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meme101
May 20th, 2014, 09:34 AM
I love them and my mom thinks I have a problem but I don't think so. Basically I was in a relationship with a guy and he was five years older than me, since he was of age its considered rape, but it never went anywhere beyond kissing, but then I cant tell my mom because she would be pissed, I cant help the way I feel about the guys but is anyone feeling the same or have any advise? mainly from guys, but to the guys do you have a problem with younger girls?
Living For Love
May 20th, 2014, 09:42 AM
I also like older guys, I just can't stand immaturity. I think it's fine as long as the age gap doesn't get too big, honestly. 5 years old, considering you're 15, might be a bit large, but if you were 20, for instance, it wouldn't seem that bad. I guess when you get older you won't have much of an issue.
meme101
May 20th, 2014, 09:44 AM
Yeah but when im with the guys they all say "you don't look 15"
Living For Love
May 20th, 2014, 10:09 AM
Yeah but when im with the guys they all say "you don't look 15"
It doesn't matter if you look older physically, mentality is what is important. On the other hand, it's not your fault that you look older than what you really are, is it? So you don't have to blame yourself for that. A lot of people I know say that I look younger, probably because I'm quite skinny, but I like it that way, so you don't have to worry.
Babs
May 20th, 2014, 12:19 PM
Older guys can be hot yeah. I think it's wrong of him to still date you because it can get both of you into huge trouble and he knows that, and because he's the adult and
sort of takes responsibility in my opinion. I think an age gap that large is only okay when you're both above the legal age of consent, not only because it's illegal, but because your brain is not fully developed, you're still young an immature and it would be easy for him to overpower and manipulate you, even if it doesn't seem like it.
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