Do I have a reason to be annoyed?

[jombo]

I was friends with a girl online for 7 months, and 6 weeks ago we decided to date. We were very close, so at the start of us dating we stayed as we were before until we both cobfessed our love to eachother. Soon after, she started telling me when she was wet and was actually masturbating while typing. Then I did the same before we decided to type yto eachother while we both masturbated. We did that for a while, and now she's mentioned we should masturbatr together in a call but mute as we orgasm. Some things she wants to leave until we meet in person, which is at least 18 months away. So, she wants to masturbate in a call together, but not share orgasm sounds, or any photos in underwear or less until we meet in person. Do I have a right to be annoyed by this?

[Blood]

I mean, you can honestly be annoyed for whatever reasons you want. If you don't like something, that's your problem.

But this girl is not at fault. If she's not comfortable doing more, don't pressure her. It's her body and her decisions.

[DerBear]

I mean, you can honestly be annoyed for whatever reasons you want. If you don't like something, that's your problem.

But this girl is not at fault. If she's not comfortable doing more, don't pressure her. It's her body and her decisions.

Exactly this,

What seems even more odd is that by the sounds of it you've met this girl online right? So to me it seems odd she want's to do anything sexual over the internet.

[jombo]

I mean, you can honestly be annoyed for whatever reasons you want. If you don't like something, that's your problem.

But this girl is not at fault. If she's not comfortable doing more, don't pressure her. It's her body and her decisions.

Isn't it a bit weird to want to go that far with me in a call but shut off as soon as anything involving her is mentioned? She's the one that initiated the sexual stuff in calls/typing and then mentioned she didn't want to do this.

You know, I'm not against the fact she doesn't want to do it, I just see it as how she can easily wait 18 months for anything like that. You know, as if seeing me isn't important to her.

[Blood]

Isn't it a bit weird to want to go that far with me in a call but shut off as soon as anything involving her is mentioned? She's the one that initiated the sexual stuff in calls/typing and then mentioned she didn't want to do this.

Maybe she's just shy. It's one thing to talk about things but it's a whole different ball game when it comes to actually doing them.

I'm glad you're not against it. I'm sure seeing you is important to her. Have you spoken to her about what you're telling us?

[jombo]

Maybe she's just shy. It's one thing to talk about things but it's a whole different ball game when it comes to actually doing them.

I'm glad you're not against it. I'm sure seeing you is important to her. Have you spoken to her about what you're telling us?

I guess.

I have. She just says she's weird and she wants it to be special, and then changes topic.