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[zacharooo]

:confused:if you guys have a friends who knows your gay or bi how did they react and are they gay or bi? :confused:
the thing is i have a friend i wanna tell that i may be bi or curious.
i definetly know im not gay because i dont love some guys like i would love a gurl

[Whisper]

General Questions, Polls and Surveys ---> Teen Sexuality
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[RaisingSand]

Sexuality is a very confusing thing during your teenage years, as most people here know.
I'd say don't tell anyone about this until you're absolutely certain you're bisexual, because being bi-curious at your age is very common.
If there someone you could talk to, a trusted adult or school guidance counsellor or a help line you could call, I think that would be very benefitcial.
And hey, if you are bi, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. And if your friends are really your true friends, they'll accept you and treat you the same as they always have. :)

[Hippie]

I'm Bi, and basically I'm not afraid to admit it to friends on the internet. but around school and stuff I just can't at this time. But I told my friend Mike 2 years ago. And it turned out he was aswell. I no I haven't told any other friends but if this guy is really one of your best friends like my friend mike was, He shouldn't hate you for your sexuality. Its your choice. If he hates you for it, it must mean he's not even worth being a friend. He probably will be a bit freaked at first if he's like some of my friends. But still you are who you are, you can't help it ^.^, good luck dude :cool:.


Hippie

[Myself]

im bi, but i can't tell, gossip at my school, id be an social outcast in a day

[Mr. Smithers]

Well I was never afraid to come out to my friends at school. It was just my family that I was worried about.

But anyways, they sort of already knew by the way I talked how I always hanged out with the girls and such and such. And it was really a no shocker.

And I came out when a new boy in our school moved in and he was gay.

[redcar]

All the people I have told have been straight and have had mixed reactions. Some didn't care, others were like "OOOHHH REEEAAAALLLLLY?!!" followed by a bit of shock, and then some were "OOOKKKK thats weird...." then we would never bring it up again.

[MoveAlong]

I came out to one of my friends a few months ago. I met her at school, but told her over the internet when she had to move away. She said she always knew, she just waited until I wanted to tell her. She's completely awesome :D

[MisterKool00]

Well, I'm Bi and i have a few friends who know. I told my best friend and i knew i could trust him and he has been the best support i could have asked for. If you decide to tell this friend make sure it wont affect your relationship in a negative way. On the flip side this could really benefit your relationship, making you stronger friends and he could be support like my friend is.

[goin to work]

um i told my riend kelly i was bi and lik outher people and evcery ones bemm co0ll wit it

[chris__robin]

well i told most of my friends who i thought were straight at the time

... funnily enough most of my friends are gay or lesbian now. so were all very accepting of each other :)

[Dom]

well i was afraid of telling ppl i was bi but i came out and told like 10 of my close friends and they said that it wasnt a big deal and one even told me that they saw it coming but didnt care. it spread around the school and in less than a week everyone knew. almost everyone was ok with it. But also remember that there will always be ppl against it with whatever their personal reasons are. Trust me there are a few here in my town but after a week or so it goes away and becomes something normal. I have ppl that have become my friends in the last month and they are hardcore straight yet they mess with me knowing i'm bi but no one is afraid or really cares cause we all have accepted that its something i had no control over and that im still the same person i always was.

[GRB123]

I am afraid to tell my family. And as for school even though i live in massachusets were gay marrige is legal I would get the crap beat out of me for being gay or bi.

[Hippie]

I know I'm bi, but I haven't told any real life friends about it yet.

And if your friends are really your true friends, they'll accept you and treat you the same as they always have. :)

I agree ;).


Hippie

[Bryan B]

I'm bi and i don't have problem telling online but whit friends at school or that i see them every day i haven't tell anyone i have been thinking to tell it to my Best Friend that I'm bi but i still don't know if should do it.

[Oblivion]

Sexuality is a very confusing thing during your teenage years, as most people here know.
I'd say don't tell anyone about this until you're absolutely certain you're bisexual, because being bi-curious at your age is very common.
If there someone you could talk to, a trusted adult or school guidance counsellor or a help line you could call, I think that would be very benefitcial.
And hey, if you are bi, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. And if your friends are really your true friends, they'll accept you and treat you the same as they always have. :)

100% on the spot! Awesome post!

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i can tell every 1 on the net that i am bi but i can't do it in really life i only tell my best friends and they have all taken it good

[ssgliberty]

I'm bi and i don't have problem telling online but whit friends at school or that i see them every day i haven't tell anyone i have been thinking to tell it to my Best Friend that I'm bi but i still don't know if should do it.

me to i dont have a problem tell in people on this website it`s all teens but my friends hah thay`ll make fun of me and everyone at school will know i mean i dont care people know but too many people will know:D:)

[Vermillion]

I've only told one person that I am bi and that was my best friend. I turst him more than I trust my own brother (Which is pretty sad, actually). Though I will say this though, he did however tell someone else who was aslo bi, because he apparently thought since that person was also bi it would be okay.
Pissed off I was but he just didn't fully understand that a secret was a secret no matter what. So yeah, he and that bi friend of his knows (He's in colledge now).

Also, on top of that, two other people in the school know since I was basically tryin' to hook up with them. The first of which explained to me that he was actually straight (He proved it by staring at me in class XD), and the second dude apparently did like me but eventually got freaked out that he liked another guy. Yeah, Texas is no fun for that kind of stuff =/

[chunkymonky30281]

It took me almost a year to tell my best friend that im gay. he accepted me the way i am and were still best friends. I told my mom a few months ago and she had allready figured it out, but im waiting to tell the rest of my family. If you do decide to tell anyone dont get to stressed out and do bad things, i kept it in since middle school and i started cutting becouse of what my family was saying about gay/bi people.

[Mr. Smithers]

I'm sorry you had to resort to cutting because of how your parents would accept you. Did you ever come out to them?

[chunkymonky30281]

not yet

[kitkat92]

I have told 1 friend im bi an she was ok eith it and promised not 2 tell any1 unless i wanted her 2

[Never_Forget]

I told my friend I love him.
He took it well.
But he's so awesome, the most amazing trustworthy person I've ever met.
So, like, if you have a friend you know you can trust,
tell them.
Trust is the difference between truth and lies.

[Zephyr]

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