. I know this isn't helpful advice but the only option is, is to find someone you like who is. At 15 having a relationship and dating someone does seem important, especially when you have others around you who are going into relationships but its not the end of the world if you don't have one because waiting to find someone who you like and waiting to find someone who'll like you back is much more worth it than going out with someone who you aren't attracted to.

Yea, i guess your right. I hope theirs a Guy waiting on me. I really want someone to call my own and love me the way I'd love them. Thanks

move somewhere else, or sell yourself to someone rich on ebay.

seriously though, it's difficult for anyone to tell you how to get a date. i'm sure there must be other gay/bi guys near you, even if you aren't aware of who they are.. how you find them is partly down to how social you are, and being able to identify them..

I've tried getting my parents to move, they won't. Course that was years ago, but. I can talk, but if i was to ask someone if they was gay, or if they liked me, I'd either get beat up or a yes. Thanks anyways

[yeahsure]

I've tried getting my parents to move, they won't. Course that was years ago, but. I can talk, but if i was to ask someone if they was gay, or if they liked me, I'd either get beat up or a yes. Thanks anyways

it's the same for everyone to be fair.

i don't think asking someone outright about being gay is something anyone does.

You need to 'sense' if they like you, and if so, build a friendship, and see what happens.

As i said before, it's extremely unlikely you are 'the only gay Guy here now', even if you feel that way out of frustration, as statistically that isn't possible.

Yes, you may be the only gay person that you personally are aware of, whether you are open about that i don't know, but many are not, but that is a different issue.

you'll only meet people through extensive socialising, whether that is in person or online, through making new friends, or clubs or events, but that requires you to make that happen, and a good eye for people who you think you have a chance with..

[Jack russell dad]

it's the same for everyone to be fair.

i don't think asking someone outright about being gay is something anyone does.

You need to 'sense' if they like you, and if so, build a friendship, and see what happens.

As i said before, it's extremely unlikely you are 'the only gay Guy here now', even if you feel that way out of frustration, as statistically that isn't possible.

Yes, you may be the only gay person that you personally are aware of, whether you are open about that i don't know, but many are not, but that is a different issue.

you'll only meet people through extensive socialising, whether that is in person or online, through making new friends, or clubs or events, but that requires you to make that happen, and a good eye for people who you think you have a chance with..
Yea, i guess i never thought about it that way. I can join a few extra curriculum activities. Thanks