girlfriend love

[nudyboy14]

Hi. My gf has been coming "on" to me latly, shes been showing off and spending alot of time close to me, and stuff. What is she trying to tell me?

[Body odah Man]

Hi. My gf has been coming "on" to me latly, shes been showing off and spending alot of time close to me, and stuff. What is she trying to tell me?

Either a guilty conscience...or she's going through the feelings of King Kandaules who, as Herodotus writes, 'fell in love with his wife'. Perhaps it is love that drives her actions?

[nudyboy14]

Either a guilty conscience...or she's going through the feelings of King Kandaules who, as Herodotus writes, 'fell in love with his wife'. Perhaps it is love that drives her actions?

Love? She has been really, really nice to me latly. Also, shes started to call me "my dan".

[Bull]

Sounds like she wants to move the relationship up a level, or two from where it is currently. If you are wanting the same then give as is given. If not don't but she may turn cool toward you. You have to evaluate what you want out of the current relationship.

[deregisterme]

It sounds like she's flirting with you, and she's a bit more horny

[Elysium]

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[nudyboy14]

It sounds like she's flirting with you, and she's a bit more horny

Do girls even get horny?

[TheBigUnit]

*cough*she wants the D*cough*

[nudyboy14]

Sounds like she wants to move the relationship up a level, or two from where it is currently. If you are wanting the same then give as is given. If not don't but she may turn cool toward you. You have to evaluate what you want out of the current relationship.

How do i let her know im ready?

[deregisterme]

Do girls even get horny?

Yes they do :-). They can get all hot and flustered.

[Living For Love]

It means she wants to get closer to you, and take the relationship to a new level. Make sure you two set your own boundaries, and don't let the other make something they don't want.

[nudyboy14]

*cough*she wants the D*cough*

Oh. Um...

[deregisterme]

How do i let her know im ready?

When she gets close to you, cuddle her, and see what happens from there. Otherwise, have a talk with her

[nudyboy14]

Yes they do :-). They can get all hot and flustered.

I had no idea, how can you tell? From their body?

When she gets close to you, cuddle her, and see what happens from there. Otherwise, have a talk with her

I will

[TheBigUnit]

I had no idea, how can you tell? From their body?

her "showing off" is a start

[deregisterme]

I had no idea, how can you tell? From their body?

They get the same feelings we do, the dreaminess, fast heart rate, being distracted, not paying attention and so on. Even that tingly "down there".

[nudyboy14]

her "showing off" is a start

That explains alot, so thats what teasing is?

They get the same feelings we do, the dreaminess, fast heart rate, being distracted, not paying attention and so on. Even that tingly "down there".

Ya thats pretty much her right now, but im not sure about down there.

[TheBigUnit]

That explains alot, so thats what teasing is?

buddy i have no idea if this is sarcasm or if your serious...if shes showing any part of her body she wont usually in public...ie. underwear or more... generally mean shes really close with u and poss in the mood, hmm follow her lead mate and you should be fine

[deregisterme]

I will

That explains alot, so thats what teasing is?

Basically yes. I think girls can be a bit more "subtle" that way. I think boys can be more direct when they want these sort of things. I think girls can be more indirect when they're trying to hint that they like you! let us know how it goes

Ya thats pretty much her right now, but im not sure about down there.

Yeah - that bit is more obvious with us boys. We get erections...

[nudyboy14]

Basically yes. I think girls can be a bit more "subtle" that way. I think boys can be more direct when they want these sort of things. I think girls can be more indirect when they're trying to hint that they like you! let us know how it goes



Yeah - that bit is more obvious with us boys. We get erections...

Right.

buddy i have no idea if this is sarcasm or if your serious...if shes showing any part of her body she wont usually in public...ie. underwear or more... generally mean shes really close with u and poss in the mood, hmm follow her lead mate and you should be fine

What if i do something wrong!

[deregisterme]

What if i do something wrong!

Just take it slow. It is partly about communication. Given how she is playing, gently putting your arm round her (whilst giving the chance that she could push your arm back) for example is not going too overboard. There's just no quick answer other than seeing what happens and communication.

[Horatio Nelson]

buddy i have no idea if this is sarcasm or if your serious...if shes showing any part of her body she wont usually in public...ie. underwear or more... generally mean shes really close with u and poss in the mood, hmm follow her lead mate and you should be fine

Yeah dude, how can you not know when a girl wants you? Unless of course you are super young or something?

[nudyboy14]

Yeah dude, how can you not know when a girl wants you? Unless of course you are super young or something?

Shes being all subtle, its not like she came up to me and said "blah, blah, blah"!

Just take it slow. It is partly about communication. Given how she is playing, gently putting your arm round her (whilst giving the chance that she could push your arm back) for example is not going too overboard. There's just no quick answer other than seeing what happens and communication.

Ok, thanks for the help.

[TheBigUnit]

Shes being all subtle, its not like she came up to me and said "blah, blah, blah"!

how old are you bud? andd trust me if shes teasing her means u should get up and hook up with her hahahah

[Horatio Nelson]

Shes being all subtle, its not like she came up to me and said "blah, blah, blah"!

That's what you have to be able to read body language. It really helps.

[nudyboy14]

how old are you bud? andd trust me if shes teasing her means u should get up and hook up with her hahahah

14, shes already my gf

[TheBigUnit]

14, shes already my gf

all the more reason to hook up with her when she does that

[nudyboy14]

all the more reason to hook up with her when she does that

Why, shes my gf. Were already "hooked up".

[TheBigUnit]

Why, shes my gf. Were already "hooked up".

her teasing you means she prob wants to at tht moment

[nudyboy14]

her teasing you means she prob wants to at tht moment

What, you mean like....

[Menzis]

Get to the next level buddy.

[nudyboy14]

So soon?!

[TheBigUnit]

What, you mean like....

Kiss, or hook up, or more than touching